What to do when your twin flame is unhappily married

When you meet your twin flame, you know that person is special.

You feel an instant connection and a strong attraction to them. So when they tell you that they’re married and can’t leave their partner, it feels like the worst rejection ever.

But sometimes things aren’t what they seem. Your twin flame might be trapped in an unhappy marriage because of their spouse’s behavior, or maybe they just haven’t found the right person yet.

If you find yourself in this situation, here are some ideas on how best to deal with it.

1) Try to connect with your twin flame on a spiritual level

The first thing to do if your twin flame is unhappily married is to try and connect with them on a psychic level.

Why? Because if you can make a strong connection between you and your twin flame, then you can work together to heal their marriage.

You’re a psychic magnet. If your twin flame is facing problems in their relationship, you’ll know about it. Even if they try to hide it from you, you’ll know what’s going on inside their marriage. And with the help of some meditation or spiritual exercises, you can open up your clairvoyance and see things from their perspective, which means the two of you will connect deeply.

This psychic connection will not only allow them to feel what they feel but also send healing energy directly into their relationship and help them restore happiness in their marriage.

If they don’t want that help at first, it’s okay – eventually, they will see the light!

The key here is to believe in them and their relationship. Even if they’re unhappily married now, that doesn’t mean they can’t be happy later. You have to have hope that things can get better.

2) Help your twin flame find the strength to end a toxic relationship

Think about this for a moment:

How often has your twin flame told you that they’re unhappy in their marriage but don’t have the courage to end it?

How often have you encouraged them to end the relationship, only to be rejected because they can’t bring themselves to leave their spouse?

Unfortunately, some relationships are toxic, and no amount of encouragement will change that. If your twin flame is staying with a hurtful partner because they don’t have the strength, then it may be time for you to take action.

As their higher self, you can help them find a way out of this situation. You can feel their pain and frustration, and hopefully, use your psychic powers to help them find the strength they need to make a clean break from this toxic relationship.

If possible, you might want to steer them toward getting professional counseling or attending support groups for abused spouses or whatever else is appropriate in their situation.

But in any case, once your twin flame starts making more empowered decisions and standing up for themselves more consistently, they’ll begin leaving the relationship behind, permanently.

3) Help your twin flame feel safe enough to explore their feelings with you

Twin flames are psychic mirrors for one another.  In other words, your twin flame will respond to your thoughts and feelings as if they were their own, even if they’re not actually experiencing them.

This sensitivity can work for or against you depending on how you use it. For example, if you’re feeling insecure about the relationship, your twin flame will feel insecure too – with good reason!

But on the other hand, this sensitivity can help you talk to each other about deep emotional issues that would otherwise be difficult to discuss in a normal relationship.

If your twin flame has been suppressing their feelings or fears out of habit, then using this psychic connection to talk about it directly can help them feel safe enough to get in touch with what’s really going on inside of them.

It’s important to remember that you can only do this if you’re comfortable with your own emotions. If you’re not, then your twin flame won’t feel safe enough to explore them, and their guilty feelings will grow worse over time.

Sometimes it takes a while before you can get to this point – especially if either of you has been hurt or abused in the past by an emotionally or physically abusive relationship.

But as long as you keep showing up for each other emotionally and listen when each other needs to talk, then eventually the trust will build until both of you can open up and share these deeper feelings with one another.

4) Get help from a real psychic

Have you ever been to a psychic?

Until two months ago, my answer would have been no.

But when I came face-to-face with issues related to my twin flame being unhappily married I decided to think out of the box.

Even though I was skeptical about psychics and their knowledge of love, I gave the folks at Psychic Source a try.

It’s one of the best decisions I made.

The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding, and genuinely helpful.

My love of reading helped me understand where I was going wrong in my love life and how to fix it.

Click here to try it out.

They are incredibly knowledgeable about twin flame relationships and can tell you how to reach your romantic destiny right away.

5) Consider how much change your twin flame could handle at one time

Another thing to do if your twin flame is unhappily married is to consider how much change they could handle at once.

For example, if they’re not ready to leave their marriage yet, then you might be able to help them get started by encouraging them to start spending time with their friends or family more often.

And you might suggest that they begin looking into other hobbies or interests that could potentially make them happier or more fulfilled in life.

In this way, your twin flame may begin leaving their marriage behind without even realizing it!

Getting your twin flame to make empowered choices for themselves is always a worthy goal because it helps them truly live in the moment and enjoy life as much as possible.

