How to manifest someone on by writing it down on paper: 14 tips

If you’re like me and you’ve wished for that special person so much that they’re the only thing you’ve been thinking about… you might be asking yourself, “How to manifest someone on by writing it down on paper”?

Is it even possible?

What if I told you that it definitely is?

I’m here to help you understand how to do it and why it’s working in the first place.

There’s a strategy to it, it’s simple, and it works wonderfully. Keep your mind open, your heart willing, and grab a pen. 

Let’s manifest your dreams! 

The three keys to manifesting someone successfully through writing

These three steps will help you manifest your dream person and anything else you might want. 

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1) Visualize your goals

Visualization is the main component of every method of manifestation. If you dedicate five minutes a day to this, you’ll be able to tell the difference immediately. 

When it comes to visualizing yourself with the love of your life, you have to get specific. It helps if you ask yourself the following questions:

  • What do they look like?
  • What are you doing together?
  • What are your shared goals in life? 

You can dream as big as you want; the important thing here is to think about what it is that you value in a partner and how that would feel in real life. 

2) Script your dreams

Fear not if you struggle with visualizing things in your mind’s eye!

Scripting also works great, and it allows you to get an even better image of your special someone. 

Get a journal you like and start writing. Try to answer the following questions. Be specific and detailed, especially when it comes to your future partner’s best qualities:

 Do they have emotional intelligence?

  • Do they share your likes and dislikes? 
  • Do they believe in something other than themselves?
  • What’s their family like?
  • What’s their work ethic like?

You can also specify how your relationship feels. Write about mutual trust, companionship, and even healthy arguments if you want. 

Another key thing to consider here is to write as if you’re already living the things you’re writing about. 

You can even start your sentences with gratefulness: “I give thanks to the universe because my ideal partner is…” 

By doing that, you’ll immediately kick-start the manifestation process and send a signal to the universe that it’s time to act!

3) Get artsy through vision boards!

A vision board will work best if you have a photographic memory or a penchant for art. 

But what’s a vision board?

In other words, it’s a collage–a collection of images that represent your wishes. The great part is that you can do it by hand or keep it in a digital file to see whenever you want. 

It can be as little as one image on the background of your phone or as big as a poster on the wall. Of course, first, you have to know exactly what you want. 

These are the three key strategies that work for manifesting. 

Let’s get into scripting and manifesting through writing. 

How to manifest someone with writing 

1) Get super specific with your wishes

It’s the first step and the most crucial one. The universe will give you what you want, but you need to really, really know what that is. 

For example, if you’re manifesting money and you’re like, “I want to have money in my wallet”, the most likely thing that will happen is that you find $5 on the sidewalk. 

You manifested money after all, right?

The same thing applies to your love life. There isn’t a universal soulmate. No relationships have a one-size-fits-all solution.

I know that from personal experience. 

Most relationship advice from friends and family ends up backfiring. 

But my struggle with manifesting the love of my life last year led me to try something new. 

I spoke to a spiritual advisor at Psychic Source about manifesting my soulmate and improving my love life.

It was a great decision, which I didn’t expect it to be!

The psychic I spoke to was intelligent, compassionate, and down-to-earth. They approached my challenge of finding true love and helped me tackle it effectively. 

I finally felt like I had the roadmap for success in my love life, for the first time in years and after a lot of heartbreak. 

Click here to get your personalized reading.

They will help you optimize your love life and bust down the barriers holding you back. 

2) Write down your hopes and wishes for love

The second step into manifesting your love is writing down your hopes and wishes. 

Writing helps you work out your thoughts and dreams. You need to find the right words and evoke the right feelings. 

When it comes to manifesting, it’s a super convenient method. 

Get a journal or even a piece of paper, and write down your ideal romance, your ideal person. Answer the questions we spoke of above. 

Remember to always be specific in this. 

3) Visualize your dream as if they were real

When it comes to manifesting, it’s best to try out different methods and makeup what works most for us as individuals. 

