As the twin flame chaser in the relationship, you must’ve grown tired of pursuing the ‘runner.’
This stage – also known as surrender – is normal.
You might not know it, but you may already be exhibiting (or experiencing) these 12 signs of chaser surrender:
1) You’ve stopped obsessing about getting back together
As the chaser in the relationship, you’ve always been hell-bent on getting your twin flame back.
So goes your name. You’ll chase after them – to the ends of the world if need be.
You may even resort to starting a new relationship – just to make the runner jealous!
That said, once you’ve surrendered, you’ll find yourself less concerned about the union.
It’s not that you’ve stopped caring about your twin flame – you still do.
It’s not a feeling that dissipates quickly. They’re your mirror soul, after all.
The only difference is that you’re not obsessed with reuniting with them – at least for the time being.
You know in your heart that it’s going to happen soon.
You’ve stopped struggling because you know that what’s meant to be will always find its way to you.
You know that good things will only occur if you surrender yourself.
Indeed, they’ll arrive when you least expect it.
2) Your personal power has grown exponentially
During the height of your runner-chaser dynamic, you might have placed all decisions by the wayside.
You may have found it hard to pick what restaurant to dine in or what tiles you need for the bathroom.
Sadly, it may have affected your ability to settle on the big things as well.
You’re so engrossed with chasing them that you put off life-making decisions, such as getting a new job or moving to a new city.
As a Guardian article explains it:
“When your brain gets overloaded, it starts to look for ways out. You are liable to put off decisions, make them rashly, pretend there isn’t a problem, or get stuck painfully wavering. As if that isn’t bad enough, you may also find yourself losing your temper, binge eating, or impulse buying.”
One of the good things about twin chaser surrender is that it allows you to focus more on yourself.
Slowly but surely, you’ll find your personal power growing exponentially.
Psychologist Robert W. Firestone, Ph.D. describes it as something that “represents a movement toward self-realization and transcendent goals in life; its primary aim is mastery of self, not others.”
“It is self-assertion and a natural, healthy striving for love, satisfaction, and meaning in one’s interpersonal world.”
With this new and improved personal power, you get to improve yourself more. This, after all, is a critical element for an eventual twin flame reunion.
3) A gifted advisor confirms your surrender
Have you reached the end of your rope with your twin flame?
I was in the same place last year when I just finally got tired of chasing my twin flame.
I’d always been curious about speaking to a psychic, so I decided to go for it.
The first place I tried was garbage and had nothing to offer, but I kept looking.
That’s when I found Psychic Source.
It was completely different, and the gifted spiritual advisor there really helped me understand the pattern of the twin flame chaser surrender.
I was blown away by how kind, understanding, and genuinely helpful they were.
They are incredibly knowledgeable about the dynamics of twin flame relationships. Most importantly, they can also empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to love.
4) You’ve grown spiritually, too
Surrender does more than just bring personal improvement. It can help you grow spiritually, too.
For one, surrender helps you grow as a person.
Incidentally, this is the foremost requirement for spiritual growth.
You develop an unwavering commitment to improve and prioritize your body and spirit.
By doing so, you end up developing the characteristics of a spiritual person:
- You know love is a choice – and that it’s not always lovely
- You’re no longer judgmental
- You’re kinder and more charitable
- You believe in the saying “to each his own”
- You know for a fact that there are many truths in this mortal world
- You’re not particular about other people’s religions
More importantly, your spiritual growth will make you realize that you can love your twin flame unconditionally – even if they keep on running away from you.
You know for a fact that you’ll be together soon – just like you did before. It doesn’t matter what obstacles lie ahead, for they’ll eventually come back to you shortly.
5) You believe in yourself more
During the height of the runner-chaser stage, you may end up developing a lot of self-doubts.
As author Dr. Margie Warrell explains:
“Self-doubt is part and parcel of the human experience. (If) left unchecked, the fear that fuels our doubt can drive us to be over cautious and keep us from taking the very actions that would help us and serve others.”
Indeed, twin flame relationships can be so intense that you lose faith in the relationship – and yourself.
I mean, it’s easy to get disheartened whenever your twin flame runner denies their feelings – and pushes you away.
That’s why surrendering is often a good sign. It helps you accept the fact that they’re gone for now – and they’ll eventually come back.
Little by little, you get to build the confidence that you lost during the chase.
As you start to believe in yourself more, you get to express and assert yourself better.
You no longer have to miss out on opportunities.
More importantly, you no longer feel powerless about your ability to change and improve things.
You know for a fact that you’ve done all that you can do. Yes, it’s up to the runner to finally recognize all your efforts to reconnect.
6) You love yourself more
Another downside to the runner-chaser dynamic is that the latter often lets themselves go.
They’re so focused on getting their twin flame back that they disregard their general health and well-being.
It may take you months (even years) to realize what you’ve done is wrong, and once you do, everything changes for the better.
That includes loving yourself more.
During chaser surrender, you resign to the fact that your twin flame has gone (at least temporarily.)
They’ve run away because they can’t handle the union. They find it easier to distance themselves rather than work on themselves.
And while you may constantly think of them, you slowly realize that you need to think of yourself too.
“Focusing on yourself and your happiness is just as important (if not more important at times) than working on the happiness of your relationship,” explains one article.
You finally take the time to eat right and exercise more, among other beautiful things.
