In the world of manifestation, things can sometimes get a little murky.
Even though there is so much information out there on how to harness the power of positive thinking and the law of attraction, not everyone agrees on how this all works.
Let’s break it down and see if we can put the confusion to rest once and for all with regard to whether it is bad to manifest a specific person!
Let’s start with the reasons it might not be a good idea
What’s not to love about that idea, right?
Well, there are actually a few reasons this might not be a good idea, which is why I want to touch on those first:
You don’t know if you actually want this person in your life
When you ask the universe for a specific person to come into your life, it might not be in your best interest.
You don’t know if you actually want this person in your life. Sure, you might have a crush on them and they might seem sweet, but you don’t know if they would make a good partner.
The universe is just going to do what it does and bring this person into your life whether you want them there or not.
And then you’re going to have to deal with the consequences of having this person in your life.
It’s possible that you will lose friends because they didn’t like your new boyfriend/girlfriend.
The other thing about manifesting a specific person is that when it comes to relationships, two people need to work together for everything to go well.
If only one person wants the relationship and not the other way around, things won’t work out well at all.
Their free will is compromised (theoretically)
There are those who argue that by manifesting a specific person, you are compromising their free will.
This argument is not without merit.
A major principle of manifestation is that we attract what we think about.
In order to manifest something, we have to place it into our thoughts and feelings.
So, yes, theoretically speaking it can be bad to manifest a specific person if you believe that they will not have any more free will.
Of course, there is also the argument that in order to manifest something successfully, there is a version of them who desires to be with you, hence making it free will.
But will we ever truly know?
The thing is, it is up for debate and you need to decide, but I wanted to throw this in here regardless.
What would a gifted advisor say?
The signs above and below will give you a good idea about whether it’s good or bad to manifest a specific person.
But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a gifted advisor.
They can answer questions like should you do it? Will it have consequences?
The problem is finding someone you can trust.
That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. When I signed up for a reading, they provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I am meant to be with.
Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate, and helpful network of gifted advisors out there.
Not only will a genuine advisor tell you how to manifest, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.
You might not get along with them
One of the major reasons that many people think it is bad to manifest a specific person is because you might not get along with them.
No matter how much you try and change your behaviors, if the two of you can’t get along in real life then you will experience the same issues in a relationship with them.
Although this could be true, there are many other factors to consider.
For example, even if the two of you have had arguments in the past or if you don’t always see eye-to-eye on things, you still might have a great time together when interacting and getting to know one another.
If you do find yourself manifesting someone who doesn’t seem right for you, it is important to evaluate whether or not any good qualities about him/her outweigh the negatives.
You should also take your own feelings into consideration before making any final judgments.
Again: just because you have a crush on someone doesn’t mean that they will be a good partner for you at all!
On the contrary, maybe they are actually terrible for you! That brings me to my next point:
They might be a toxic partner
One of the reasons that some people think it’s bad to manifest a specific person is because they’re worried they might be attracting a toxic partner.
It’s always best to have a healthy, happy relationship with someone.
So if you are thinking about manifesting someone in your life, make sure they will be good for you and won’t hurt you.
Remember that this is not just about the types of qualities they have, but also their past.
If they’ve already hurt you in the past, then it might not be wise to try and attract them again.
You deserve to be with someone who respects you and treats you well.
The thing is, when you manifest someone specific, you don’t always know the details about them.
You see, the way someone is in public or to their friends is often very different from the way they are to their partner in private.
What do you do if all of a sudden, they are extremely toxic?
They might feel manipulated
Of course, it’s always a good idea to be careful with what you’re thinking about.
If your goal is to manifest a specific person, it might seem manipulative to them.
For example, let’s say that you meet someone online and really strike up a rapport with them.
They have told you many details about their life and interests and even divulged some personal information about themselves and their past.
You manifest them into your life using the law of attraction and months later you tell them about it.
The thing is, while they might have naturally caught feelings for you, the truth is that you never know!
And while some people might think it’s a sweet idea or they don’t even really believe in the law of attraction, others might feel manipulated.
Think about it: if you suddenly had to question whether your feelings for your partner are real or a result of manifestation, wouldn’t that distress you?