After I write down my desired love life, it’s crucial to visualize it. It gives a necessary boost to my manifestation powers

It also helps me to determine whether or not I’d like certain qualities in my ideal person, and it can even highlight the areas I have to work on. 

What I do is I put on some relaxing music, close my eyes and imagine myself and my partner going on dates, cuddling, and sharing daily life. 

I focus on the feelings and the serenity the person brings me. This way, I am able to recognize it in real life. 

4) Believe in your power

If you want to live it, you have to believe it. You can, and you will succeed in finding love; that’s a fact, and you have to accept it!

Not believing leads you to accept less than what you deserve. You deserve someone kind and who loves you unconditionally. 

Open your mind and, above all, open your heart. Living a happy and fulfilling love life with someone special is possible. 

Once you believe, you’ll discover how quickly it becomes your reality. You’ll be attuned to the signs and the moments that will make it happen!  

5) Get in touch with your feelings

This is also important, although it might sound a little weird at first. 

How does love feel? I mean healthy, true love. Have you ever felt it? 

You have to know how it feels for you to recognize it when it comes. 

Once you’re able to feel it, focus on it as much as you can. Direct it to yourself, and your future person or even a current love interest that you hope will be the one. 

Close your eyes and find the love that you already have within you. With time it will become easier, and you’ll see it very quickly in real life. 

Write down your feelings and let them go…don’t overthink them! The Universe is already working…

6) Act on your dreams! 

Now that you’ve talked the talk, so to speak, it’s time to take action! 

No need to do something too drastic, though. 

You don’t need to change countries, be somewhere else, or quit your job… unless, of course, that’s something you want. 

If you’re manifesting someone back into your life, for example, then perhaps, take an interest in their activities. Contact them if appropriate, and evaluate how to improve yourself and the relationship. 

It will work wonders for you, especially if you go about it in a non-pushy way. 

7) Let go of the outcome

This is the hardest part of manifesting and sometimes a bitter truth. The universe will not allow it to happen if it’s not for you, no matter how much you’ve been manifesting. 

But it doesn’t mean it will never happen! Perhaps now isn’t the right time. 

Keep an open mind and be okay with things not going your way. 

The universe works in mysterious ways, but always in your favor. 

8) Patience is key

I know. We all want things to happen right now. 

But there’s beauty in patience: it allows you to enjoy the path and not worry about the destination. 

Focus on the present, keep manifesting love and light into your life, and notice how it is already happening. 

Maybe your mom invited you over for tea, or maybe your friends are celebrating the fact that you’re with them. 

You already have a lot of love to enjoy. Maybe romantic love is right around the corner, but in the meantime, don’t take yourself too seriously. 

Keep working toward your dreams, and you’ll see how much you get to enjoy. 

9) Practice gratefulness

This ties into the previous piece of advice as well. Being patient and staying grateful will help you realize the fact that being alive is, a lot of the time, a miracle. 

Your ideal partner is out there, and you can be grateful for it right now. 

Even if you still haven’t found them, and even through bad experiences, everything can teach you valuable lessons. 

Give thanks, and move on! 

10) Good things take time

Although some people meet the love of their life immediately after starting their manifestation journey, it won’t be a reality for a lot of us. 

Good things happen to those who wait! 

Manifestation starts yielding results immediately. You have to keep your eyes open for the unexpected and not get discouraged if you don’t see any changes instantly. 

Keep busy, encourage positivity in your life, and you’ll see. Life will become better even if you don’t have everything you want at the moment. 

Your person will come to you, or you’ll go to them at best possible time.  

11) The possibilities are endless

If you’re manifesting love but unable to make space or time for the people you already have in your life, chances are you won’t meet your person. 

First, you have to be open to the idea that a relationship can be great for you. The fact that it’s the love of your life doesn’t mean it’ll be without conflict. 

Do you want to be in a relationship with the good and the bad?

