No matter if the world holds it against you, I am here to tell you that it’s possible to regain lost love.
I will show you powerful and time-tested techniques on how to manifest your former partner, for good.
It is possible that the second round will be more successful than the previous one, but only if you approach it in the right way.
Here’s how to make peace with your ex without making a big mess of your life.
How to manifest your ex back
Breaking up with somebody but continuing to love that person is no joke. Sometimes we realize late that maybe we shouldn’t have given up and that there was a solution to the problems in the relationship.
Then we start to wonder how to bring that ex back and make everything right again.
Manifestation can be a powerful tool in this quest. In fact, the universe can sync in with the frequency at which our bodies function in this reality. I like to think of that as a built-in customer support system.
We can’t see our life energy with the naked eye, but we certainly feel it when it’s disturbed!
Think of the radio. It’s only when something disturbs the frequency that the speaker starts to rustle.
Similarly, when your energy speaker starts to rustle, it means that someone or something has disrupted your frequency which has a direct impact on your life force and energy.
Manifestation can undoubtedly make your wildest dreams come true, but you need to avoid the most common mistakes.
Let’s begin with the most important dos and don’ts of manifestation.
The Big Do’s
1) Practice gratefulness
Don’t waste energy thinking about what you don’t have. Give thanks for the things you are grateful for in your life. Good energy attracts good things.
2) Speak to a gifted advisor
The points above and below will give you a good idea about the things you should do when trying to manifest your ex back.
But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a real advisor.
The problem is finding someone you can trust.
There’s an abundance of fake “experts” out there, but very few genuine advisors who can offer practical life advice.
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Not only will a genuine advisor tell you how to manifest your ex back, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.
3) Be precise
Imagine you are in a restaurant, and you want to order pasta with grilled vegetables. That’s what you’ll tell the waiter, right? If you just tell them that you want something for lunch, that won’t be enough.
Unlike the waiter, the universe won’t ask you exactly what you want – you must know that yourself and then visualize it in your mind to the best of your abilities.
4) Trust the process
Is manifestation crazy and pointless? Are you suspicious whether anything will happen? Is the universe listening?
Trust the process – that’s the key rule. It’s up to you to find out what you want, to ask and then to wait. It’s not up to you to know and understand when and how everything will play out. Just believe and spread positive energy – it’s not that hard, is it?
5) Allow yourself to feel good
It sounds strange, but sometimes we don’t think we deserve to feel good.
At times we just think we are not worth it and a strange sensation creeps in that something bad will happen. Free your mind of such constraints.
Overcome the lies you tell yourself because the energy of love is vulnerable, grateful, and joyful. Thus, manifesting such frequency requires having an open heart.
1) Don’t waste your energy on the bad stuff
Energy is the most important and most powerful ingredient of manifestation. It should be pure and positive. Focus on creating such energy in yourself and around you.
Consciously train yourself not to direct any life energy towards heavy emotions.
Choose to rejoice, do what you love, be surrounded by the people you love. Indulge in life.
Think and speak positively, listen to your intuition, get rid of everything that holds you back – be not the best, but the highest energy version of yourself!
But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.
So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.
2) Don’t obsess over your desires
The interesting thing about manifesting, which is also the most difficult, is that sometimes we want too much.
There is a thin line between desire and despair, and despair should be avoided.
If you are too obsessed with what you want, you are sending a message of extreme dissatisfaction with what you currently have. Such feelings block the manifestation.
Wish, clearly and precisely, and then relax, believe and, ideally, forget about it.
3) Don’t drown in old mindsets
If you still think that it’s impossible for something beautiful to happen to you, if you believe that you aren’t worthy of your dreams and desires, the manifestation won’t succeed.
Remember – everything is in attitude, in energy. Everything you want will come true. You are diligent and worthy of it.
Once you start manifesting, know that you need to reject earlier patterns of toxic thinking and fully commit to your new role.
4) Don’t ignore the tests
Oh yes, the universe is testing you!
It wants to check if you are serious enough about your desired manifestation. Therefore, your tests may lack key ingredients, but will matter greatly for the end game.
So, when the opportunity arises to prove the universe that you are serious about manifesting back love, take it!
And if you are sure of your wishes, you will surely pass the quests. The faster you take the tests, the faster your desire will manifest.
In this text, you’ll have the opportunity to follow the crucial steps to manifesting your ex back. And for good this time.
5. Don’t exclude the possibility of them being your soulmate
Manifesting your ex can become easier if you don’t exclude the possibility of them being your soulmate.
Soulmates go through ups and downs too, so figuring out whether they are your soulmate could really help you get them back.