So, your partner might feel manipulated once they find out what you did.
But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.
So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.
You might hurt someone unintentionally
One of the main reasons that people are against manifesting a specific person is because it can hurt someone unintentionally.
If you’re trying to manifest a specific person, you might be trying to convince yourself that they like you or want to be with you when they really don’t.
If this happens, they could end up feeling bad and reject your advances.
Either way, your manifestation efforts will have been in vain. You don’t want to put anyone in an awkward situation where they might feel some type of way about being on the receiving end of your desires for them.
There’s also the chance that this person might not want you at all and it can get embarrassing if they reject you outright.
You might not always be successful at manifesting who you want, which is something that many people struggle with in regards to their loved ones specifically.
But not just that, maybe you manifest them, they fall head over heels in love with you and you realize you don’t want to be with them and dump them.
There are so many factors here that could play a role, so be careful when manifesting someone specific!
You might become addicted to manifesting people
Some say it is bad to manifest a specific person because you might become addicted to it.
In order to receive the results you want, you may have to continually manifest people in your life; this can lead to an addiction.
I mean, once you realize you can attract whoever you want into your life, you will probably want to test this theory again and again.
The idea behind manifesting is that you’re asking the universe for what you want and the universe will provide it.
You should be able to manifest things without needing to ask for them continuously because they will come within your grasp eventually.
Another reason why some people say it is bad to manifest a specific person is that by doing so, you’re not giving yourself the chance to think about other options.
If you only go after one thing, you may end up regretting your decision if that person doesn’t turn out how you wanted them to; this could make it seem like a waste of time since the manifestation didn’t work out.
What to do instead
Let’s see what you can do instead of manifesting a specific person!
Focus on yourself and self-love
It is not bad to manifest a specific person, but it’s also not effective.
You don’t need to focus on someone else when you can focus on your own self.
It’s important to practice self-love and put yourself first.
When you are focusing on others, you’re not focusing on yourself.
When you’re focusing on yourself, you’ll be able to manifest what’s best for you– whether that means manifesting a specific person or something else entirely.
The law of attraction will respond based on what’s most important in your life– so if being in a relationship is the most important thing, then it will happen quicker than if being happy was the most important thing in your life.
Focusing on self-love also shows the universe that you know your worth, and it will respond accordingly, by sending you a partner who sees your worth, too.
Manifest traits, not specific people
It is not bad to manifest specific people, but it is important to pay attention to the traits you want in a partner.
If you want someone who loves to read and watch movies, then this person should match those traits.
You could also manifest as someone who loves outdoor activities and enjoys going on adventures.
The point is that your desired partner should embody the qualities that you want in a partner.
Remember, it is more about the traits rather than the person.
For example, if you want a tall partner, then focus on manifesting someone with a height that matches your desires.
If you want someone older than yourself then focuses on manifesting an older individual!
Once you focus on the traits rather than a specific person, the universe will supply you with someone who is even more perfect than you could ever imagine!
Have faith that the right person will come into your life
It is not bad to manifest someone specific in your life, but it should not be your only goal.
When you are trying to manifest a person, the most important thing is to stay positive and focused.
From there, the universe will make sure that you get what you want.
However, it is bad if you are trying to manifest a specific person, but then let go of him or her when they finally enter your life.
If you were to break up with a boyfriend after you manifested him, he would disappear from your life because he was initially only there because of your desire for him.
So, instead of going through this mess, simply let go of control and trust the universe.
It’s important to have faith that the right person will come into your life when they’re supposed to, rather than forcing it.
Once you surrender and let the universe take over, the most perfect partner will show up, I promise!
You got this
No matter what you choose to do, I hope it is the right decision for you.
My biggest tip is to get really specific about what you want in a partner, without limiting yourself to one specific person.
This way, the universe will deliver exactly the person you need and who knows? Maybe it’s even the one person you wanted to manifest in the first place!
Hopefully, the points above will shed some light on manifesting a specific person.
But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine advisor.
And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate reading, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.
So if you’re tired of wondering about manifesting-love, get in touch with a gifted advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.
Can a gifted advisor help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.
If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.