When you have the answer, clear your schedule to do things you enjoy with the people you already love.

12) Keep an open mind as much as you can

It’s frustrating, sometimes, to wait for your soulmate once you’ve started manifesting them. 

This frustration is natural, and it won’t impede your power, but don’t let it guide your actions. The universe doesn’t work like that, and your love might show up in unexpected scenarios. 

This is especially true if you’re narrow-minded regarding physical aspects. 

Your soulmate might be of different age, race, or even gender than what you first wanted, but it doesn’t mean they’ll be any less loving toward you. 

Love can be beautiful, but it can also be really painful. 

When I was super angry at the universe and manifestation in general, I did something unorthodox. 

As I mentioned, I reached out to the spiritual advisors at Psychic Source

They helped me grapple with the root of my frustrations and gave me answers that helped. 

Click here to get your personalized love reading

13) Every feeling matters

Listen, both positive and negative emotions are necessary to keep our lives balanced. Trust me, a few days of negativity will not impact your manifestation powers! 

You need to allow yourself to feel. Repressing anger, frustration, or sadness in the hopes that the universe will “not take into consideration” doesn’t work as great as you might think it does. 

Your mental health matters, and knowing how to manage emotions is key to having a fulfilling love life. 

When you’re not scared of your feelings, you’re on the right path. Getting back to writing…note them down! It’s helpful to see them on paper and get more clarity.

14) Prioritize positivity

If something makes you feel good, why not keep it in your life? Maybe it’s embroidery, painting, or going out and meeting new people. 

If your mindset is in the right place, pursuing pleasure and happiness, you’ll be okay. Your manifestations are working! 

When you actively seek to be happy, the universe knows. Even on your bad days, even on your worst days. 

You will make your dreams come true. 

How long does manifesting take before you see results?

There isn’t a universal answer to this. It depends on the frequency of your manifestation routines and the energy you put into your goals. 

It also depends on the size of the goals. If you’re hoping to find $10 bill right now, it’ll probably work pretty quickly. If you want to be a millionaire, it will take some time. 

Same with love: a nice date and the love of your life are two different things.  

Even then, visualizing, scripting, and maintaining a healthy emotional state will keep telling the universe what is that you want the most.

When you use writing, does it work faster?

The point of writing is that it’s helpful to you as an individual. The universe is bigger than that. 

Generally, it takes a few days for my manifestations to work when I write things down if they’re easy things. Remember that if you believe, it will happen in its own time. 

Constant self-doubt and frustration won’t help you see things for what they are. 

Don’t let the negativity throw your manifestations out the window! 

What is the law of attraction?

The law of attraction is a philosophy that claims one’s thoughts determine their reality. An individual attracts what they think.

The law of attraction is treated as a natural law by self-help and self-care advocates, but we can thank the power of a positive attitude and an optimistic mindset. 

A positive attitude doesn’t mean relentless or toxic positivity. 

There’s space to acknowledge reality; reality doesn’t always go our way every day, we have setbacks, but we can rise above them. 

In the same way, an optimistic mindset isn’t about believing that “everything will just work out” if you believe hard enough.

An optimistic mindset is a belief that there is a solution or a way to resolve a problem or challenge. It’s hope combined with action.

The law of attraction and its 7 related laws

1) The Law of Manifestation

Your mind has the power, not your methods. The methods are simply useful tools, but the power is yours to harness. 

Happiness takes some work! So, I want to share something with you that changed my life. 

It’s my constant manifestation and breathwork! 

There were some moments in my life when my negative emotions had the upper hand on everything I did. Thankfully, I’ve learned to manifest positive outcomes with writing and with collages.

However, I could get stuck in a negative state of mind for quite a while, and that would become a problem. 

One of my friends introduced me to an incredibly invigorating breathwork video, created by the shaman Rudá Iandê.

If you’re wondering what breathwork has to do with anything we’ve been talking about, worry not. 

I’ll tell you!