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Stage 1: The beginning
The love wounds are still fresh. Your heartaches and is fragile as a soap bubble.
After the breakup, you might feel desperate, so you’ll have the urge to send messages to your ex and try to win them back swiftly. Don’t.
It’s important to give yourself space so that you can think rationally.
1) Hold your horses, this is the time for radio silence
It’s hard to let go of someone you had a deep connection with. Your instincts are telling you you lost the love of your life. Your relationship had potential and perhaps you could have built a fairytale life together.
It feels only natural to convince them to try again. But why shouldn’t you reason with them, why shouldn’t you make up right away?
Because this is one of those moments in life when our beliefs lead us astray. Trying to make a move is not the best way to go and here is why.
Research by Canadian scientists has shown that showering someone with messages and harassing them with calls is a double-edged sword.
Waiting in front of their home and workplace or besieging a partner’s friends after a breakup has not proved great either. As many as 80 percent of respondents in the survey answered that such moves of former loves were crucial to never return to them.
Even if they wanted to reconcile, nobody likes the idea of being forced into something. This is not the placid basis you want for your love game.
2) Follow the golden rule of “30 days without contact”
To get an objective view of the whole situation you need to recover from the emotional chaos you are currently in.
A period with no contact is a very simple way to get rid of the negative emotions that are present in you and your ex after the breakup.
During this time, abort all communication. No messages, phone calls and no accidental meetups. Don’t establish contact with your ex for at least 3-4 weeks.
You must become an emotionally stable person before attempting to reunite.
That period is enough for you to think carefully about everything and decide whether you want reconciliation and how you can achieve it.
Besides, if you don’t call your ex, they will most likely start thinking about you. Thus, unknowingly, they will start building up the energy for the manifestation to take place in the future.
If codependence was an issue in the past, keeping away for a while will be a sign of respect. This is a way to demonstrate you can stand on your own two feet when the need arises.
- If your ex-partner makes a move
If your ex-partner tries to contact you within the first month after your breakup, remain cool. Remember, you are in stealth mode.
The only exception is if you are close to the end of the radio silence period, and you feel stable enough to make the first step to manifesting your ex back for good.
However, don’t wait more than a month to call, because in the meantime they could meet someone new. A month is quite enough to give your ex some space to think and to keep them in suspense.
It’s very important to talk about everything openly and to try to solve the mishaps that caused your breakup in the first place. But, as already said, let it stir for about a month, until you decide on the first step.
This period of non-appearance is very important and can help you to rationally think about everything you want to achieve, but also to develop the right strategy on how to achieve it in a healthy manner.
“Silence is the sleep that nourishes wisdom.”
– Francis Bacon, philosopher
3) Evaluate the aftermath
Take a good look. When you first fell in love, what kind of person were you?
Partners often become estranged when their bodily, emotional, or spiritual needs are not met. Of course, when partners grow apart, others will tell you that people change. Still, take a moment and think to yourself, “How have I changed?”.
Have you become sluggish, intolerant, negative, frigid, or arrogant during the relationship with your ex?
Making a list can be helpful.
If you figure out the problems, you can start working on tactics to fix them.
Try to remember the person your partner used to be madly in love with. You can’t be the same person, but you can certainly become a better version.
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4) Start working on the new You
All big plans require a dose of analytical thinking. So, start thinking about what happens in the long run?
Well, the laws of the universe tell us that it’s always best to start from the end point, but how to get there? And, ideally, how to stay there for good?
First and foremost, work on bettering the current version of yourself.
The relationship might be seemingly easy to renew but manifesting someone back for the long haul requires serious ongoing dedication.
Correct bad habits and repetitive decisions that led to them, if any. Remember, you must first change yourself for the outside world to change as well.
5) Take care of both body and soul
Start making changes in your physical appearance and mental state.
It’s not necessary to take drastic steps after the breakup in terms of your physical appearance. Although it’s not crucial, you should still start nurturing yourself to connect with the real you.
Go outside and build up your physical strength again. Enroll in a new sport or simply visit a yoga studio. This will help you release some serotonin and boost your confidence in a healthy manner.
Immerse yourself in periods of stillness and loneliness but split your life force wisely. Use the time ahead to feel better and regain your self-confidence and determination.
6) Focus on the positive inside you
Release all negative thoughts and beliefs you have constructed around the idea of not being worthy of love.
Understand that you are a great person and that you don’t have to suffer to please others or to be loved by them, because you already love yourself enough.
Self-confidence is irresistible.
Remember that you possess qualities that make you valuable, for anyone’s love and attention.
Others notice you and others appreciate you.
