Why did my twin flame leave me? 15 reasons

Since your twin flame is the other half of your soul, breaking up shouldn’t be an option, right?

I mean, if you’re supposed to be together and ascend to oneness, leaving each other doesn’t make sense.

Well, while that’s true, it’s only a part of the whole truth.

The twin flame journey has multiple stages for a reason: for both of you to reach a unique level of personal development and soul maturity.

You can do that together, but there are certain aspects that must be dealt with while you’re apart.

And that could be one of the reasons why your twin flame left you. However, there could be other reasons for it as well.

Read on for 15 more.

1) They’re not your real twin flame – They’re your false twin flame

Let’s get one thing out of the way first:

Are you sure your real flame left you?

Kiran Athar, writer for Ideapod warns us about the danger of meeting a false twin flame:

“Be careful. On your quest to find your true twin flame, you’ll probably encounter some false twins along the way.

“In the beginning, you might think they’re your true flame, but over time their inconsistencies and lack of commitment and support will cause you to doubt them.”

In other words, you might have met someone you feel is your twin flame, but they’re actually not.

This false twin flame is someone you’re drawn to, but the connection is not as powerful or intense as it would be with your real twin flame.

But, how can you be sure?

Here are a few signs you’ve met your false twin flame, according to Kiran Athar:

  • They bring you more anxiety than peace;
  • Their behavior is not consistent or supportive;
  • You two have different visions of the future.

So, one of the reasons why your twin flame left you could be because they’re not actually your twin flame.

2) Your twin flame got scared by the intensity of your connection

As you already know, when you meet your twin flame, your connection is crazy intense right from the start. Maybe you understand this, but your twin soul might not.

They might be overwhelmed by the intensity of your connection, and get scared by it. They might not be used to such a powerful bond, especially if you met during the early stages of your spiritual growth.

According to Lachlan Brown, author, and founder of Hack Spirit, the twin flame connection is so intense because:

  • The two people feel like they’ve known each other before;
  • They have telepathic experiences;
  • They are able to connect spiritually.

So, this could be another reason why your twin flame left you. Because they got scared by the intensity of your connection and felt like they couldn’t handle it.

3) The divine feminine is not awakened in your mirror soul

Another reason your twin flame left you could be that their divine feminine is not awakened in them.

Wait, what?

There is a divine feminine and divine masculine in every twin flame, regardless of gender, and these energies must be balanced.

“The Divine Masculine is the runner, the Divine Feminine is the chaser,” says Soul Guided.

And Anna Scheucher, writer for TwinFlamesLy adds this:

“In your twin flame relationship, you need the divine masculine and feminine energies for a healthy relationship.

“Without them, your relationship will be like a car without an engine. It won’t go anywhere!”

This means that your twin flame needs to be in touch with their divine feminine to feel comfortable in your relationship.

However, if your mirror soul isn’t aware of what’s missing in their life and is resisting the call of awakening their divine feminine, they might end up leaving you.

4) You pushed them away without realizing it

This might sound like a shocking statement, but it’s a possibility.

Even though you felt like you were in the right, and that you did everything for your twin flame, in reality, you might have pushed them away.

I’m only suggesting this because it happened to me.

I was truly in the dark, constantly wondering why my twin flame left me. I thought I was dealing with my past properly, working on myself, and loving him unconditionally.

But that wasn’t true.

Want to know what I did next?

I asked myself this:

“If you want information about a highly spiritual connection, then who else to ask but a spiritual advisor?”

And then I started asking around for a genuine one because I was obviously not in the mood to talk to a fake one, waste my time and money, as well as my emotions on this.

It wasn’t easy and, to be honest, some people even laughed at me when I asked them. But I couldn’t care less because I was desperately trying to find out what had happened.

The advisor I spoke to is from Psychic Source, and he gave me the answers I needed. I was shocked to find out how I was unconsciously pushing my twin flame away.

What’s more, he also told me how to fix my mistakes and draw my counterpart back into my life and into a reunion. The results didn’t happen overnight, but my efforts paid off eventually.

