Soul ties are just one of those spiritual concepts that can be difficult to wrap your head around.
What constitutes a soul tie?
A soul tie is a strong emotional attachment to someone who was once important in your life.
But, if you’re dealing with a broken soul tie, you’ll want to know exactly what needs to be fixed.
So how can you tell when one is broken?
With these 17 signs, it’s easier than ever to figure out if a soul tie is broken on and take action for the best outcome.
1) You have a history of 3 (or more) relationships.
The first sign that a soul tie is broken is that you’ve had a history with three (or more) people in your life.
If these relationships all end badly, then there is a good chance that your soul tie to one of those people is broken altogether.
Soul ties can be between any number of people, but typically the most common cases come from having multiple relationships with the same person.
So if you have a history of more than three relationships and they all fail, then odds are that your soul tie with that person is broken.
2) You’re consistently alone in your life.
If you find yourself constantly single in life, then there is a chance that your soul tie to your last ex might be broken.
It’s not uncommon for someone who has a broken soul tie to make the same mistake over and over again with the same people.
The reason for this is that it’s easy to fall into a pattern where you don’t even realize what you’re doing.
It might be subconscious, but it’s still something that goes on.
And this results in you having failed relationships and thus, you tend to be alone.
3) The connection was deep but short-lived.
If you ever had a deep connection with someone, but it wasn’t long-lasting, then that’s a big sign that the soul tie is broken.
One of the best ways to find this one out is to ask yourself what happened?
How did things play out for you to stop being together?
If you can’t pinpoint exactly why your connection with them stopped, then there’s no telling what happened.
The next thing you’ll notice is that your relationship with that person was a very emotional one.
It was intense and very real, but it also faded quickly and unexpectedly.
All because of a broken soul tie.
4) You had an abusive relationship.
If you were in an abusive relationship, then there is a good chance that your soul tie to the other person is broken.
The truth is that many people are abused by their partners and don’t even notice it.
The most common forms of abuse may be physical but those that go unnoticed were the verbal, emotional, and psychological ones.
The most probable reason for these is because your soul tie with your abuser – and ex-partner- is broken.
5) You’re extremely loyal and possessive of someone.
Loyalty and possessiveness are clear signs that the soul tie is broken.
A broken soul tie, as we mentioned before, results in you having had a history with three (or more) people in your life and all of these relationships ended badly.
This means trouble for your current relationship too and then you might end up super clingy over this person.
Remember that a soul tie is so strong that you’d give your all for it.
And if by any chance it was broken, you’ll end up very hurt and betrayed.
Then you’ll have this nagging feeling of being possessive with your current partner so as not to experience that pain again.
6) You find yourself repeating patterns of bad relationships over and over again.
In life, we all have our destiny to fulfill and so many different things happen to us along the way.
We will inevitably encounter the same people over and over again.
We may find ourselves with different partners, but some people seem to come into our lives constantly.
These are the people who seem to come back like bad habits even when you don’t want them to.
You find yourself in a relationship with someone over and over again, despite trying to avoid them.
You find yourself repeating the same patterns of bad relationships.
While this isn’t always a sign that the soul tie is broken, it can be a big indicator.
So if you find yourself repeating these patterns, then there is a good chance that your soul tie is broken.
7) Your emotions are completely out of whack.
It’s very common for broken souls to use their own emotions as weapons.
If you can’t control your emotions, then there is a strong possibility that your soul tie to the person who hurt you is broken.
You may have to fight against intense emotions whenever you try to be close to someone again.
If your emotions are so out of control that you can’t even stand to be around the person, then that could be a sign of a broken soul tie.
For example, you may have been able to get over the emotional pain of losing a person, but you find yourself so filled with anger that you can’t stand to be around them.
This kind of emotional imbalance in your life is a common result of surviving a broken soul tie.
8) You can’t explain why you’re with someone.
Hear me out.
The simplest way to figure out if a soul tie is broken is to ask yourself why you’re with the person you’re with.
If you can’t offer a reason then there may be something wrong.
A broken soul tie typically doesn’t make sense from our perspective, so it’s not uncommon to find yourself questioning why on earth you are with someone else.
Even if you love them and they mean everything to you, it can still feel like a crazy decision to be in a relationship with someone.
If you find yourself frequently feeling confused and unsure about your relationships, then there is a good chance that you have a broken soul tie.
9) You lose touch with yourself whenever you’re around the person.
It’s common for broken souls to become obsessed with the person who hurt them.
If you’re consumed with someone else and you feel like they have taken over your life, then there may be a problem.
A broken soul tie will often drain you of your energy and then leave you feeling empty once again.
So if we lose touch with who we are whenever we’re around someone else, then there is a chance that your soul tie is broken.
There is a big difference between being obsessed with someone and seeing them regularly.
A broken soul tie will often keep you in a relationship with someone even if you can’t explain why.
10) You have an unhealthy attachment to someone.
If you’ve ever had a very unhealthy attachment to someone, then it could mean that your soul tie is broken.
When people have a bad soul tie, they become extremely attached and possessive of the person they are with.
They often become so attached that they can’t see straight or do anything without them in their life.
Once you decide to get rid of the soul tie, you’ll suddenly realize that you have no clue who this person is.
The soul tie will be broken and the person will be gone so quickly that it startled you.