There is love all around you.
Allow these beliefs to renter your heart.
And when you focus exclusively on positive things, you also change your vibration. Like Batman’s distress call, your positive attitude will signal the universe that you truly want your special person back.
7) Rediscover the meaning of joy
People are attracted to positive energy and laughter. When you have a good time and enjoy life, others will inevitably notice it.
As a result, their subconscious will magnetically pull them closer to you.
Rediscover the things that fulfill you and make your soul laugh with glee. Whether it entails running in the woods or dancing until the early morning hours – enjoy life wholeheartedly and you will soon manifest love.
8) Appreciate life’s gifts
Be happy and content with what you have now. Forget about the things you want and don’t have.
The moment you start living contently in the now, everything will start to fall into place, including your love life.
“When we focus on our gratitude, the tide of disappointment goes out and the tide of love rushes in.”
– Kristin Armstrong
Stage 2: The golden period of radio silence is up
9) Once you are ready, establish communication
After the first 3-4 weeks are up, it’s time to position the first chess piece. Overall human experience tells us that the first message you send should trigger your partner’s emotions.
But beware. Don’t compose heartbreaking messages.
Simply mention a location, a movie or an event that will remind your partner of specific moments you spent together.
Subtle messages are the key.
To build an effective means of communication, avoid the following:
- Don’t talk directly about your feelings or past relationship.
- Avoid messages that don’t stimulate emotions like the usual plain how are you’s.
- Don’t suggest meetups.
- Don’t rush into communication. Reread the message you want to send.
- If your ex doesn’t answer right away, don’t send a follow-up message instantly. Alternatively, you can try another version of the message again in a few days.
There is no magical way to reconnect with your ex-partner in a short amount of time.
My personal advice is adhering to the two Ps of all successful manifestations. Patience and persistence.
10) Gain ground by building a private line of communication
This is not a time to involve others in your private affairs. Eliminate such interactions and secure at least one private channel. The good, old SMS has a romantic feel to it.
But why should you avoid public forms of communication, both online and offline?
Because no one likes to appear contradictory. Privacy frees from the human compulsion to remain consistent. When we publicly commit to something, it causes hesitation and leads to decisions that are not truthful.
So, eliminate that threat and avoid conversations in front of friends, children, in public places, etc.
Most likely, your ex-partner won’t even notice that you aren’t communicating publicly. By being free of social pressure, your ex will subconsciously feel more relaxed.
Once in a few days, send a message that you know will be interesting, exciting, or fun. Don’t include anything about your relationship and avoid persuasion.
These nonchalant messages will gradually condition them to expect a pleasant small dose of dopamine. Something like an occasional GIF from a friend who shares your odd sense of humor.
Don’t ask for any answers, just keep the link between you two alive and pulsating.
11) Start to open up
Pave a path that will lead you to moments only the two of you will remember.
Think of it as an exclusive club where there are only two people sharing a membership. This is another reason why private communication is mandatory and this your next step in manifesting your ex back for good.
Remember that vulnerability has real power. Be honest in the goals you care about, and the struggles that block your path. This naturally evokes an instinct of heroism and increases the chance that your partner will want to help you.
Assemble the right kind of emotions that naturally arise from your unique bond. If it’s real, no assurances are needed.
12) Be supportive when the opportunity arises
We all want and crave support more than we are willing to admit.
And guess what? Your private communication is the perfect way for a partner to complain about something that annoys, bothers, or even angers them profoundly. This is a moment to show respect and support to your partner.
So, when a frustrated text arrives, recognize it as a golden opportunity. We all need somebody to confirm our frustration and take our side when we feel insecure. Be that special person when the time comes.
13) Let time be your servant
Waiting is hard, especially if you are afraid that someone else may win your partner’s heart.
The feeling of pressure to fix things quickly pushes people into a corner and triggers the instinctive fight or flight response.
Don’t let pressure become your master. Instead, visualize how the emotional walls built against the idea of reconciliation are being broken down.
Work on the manifestation correctly by giving your ex enough time.
14) Don’t provoke pity
It’s crucial that you don’t get into a victim role after the break-up. Your ex shouldn’t reconcile with you because they are sorry, but because they love you.
Don’t stick to your partner as an attachment. Don’t show despair and longing. Don’t manipulate. This will only make the situation worse.
Instead, practice separation. Learn to be carefree and independent. Learn how to rise above basal emotions.
Let your ex know you will always be there when they need you, but don’t interfere in the decisions they make. Your partner might soon receive a ping from the universe, reminding them that you are a better fit for them than the competition.