So, if you want to know why your twin flame left you, I suggest you ask a psychic.

Click here to get started.

You have nothing to lose, but if it works I promise you’ll be glad you asked.

5) The timing is not right for your relationship to succeed

Here’s another possible reason why your twin flame left you:

The timing of your relationship is not right.

In the case of twin flames, timing is almost everything. If it’s not right and you go against it, it may cause a lot of trouble.

“If you meet your twin flame at the wrong time, it could be because one of you is not ready to commit. Maybe one of you is too scared to commit because he or she has experienced a lot of hurt in the past,” says Anna Scheucher, writer for Nomadrs.

Or, the timing could be wrong because of other reasons, says Scheucher:

“If you meet your twin flame at a lower vibration, they will not be able to handle the intensity of your energy.

“This is because they are not at the same level as you in terms of maturity and spiritual awareness.”

The point is, if your timing is wrong, you will never succeed in creating the right conditions for a successful relationship.

6) Your twin flame has karmic issues to deal with

Another possible reason your twin flame left you could be that they have karmic issues to deal with.

What does this mean?

This means that they’re meant to grow spiritually by experiencing certain painful life situations.

You might have been drawn to your twin flame at a time when they were going through something that would make your relationship difficult.

Or, you might have attracted your twin flame at a time when their karmic issues were about to come to the surface.

In order for your twin flame to grow, they need to face their karma.


Because until they do it, they won’t be able to reach a higher vibration and connect with you on a soul level.

7) You reflect back to each other the worst parts of yourselves

One of the other reasons your twin flame left you could be because you reflect back to each other the worst parts of yourselves.

Lachlan Brown confirms it:

“It’s easy to see just how many negative traits you have when you’re with your twin soul. Having those bad traits put in front of you all the time becomes unbearable.

“The separation almost has to happen to allow those personality flaws to be revealed, and then fixed.”

This means that your twin flame left you because they saw what they didn’t want to see in themselves. But that’s a good thing – it’s an opportunity for them to fix these aspects.

8) You were constantly judging your twin soul

When you’re judging your twin flame or constantly trying to get them to change, it tells them that there is something wrong with them.

When I realized this, it made me sad because I was doing exactly that.

I was constantly pushing my twin flame to change and grow, judging him and making him feel bad about himself. But, you see, I thought that’s what I was supposed to do.

I had numerous preconceived ideas about what our relationship was supposed to look like and that ruined it.

And the worst part?

I only realized this after watching shaman Rudá Iandé’s video about toxic spirituality.

To put it simply, I was doing what I thought was right, and I was suppressing my emotions while doing so. I was trying to always be positive and push harder. And that was harmful not only to me but also to my twin flame.

But, luckily, shaman Rudá Iandé managed to bring me on the right path by pointing out my bad spiritual habits.

So, if you could also use some tools to safely develop your spirituality, then click here to watch the free video.

9) Your twin flame leaving you is an inevitable part of the twin flame journey

The next reason your twin flame may have left you is that it’s an inevitable part of the twin flame journey.

How so?

Well, any twin flame relationship goes through 8 stages, as follows:

  • Yearning for “the one”
  • Meeting your twin flame
  • Falling in love with your twin flame
  • The honeymoon stage
  • The turmoil stage
  • The separation stage
  • Surrender and dissolution
  • Reunion and oneness

So, think about this… are you going through the separation stage? If you are, then what matters is to go through it and move on to the next one when the time is right.

10) Your relationship isn’t possible right now due to physical distance

Here’s another probable reason your twin flame left you:

Your relationship is not possible right now due to physical distance.

If you’re in a long-distance relationship with your twin flame, and they suddenly leave you, it’s possible that they’ve tried to make the relationship work, but there was just too much distance between you.

If this is true, then you should know that it’s only temporary.


When twin flames are far away from each other physically, it does not put an end to the soul connection or devalue their love.

Your twin flame will eventually come back to you when the time is right. Your current situation simply means that you two were not meant to be together now.