But on the other hand, not everyone makes positive decisions for themselves just because we ask them to. So if this advice doesn’t seem to be helping you move forward with your relationship, then follow the next steps instead…

6) Hold yourself back from making any big decisions while you’re in this state

I know you think this is your chance to finally be together with your twin flame. But love is not a competition, and you can’t rush anything in life, or else the energies will backfire on you.

If you’re trying to force the universe to make a big decision for you, then there could easily be negative consequences because it takes time to balance out all of the higher frequencies so that they work in harmony with one another.

Considering how much you want something is natural and part of being human, but don’t try to force any part of it… especially not your twin flame! If you try to do that, then all of the sudden it’s like a divine panel of judges came in and said:

“No… no… no! Not possible! Not allowed! NO!!!”

And this could cause your entire relationship to literally fall apart at the seams without either one of you even understanding why.

In other words, if your twin flame isn’t ready for something different yet, then don’t make any big decisions that are related to each other – including leaving their partners!

You don’t need any fast results for your twin flame to magically show up in your life. Love is a slow, steady climb – and that’s how it should be! You don’t want anything to drastically change as a result of a sudden influx of positive energies, or else there will be some kind of backlash.

The universe will balance itself out, and you can trust that once the energies are balanced out that everything will fall into place in the perfect way… even if it takes time!

7) Decide that you won’t be a rebound relationship

As I’ve mentioned above, though twin flames can connect instantly with each other, there are instances where the timing isn’t right for one or both of them.

This happens to both people in most relationships eventually because everyone needs their time to adjust to everything.

So in case, your twin flame is unhappily or even unfaithfully in a relationship right now, decide that you won’t be a rebound.

You don’t want to be someone who will hurt them deeper than they’ve already been hurt, or else that would just be an additional thing to worry about when your twin flame eventually decides it’s time for you two to meet.

You both need to find a way to get yourselves out of the current situation first.

8) Help your twin flame make a list of pros and cons for each option given

Your twin flame might think that they have no other options to choose from – but they’re wrong! The universe has a huge amount of alternatives that you might not be aware of.

Try to make a list of everything that you know are the pros and cons for your twin flame to consider before making a decision regarding their relationship.

This will help you see all of the possibilities, including the ones where it could actually work out for them if you’re both committed to changing the course.

Pro tip:

If you experience a sudden surge of positive energies, or if your twin flame’s life starts to turn around for them, don’t ignore it.

You could be on the right track!

You just need to be patient and let the changes happen naturally in their own time so you don’t take away years of progress that they’ve already made.

9) Trust the universe and know that everything happens for a reason

I’m not saying to go out and accept the fact that everything that happens is a sign of fate (though I personally believe this), but there are some things in life that are just meant to be.

In other words, they were destined to happen, which you should trust given how much work it took them to get here.

If your twin flame is unwilling to leave the relationship even after a painful break-up, or if you are stuck in an unhappy circumstance that you can’t seem to get out of, remember that it happens for a reason.

So if you’ve tried everything possible, and you are still stuck in this situation, you need to keep the trust that eventually your twin flame will see the light and realize it’s time for them to move on.

It also helps to know that one day the universe will take care of you and send you on your way to a happier, healthier world. So what are you waiting for?

You can’t–and shouldn’t–change anything, but sometimes it’s time for a change in perspective.

Final thoughts

Dealing with a twin flame who is unhappily married might be a lot more complicated than you think. Because as much as you want to be there for them, and as tempting as it is to interject yourself into their lives, you can’t just force someone to make a big decision like that.

You can only do your part and pray for them to find the light and help themselves, especially if they seem uninterested in doing so.

I hope that my 9 steps to help you deal with your twin flame’s relationship will open up some potential new perspectives for you! But remember that understanding an issue can be just the beginning.

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. I recommended them because of my own positive experience, and I’m optimistic they can do the same for you.

Their spiritual advisors understand an enormous amount about what to do when your twin flame is unhappily married and how to address it.

Click here to get your own love reading.

Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

I know this from personal experience…

A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.

If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.

In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.

I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.

Click here to get started.

Thảo Anh Nguyễn

Thảo Anh Nguyễn

It is the little daily things that make life worth living and I know how to put you in the right perspective. I write about the intersection of life and love: how spirituality has changed my relationships, what I do to cultivate love in my life, and why I believe that all relationships are spiritual. Meet all your needs for your relationship and pieces of life advice with my articles.

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