Needless to say, once you love yourself more, beautiful things (such as a reunion) will eventually fall into place.
As psychologist Juliana Breines, Ph.D. summarizes it:
“Without sufficient self-love, we’re not capable of truly loving others.”
7) You’ve re-aligned yourself with your life’s purpose
Maybe you’ve spent a great deal of your time chasing that you’ve lost track of your life’s purpose.
It’s as if you’ve disregarded the “central motivating aims of your life—the reasons you get up in the morning.”
A good thing about twin chaser surrender is that you get to focus on yourself more.
As such, you’ll find it easier to re-align yourself with your life’s purposes once again.
Needless to say, this is a very positive (and surprising) sign.
After all, “Purpose can guide life decisions, influence behavior, shape goals, offer a sense of direction, and create meaning.”
Contrary to popular beliefs, pursuing your life’s purpose is not a selfish or self-serving journey. It’s a matter of “recognizing your own gifts and using them to contribute to the world.”
Remember: when you put your own values first, you get to be a whole and complete person.
Just think of it as the universe’s way of preparing you for a long-awaited reunion.
If you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.
So instead of trying to figure out the significance and impact of surrendering, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the necessary guidance you need.
8) You focus on the things that make you happy
As the chaser in the relationship, you’re used to doing everything for the runner to make them happy.
Now that they’re gone, you finally have the time to prioritize yourself.
You know you’ve surrendered yourself fully once you’ve focused on the things that make you happy.
You no longer care what your twin flame thinks about your hobbies or pastimes.
You’re doing that makes you happy because you know in your heart that you deserve them. You’ve sacrificed a lot for your twin flame – and now’s the best time to put yourself first.
Doing what makes you happy is not only good for your mirror soul – it benefits you both mentally and physically as well.
For one, it can make you feel more confident, which, as mentioned, is another surprising sign of twin chaser surrender.
Other benefits of doing what makes you happy include:
- Reduced stress
- Alleviated pain
- Improved immunity
- A ‘protected’ heart and brain
- A longer life
9) You’ve become emotionally mature
Surrendering comes with many perks – one of which is being more mature.
After all, you build more clarity along the way.
You understand that life is complex, and you accept it with open arms.
You realize that you need to improve yourself, for change should come deep within yourself.
Here are some other signs that you’ve become more mature along the way:
- You feel calm and peaceful
- You’re flexible and open
- You’re selfless
- You don’t get easily offended
- You don’t feel the need to defend or explain yourself
- You don’t feel bad blood with your twin flame
- You take responsibility for everything that has happened in your life
- You make an effort to change things
- You make sacrifices without any resentment
In a nutshell, surrender makes you mature enough to understand why your twin flame doesn’t want you (for now.)
10) You’ve organized your living space
One of the finest signs of maturity is an urge to organize your life.
Of course, the first way to go about this is to declutter your space.
It’s a matter of:
- Starting with a tiny area of your room
- Dealing with one item at a time – before proceeding with the next
- Cleaning out storage items
Not only is decluttering good for your surroundings, but it’s also beneficial for your mental health.
True enough, Marie Kondo’s advice of keeping things that bring you joy makes total sense.
According to a report, “research has shown that a cluttered home can also mean clutter in our minds and, if the mess gets out of hand, it could lead to physical and mental health issues.”
As psychologist Sally Augustin, Ph.D. explains it:
“Seeing clutter all around us is mentally exhausting and makes us feel tense.”
Organizing your space is a step towards thoroughly improving your life. Who knows? This may draw your twin flame runner back to you.
11) You continue to feel your twin flame
Even if you’ve surrendered yourself fully to the chase, you’ll continue to feel your twin flame.
In fact, the feeling may be stronger than ever.
It’s as if they’re touching you, even if they’re far away from you.
You may even hear them speaking out to you!
You can chalk these feelings up to the robust and undeniable twin flame energy you both have.
This connection is almost psychic – for you feel and communicate with them without the need for words.
And while it may be painful to be away from them, time is no match for your bond.
Once you reunite with each other – which is bound to be soon – you’ll feel as if nothing has changed.
You feel at home in the arms.
No matter what happened during the surrender, you’re still the devoted twin flame partner – just like you’ve always used to be.
12) Your twin flame telepathy has become stronger
Notice how your twin flame telepathy has become stronger?
It’s not a fluke. It’s a surprising sign that you, the chaser, have surrendered.
What’s beautiful about twin flame telepathy is that it’s mutual.
Because of the deep bond you both share, it often happens without you two realizing it.
It can also manifest in different ways, the most popular being intuition.
You can’t help but feel that they miss you – or yearn for you.
This telepathy can also take the form of dreams, as your minds struggle to connect with each other.
The good news about this telepathy is that it’s a sign of your strong twin flame bond.
Even if you’ve separated – which is temporary, of course – this connection is a constant reminder that you’re both destined for each other.
Time and time again, you’ve lost – and found each other.
As with most of the signs on this list, it may hold the key to your long-awaited reunion.
As a twin flame chaser, you’re bound to grow weary of the chase.
It’s a normal part of any mirror soul relationship.
The good news is that you can easily spot the signs of surrender – as stated above. Since they help you improve yourself, they can prepare you well for an eventual twin flame reunion.
Can a gifted advisor help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.
If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.