How to manifest your ex girlfriend to want you back

Do you want your girlfriend back? 

Do you miss her and want her to date you again? 

I’m going to help you manifest your ex girlfriend back into your life!

Manifesting is one of the powerful moves that you can do to get what you want. This is a concept that anyone can grasp and do. 

Here are 10 ways on how to manifest your ex girlfriend to want you back!

1) Have a clear purpose on why you want your ex girlfriend back

Before you are able to manifest what it is that you desire, there needs to be a very strong reason for this. 

Have a good, honest reason as to why it is that you want her back. 

This gives your subconscious mind something to work with and will help you manifest your desired outcome faster

The stronger the reason is that you have, the stronger the energy that you’ll have behind it.

2) Let go of the past

This is something that you have to learn how to do.

Just because your relationship didn’t work out or wasn’t as great as you would’ve liked it to be, doesn’t mean that it can never work out again.

In the past, you were two different people in two different places of your lives. 

You were with her when she was in a good place and perhaps she isn’t anymore. The universe only desires one thing: to bring value into your life. 

When you hold onto negative experiences, this becomes a problem for you and it makes it hard to attract positive things because negativity starts attracting itself.

You have to unlock your subconscious mind so that the universe can help you manifest positive outcomes

Therefore, you must accept that the past is an illusion and that it doesn’t really matter. 

What’s important right now is what will happen in the future, that is you being back together with your ex.

3) Ask yourself what you really want

Many people fail to make their manifestations work because they don’t really know what it is that they really want.

The secret is that you have to know what it is that you truly want and then the universe starts working hard to get it for you.

You have to first ask yourself: “Do I really want my ex girlfriend back?”. 

Many people will ask themselves this question but very rarely do they truly listen to the answer that comes from within. 

And It’s NOT a good idea to go against your true answer.

If you’re sure that she’s the one that you want, you’re going to have to have faith in yourself and put this topic out of your mind, as on the whole you don’t need your ex back right now. 

I’ve been in a similar situation myself.

I would stay up all night thinking if my ex was the right guy for me. I then decided to sign up for a reading with a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

It was completely different to what I expected, and the gifted spiritual advisor really helped me understand the problems that kept popping up in my love life and ruining my dreams.

Not only did they blow me away with their accurate reading, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation. 

Click here to try it out.

They are incredibly knowledgeable about how to manifest your ex back

Most importantly, they can also empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to love. 

4) Start thinking that she wants you back and not just think she doesn’t want you back

The more you feel good about what’s going to happen, the more probable it is that you’re going to manifest your desired outcome

The universe can sense what you’re thinking and it will react to it. 

This means that if you think negatively about your ex, then the universe will start creating negative circumstances for her. And she’s not going to want to come back to you. 

It is your direct thought that brought her into your life in the first place but it can also take her out of your life as well. 

So, stop overthinking about how things could go wrong. Instead, focus on how good things are going to go right now. 

One way to help you keep your positive thoughts is by imagining how good it is to be with her again, which I’ll explain in my next point.

​​5) Visualize your ex girlfriend attracted to you and you being attracted to her

Visualization is a powerful technique and one way or another you could be attracting what it is that you’re imagining whenever you do it. 

There’s a variety of ways to do this. One way is to imagine your ex girlfriend kissing you or smiling at you.

You might also visualize yourself walking hand in hand with your ex girlfriend and for some reason, it really doesn’t feel like anything out of the ordinary. 

Visualization works because it really doesn’t matter what you picture. 

It doesn’t matter if it’s abstract or realistic, but what does matter is the faith that you have in the universe and trusting that it will work for you.

It sounds simple. And it is!

Believe this is true and with your positive feelings you will succeed. 

6) Re-create a suitable environment

Are you living in an apartment where your ex girlfriend used to live with you? 

Or perhaps you still have all of her belongings around? 

If this is the case, then it will be very hard to manifest your desires because at this point it feels like she never left and has actually returned.

This is why you have to make your surroundings suitable for how you want to feel. 

Get rid of all the negative feelings and memories that you’re holding onto.

Then, think about how awesome it is going to be when she comes back. 

And finally, focus on the positive things that will occur in your life when she does come back to you. 

7) Write a note

Writing is a powerful way to depict what you truly want in your life and this is especially the case if you are writing down your desires regarding your ex

This is one of the best ways to get what it is that you want because this steers away from negative energy whereas positive energy attracts itself.

So, write down what you want.

Write down that your ex wants you back. 

Write down that she’s madly in love with you and think about it for a minute. It has to come from your mind and heart. 

Your mind is the place where negative thoughts go and it’s the place where you also need to be positive. 

After writing, place the note somewhere hidden where no one else can find.

Then, simply let the universe do its magic.

8) Daily self-affirmation

Your words and thoughts have great power. 

Think about it like this: you’re in control of your own destiny. 

If you right now think that you don’t deserve to get your ex girlfriend back, then that is what will happen. 

But, if you think that she does want a relationship with you, then she will start feeling it and coming back to you for a second chance.

So, think positively and put your energy into making your desire a reality. 

Here’s an example of an affirmation that you can use:

“I don’t chase her because I’m the best she’s ever had. *Your ex’s name* is deeply and madly in love with me. The more I desire her, the more she desires me. I’m *your ex’s name* dream man and she knows it.”

9) Avoid negative thoughts 

This one is quite self-explanatory. I’ve mentioned this over and over again.

Your thoughts are powerful and if your thinking is negative, then that’s what you’re going to attract into your life. 

Negative thinking also creates a low vibration in your energy space which can affect your manifestation.

If you think about how your ex girlfriend doesn’t want you back or maybe even hates you, then that’s what the universe is going to bring into your life. 

Instead, focus on the fact that someday she’ll be back and you will once again live happily ever after.

You have to think positively because it really does work out this way.

10) Let the universe do its thing

The universe will do its thing and make sure that the right person finds you.

All you have to do is simply let it unfold. 

Now, I can hear you asking: how do I know if the universe has brought my ex girlfriend back? 

You’ll just know.

Just don’t give up on yourself if it has been a long time and it hasn’t happened yet. Just trust in the power of the universe.

Bottom line

Yes, manifestation does work in attracting the love that you desire.  

You have to keep believing that it is going to happen. It is going to happen, one day, some time in the future.

Just wait and see. 

But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, you may try speaking to a genuine advisor.

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. 

I recommended them because of my own positive experience, and I’m optimistic they can do the same for you. 

Their spiritual advisors helped me in a real way that brought me answers I’d never been expecting. 

Click here to get your own love reading.

Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

I know this from personal experience…

A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.

If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.

In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.

I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.

Click here to get started.

Dania Aziz

Dania Aziz

"A spirited lifestyle and love advocate, who loves to explore the two to help herself and others discover what they are really searching for."

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