15) Take responsibility for the termination
If you find yourself in a vicious circle in which the main word revolves around the reason you broke up, don’t show disagreement with your partner.
Strive to find a common language and allow the truth to come to the surface. Apologize for the bad things you did. After all, it always takes two to tango.
It’s very important that you don’t blame your ex for breaking up. Instead, it’s better to look at things a little more objectively. This will help you uncover where things went downhill.
16) Don’t agree to intimacy right away
In the process of manifesting your ex back for good, it’s certainly important that you have a lot of endurance, because nothing can happen overnight.
It’s best to wait before becoming intimate again. It’s crucial that you both see the mistakes you’ve made in the past.
If you reconcile too soon, and the problem isn’t solved, only forgotten, it’s highly probable that you’ll fall into the same pits again.
“Passion is the quickest to develop, and the quickest to fade. Intimacy develops more slowly, and commitment more gradually still.”
– Robert Sternberg
Stage 3: The opportunity arises to meet in person
17) Initiate feelings, don’t persuade
There are a lot of emotions behind a breakup that tend to outweigh the logical arguments.
Why is that? Because emotions have the main say. This is true for all types of decision making, especially those in the love spectrum.
Provoking emotions is the best way to get your partner back. However, there is a difference between persuading and initiating the right kind of feeling.
Quarrel won’t take you anywhere. It will only intensify the painful emotions.
In the end, you will show the worst side of anger, despair, and bitterness.
You know this is true because we all react that way when something is important to us, and the other person refuses to be convicted. So don’t try to persuade your ex.
Instead, awaken your emotions and allow them to lead you ahead.
18) Let imagination do its work
We are eager for belonging as well as new experiences. Reconnecting with your ex certainly seems easier than looking for a new partner, getting close to someone new and then risking disappointment again.
So, if you are still wondering how to manifest your ex back for good, I’ll reveal a secret to you.
Silence brings power between lovers. It speaks louder than words and evokes emotions in a way that bypasses word barriers.
Did you know that maintaining eye contact while thinking about love leads to the dilation of pupils? Focus on the positive things you see in the soul of your special person. Look for things that you truly love and appreciate.
Your partner will sense these small vibrational changes on a subconscious level and this helps manifest a mutual attraction.
19) Talk about why you want to be together again
You two have a past and the trust you once had has been shattered but can be rebuilt again. Talk openly and tell each other how you feel and what’s on your mind.
If your love affair gets a chance to start anew, make the most of it. Discuss and try to solve key problems.
It is very likely that you will find yourself in the middle of old discussions again, so talk and understand where things stand.
If you find yourself ignoring signals sent to you by your stomach or the mighty universe, try not to choke on them this time. Listen to your intuition.
Don’t continue your love trajectory from the position you stood at. Instead of building on rubble, look at things that have gone wrong and solve them amicably.
20) Be the first to declare a truce
This is an opportunity to put all the cards on the table, so don’t be afraid and don’t hesitate to declare yourself. Say what you need to be happy and revive your attitude.
But after you’ve both had the chance to testify, be the first to suggest a truce.
Meet your partner again, ask questions and find out what they feel and desire. Make them feel special.
“Eliminate all doubt and replace it with the full expectation that you will receive what you are asking for.”
– Rhonda Byrne
Stage 4: Patience is a virtue
21) Don’t jump the gun with formalities
There is no formula or rule for how fast things should develop, but slow down and wait a second before putting a label on your relationship again.
Also, don’t expect everyone to be thrilled with your reconciliation. Your family and friends know how it all ended last time.
Give yourself time to find out where your new relationship is headed. This will give you time to work on the last essential step in the manifestation process.
22) Be ready to let them go
This is also the hardest part of manifesting a special somebody back into your life.
You know you want to be with them but must also be prepared to lose them. Sounds a little crazy, doesn’t it?
The universe has its funny ways. To manifest your ex back for good, you need to be okay with not being with that person.
Because, if you are not fine with that idea, a part of you resists and makes it impossible to manifest what you desire.
If your ex has a new partner, don’t allow jealousy or resentment to take the wheel. While I am aware that it doesn’t sound painless, it’s a valuable lesson and the key to manifestation.
But no matter what you decide to do, focus on what makes you happy. Don’t think too much about how things are with your partner right now.
Think and focus on yourself. Take care of yourself and let the other person see what they are missing. The universe will reward your spiritual progress and lead you towards your desires.
Hopefully, the steps above will shed some light on how to manifest your ex back.
But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine, professional advisor.
And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate readings, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.
So if you’re tired of wondering about what to do to manifest your ex back, get in touch with a legit advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.
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