Through the breathwork sequences Rudá has created in this life-changing video, you and everyone else can learn to manage your emotions instead of letting them rule you. You’ll be given the tools to dissolve stress and anxiety. 

And most importantly, you’ll learn to reconnect with every fiber of your being, both positive and negative. 

And yes, it is as simple as taking a breath. 

How do I know this will help you?

Well, if it could bring me out of the anxiety and despair loop I was stuck in, I’m sure it will help everyone who comes across it. 

Click here to watch the free video.  

2) The Law of Magnetism

Some people believe in vibrations. We attract the same things as our vibrational frequency. If we’re in a high vibrational state, we will attract positive things. 

The opposite will happen if we are feeling low when it comes to frequencies. 

We’re magnets! If you let yourself only see and hear the negativity, you’ll be blind to the things that are good for you. 

This law highlights the importance of positivity. It raises our vibrations and attracts positive things into our lives. 

Always remember that your mental state determines how you see the world around you. Change it for the better, and live in your power! 

Of course, this is easier said than done. Fortunately, the mind can be trained to see the positives, just like anything else. 

3) The law of unwavering, pure desire

You have to want something if you want to experience it. If you want true love but you don’t believe you’re worthy of it, nothing you can do will change your situation. 

The universe’s message is clear: work on your self-perception, and your life will improve enough to receive and enjoy love. 

This is why writing down things can help you get a clear picture of your true wishes. Everyone wants a big house and lots of money, but maybe there are other things you need to accomplish first. 

4) The law of balance

The universe has its scale to balance things, and it’s not for us to understand at all times. 

Trust that your wishes will come true when the moment is right, and the balance is achieved. This happens especially when we feel at peace and happy with our lives. 

Our vibrational frequencies naturally get higher. 

Practicing mindfulness and feeling grateful is key to achieving this state of mind. 

5) The law of harmony 

The universe is intrinsically connected, and we’re part of that connection. The energy sources are infinite, and you’re one of them! 

This means you’re more powerful than you think. You can change your reality through thought, action, and words. The universe is abundant, and it’s there for your benefit. 

If you keep yourself in alignment, in harmony with the best and purest of thoughts, then your power grows, and the universe works in your favor. 

6) The law of action

We’ve spoken of this before, but it’s worth reviewing it again. Your actions influence those around you. 

I don’t mean only the people, I mean everything–your environment, the energies that are there to support you, everything. Call it guarding angels, spirits, or ancestors; they feel what you feel. 

You won’t get what you want if your actions are selfish and negatively oriented. If you mistreat others, your own life will be worse. Remember the law of balance? It’s the same for both the positives and the negatives. 

Even if things are terrible right now, you have something under your control. Make sure that you are taking care of things in the best possible way. If you choose goodness, you’ll see goodness. 

7) The law of expansion

Energy exists; that is a scientific fact. Your impact on the world doesn’t go unnoticed. Your productivity, relationships, and your mood will be affected if you’re okay or not. 

This expands into the entire universe. You can influence the world! Keep choosing the highest good, and keep working to leave behind a more generous place, an abundance of generosity. 

Fill the universe with love and goodness. 

Attraction and action: the universe works better

I love daydreaming as much as anyone else, but things will simply not happen for me unless I get to work for my dreams. 

A positive mindset is all well and good, but it has to be accompanied by actions. That’s how the law of attraction works. 

It’s effort, mindset, planning, and working for the things you want. One day you’ll look back and think, “wow, this was all completely worth it.” 

If you’re going through a rough patch and you feel you need help getting back on track, I want to be that help the universe is sending your way. 

I know, manifesting love and feeling it are sometimes very hard, very challenging things to achieve. But please, don’t give up! 

Remember Psychic Source? I mentioned them earlier and my positive experience with them. 

Their spiritual advisors are super understanding when it comes to problems manifesting, and they teach you how to address them in the best possible way.  

Click here to get your love reading.

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Tina Fey

Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing for Nomadrs to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.

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