11) Your twin flame was already in a relationship with someone else

Let me ask you this:

When you met your twin flame, was he or she already in a relationship with someone else?

If yes, then this could be the reason why they left you.

Even if their initial reaction was to break up with that person, they may have changed their mind.


Well, there could be a number of reasons, such as:

  • They were overwhelmed by your connection;
  • They were involved in a karmic relationship;
  • They don’t recognize you as their twin flame.

The list can go on but the point here is the same as the previous one: You didn’t meet at the right time.

12) Your twin flame is in a phase of growth and expansion that requires solitude

If your twin flame suddenly left you, it’s possible that he or she is in a phase of growth and expansion that requires solitude.

What does this mean?

This means that they need time to be alone in order to grow and become a better person.

For example, your twin flame may have left you because they are going through a phase of self-discovery.

They may also have been going through a spiritual awakening that requires them to be alone for some time.

Or, even if this sounds brutal, maybe they want to focus on their career instead of being in a relationship with you right now.

But remember: Whatever their reasons, separation is almost never permanent.

13) Your twin flame doesn’t know how to love you unconditionally yet

When your twin flame sees red flags, all of their fears and issues start surfacing.

It means that they don’t trust themselves and their emotions yet, so the way that they look at things differs from the way you look at them.

If you say something, they will hear something else.

In a case like this, the only thing that you can do is to be patient.

Learning how to love unconditionally is a gradual and progressive process. On top of that, it’s HARD.

So, you shouldn’t expect your twin flame to change all of their fears and toxic emotions within just a few weeks or days.

I get it. Loving someone who doesn’t love you back the same way really hurts.

But remember: you don’t need someone else to feel loved.

Real love starts with you.

My heart broke when my twin flame and I split because his love for me wasn’t what I thought.

Then, I found hope in a free masterclass about Love and Intimacy by shaman Rudá Iandê.

This masterclass showed me how to heal and understand myself without needing love or approval from others.

Rudá talked about the power of loving yourself and being happy on your own.

He said taking care of our feelings and mental health is super important to really give and receive love.

Learning from him helped me put my broken self back together after the heartbreak.

It changed how I see love and made me more real and independent in relationships.

If you’re going through a similar situation, you should definitely give this masterclass a shot.

Click here to access the free masterclass.

14) Your twin flame’s ego is standing in the way of your love

Here’s another possible reason your twin flame left you:

Your twin flame’s ego is preventing them from loving you.

“Ego breeds fear and fear is one of love’s worst adversaries,” says Katie Quinn a twin flame dealing with twin flames’ problems.

In other words, if your twin flame’s ego is blocking the way, they won’t be able to love you as much as you deserve.

The thing to keep in mind here is that your twin flame’s ego is a natural part of their being and as they evolve as a person, they will learn how to manage it.

What’s more both of your egos will dissolve at some point in your journey.

15) Your twin flame has chosen another path

The last possible reason why your twin flame left you is that they chose another path.

Here’s what I mean.

As twin flames, you’re both on the same journey, which is to become more spiritual, balanced, and happy.

However, you can’t be the only one who is working on that. Your twin flame needs to work on his or her own issues as well so you can keep growing together.

When one partner doesn’t do that, it makes sense for them to take a different path. This can happen naturally or it can be something unexpected.

But this isn’t necessarily bad! In fact, their path may lead them right back into your arms.


Here is a summary of what you should know if your twin flame left you:

There are many reasons why your twin flame may have left you, but the most important thing is to look at all of these circumstances as part of the journey and not judge them as “bad”.

Your twin flame will find his or her way back to you. It’s only a matter of time.

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Daniela Duca Damian

Daniela Duca Damian

I’m Daniela, a passionate writer with an academic background in journalism. My work is based on research and facts. In recent years I have focused on the study of interpersonal relationships, analyzing, and writing about aspects related to social connections, romantic relationships, but also personal development. My goal is to decipher the most confusing concepts so that anyone who is interested in living a better and fulfilled life can apply them. When I’m not writing, I challenge my friends with meaningful questions about life.

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