A good way to figure out if your soul tie is broken is to ask yourself how attached you are to this person.
If there is anything in between a casual attachment and obsession, then they may be a bad and severed soul tie.
11) You feel like you cannot trust anyone.
A broken soul tie will make you feel that no one can be trusted.
So if you’re constantly finding yourself distrusting everyone and that everyone has to have ulterior motives, then you might have a broken soul tie.
How did this happen?
If the person who broke up with you was your only source of happiness, then you probably feel like life isn’t worth living anymore.
You may constantly doubt the intentions of the people in your life and you’ll find yourself feeling ashamed whenever someone says something nice about you.
It’s common to be paranoid and suspicious of everyone around you because it’s hard to trust someone who is always trying to hurt you.
If you find yourself thinking that no one can be trusted, then there is a good chance that your soul tie is broken and you are fighting its negative effects.
12) You’re very moody and unstable.
It’s not uncommon for broken souls to be erratic and change their moods regularly.
They often have periods where they will be incredibly happy and then stop being genuinely happy for weeks.
If you find yourself in this kind of relationship, then there is a good chance that your soul tie is broken.
Your emotions become erratic and hard to control.
Just like the person who broke up with you, your emotions may change completely regularly.
It’s very common for your emotions to be completely out of control and very unpredictable.
And life around you is constantly changing without notice.
13) When someone does something to upset or hurt you, it stays with you for weeks after the event occurred.
For broken souls, there are periods where they feel like everything is horrible.
If you keep finding yourself reliving the events of a breakup or sad moment in your life, then your soul tie might be broken.
When one soul tie breaks, it can cause many other issues to happen in the body.
So if you keep feeling sad and angry about your relationship with someone, then there may be other issues causing those emotions at play.
When a soul tie is broken, it can result in an endless stream of negative emotion and constant reliving of sad memories.
You may find yourself in a crowded room and suddenly feel like you’re alone.
Your thoughts about the relationship or about someone who broke your heart will replay in your head over and over again.
You feel like everything is horrible and difficult, and that nothing ever goes right.
And this feeling lingers for a long time.
14) You can’t remember the name of the old partner.
Another sign that your soul tie is broken is that you can’t remember the name of the person who was your main love interest in a past life.
The bond is broken and the relationship is gone.
You can’t even remember the name of the person who broke your heart.
A lot of times, you will pick up on the full name of this person while doing meditation or spell, but it won’t come to you immediately.
It will come to you later on when you are truly ready to remember it.
When your soul tie is broken, you may not even be aware of the nature of the relationship that was once important to you.
Also, it will be hard to find the name because it’s been changed so many times throughout many lifetimes.
15) You feel like you need to leave your current partner.
When your soul tie is broken, you will suddenly feel like you have to leave the person who is supposed to be in your life.
You will no longer have a strong connection with this person anymore, and they won’t make you feel good in the way that they used to.
The reason why you don’t want to be with them anymore is that it’s time that you have someone new in your life.
When your soul tie is broken, you will feel an intense drive to move on with your life.
Here are some of the things that might happen.
You may find yourself fantasizing about new relationships or thinking about all of the things you would do differently in your current relationship if you could go back in time.
You can’t help but think about all of the great things that are out there and you have to figure out a way to go forward.
Once your soul tie is broken, it’s no longer a simple choice between staying and leaving.
16) You feel like you’re in a loveless but committed relationship.
If you have been unhappy in your current relationship for a long time and then suddenly find that you’re still there but don’t love the person anymore, then it’s possible that your soul tie has been broken.
It’s common to think that you have a soul mate or twin flame who is supposed to be with you for the rest of your life and no one else will ever be able to make you happy.
However, once your soul tie is broken, you’ll realize that you don’t love them anymore.
You may have been unhappy with this relationship for a long time but couldn’t see it or understand it because of your soul tie.
The reason why you don’t have a connection with this person anymore is that the soul tie is broken and the relationship between you is no longer necessary or beneficial.
17) You may find yourself feeling distant from other people and it may be difficult to build relationships with anyone else.
The final sign that your soul tie has been broken is that you may feel distant from other people and that building relationships with others may be difficult for you.
It’s common for broken souls to feel like everyone else is wrong, and that they are the only ones who know how to be happy.
If you find yourself in this kind of relationship, then there is a good chance that your soul tie was broken.
You’ll find yourself feeling like nothing is wrong with you, and nothing can ever be bad.
You don’t allow anything negative or sad in your life because it reminds you of what was once important to you.
And what will be the result of this?
You will prefer to stay alone and go on with your life.
It’s hard for many broken souls to form relationships with people because it reminds them of their past lives and the people that they used to be with.
The signs of a broken soul tie have been enumerated and described in this article.
However, they are only indicators and some people go through this without any such signs.
It is when a person wants to break the soul tie and he/she goes into a deep meditation that the signs begin to appear.
However, it is important to note that the one who is experiencing this may not be able to experience all of these signs.
Now one question remains.
How do you fix it?
If you’ve determined that you have a broken soul tie with someone, the best way to fix it is by doing a soul tie release on yourself.
This means saying goodbye to the person in your heart and verbally letting go of the relationship.
It’s important to be honest and true with yourself when doing this release.
It may not remove all of the emotional pain, but it will help you to overcome it faster than if you do nothing.
You got this!