12 ways to tell if you’re a vibrational match to someone

Even if you’re immediately attracted to someone, it can still be difficult to determine whether you’re a good match.

In the initial stages of dating, it can be tricky to figure out whether the other person is a good match for you. Sure, there are obvious signs like if they have different beliefs or interests; but what about when things are less clear?

How do you know? These are 12 ways you can tell if you’re a vibrational match with that special someone.

What is a vibrational match?

Before we dig into these 12 ways, let’s define what a “vibrational match” actually is. A vibrational match is someone who shares your same level of energy or vibration – it describes the passion and excitement that you feel for them.

This does not mean that you should only be with someone who matches your exact personality traits or interests.

Sometimes you can connect with someone more than anyone else despite having starkly different personalities or interests; it all depends on how strong your connection is.

Before I dive into this list, there are a few things to keep in mind:

  1. A vibrational match is not the same as a compatible partner – which means that this person “completes” your life in every way.
  2. It is possible for you to be attracted to the most incompatible person in the world … and end up being life partners together! In other words, attraction and compatibility are two different things entirely and can exist separately from each other.
  3. Nonetheless, it definitely helps to have some common interests when the attraction is involved … so even if you just so happen to be attracted to an incompatible person, it doesn’t hurt to try increasing the compatibility by getting on the same page with each other. This way it might just become easier for both of you if things progress further down the line!
  4. You will never be with someone who is a 100% vibrational match with you. If you think someone is a 100% match then that means you’re projecting insecurities onto them, which is only going to bring inferior experiences into your life.
  5. When two people share a strong connection, it doesn’t mean that they’re always “in love” or blissfully happy together … sometimes the relationship can be very turbulent or turbulent at certain points in time (like any other relationship).

12 ways to tell if you’re a vibrational match to someone

1) Your attraction to this person is instant and strong

The first way to tell if you’re a vibrational match with someone is if the attraction is strong and happens instantly.

It doesn’t matter if it’s love, lust, or just plain friendship – a strong and immediate attraction is to be expected when your frequencies are in harmony.

On the other hand, a slow and gradual attraction indicates that there’s something missing in the connection between you two.

If there’s something missing or if you don’t feel an instant attraction, it means you’re perhaps not on the same page as that person.

But don’t only look at the chemistry between you two … in order to tell if the connection is there, you also need to look at each other’s energy fields. I personally feel that this is very important in a friendship/relationship.

2) Their aura feels warm and inviting when they walk into the room

Have you ever been attracted to someone and sensed that their aura feels warm, inviting, and happy to interact with you?

If so, congratulations!

This is a sure sign that your energies are vibrating at the same frequency. When this happens (and it will happen more often as you get to know them more), it’s a sign that there’s a match between the two of you.

This also means that they have good intentions – they want to help you grow and become better in all areas of your life. They want to bring out the best in you.

Want to know the best part?

Once you find this person and you feel a strong attraction towards them, they’ll most likely be a huge help to you in all areas.

They don’t want to take advantage of your vulnerability – they actually want to make you better, not just for themselves, but for everyone around them!

3) There’s mutual respect and admiration for one another

According to the Law of Attraction, the universe picks up humans on the high vibrational frequency level.

You may be wondering how can you attract someone if they’re not attracted to you! This is where mutual respect and admiration come in.

When you find someone who doesn’t look down upon anyone, but instead looks up to everyone and respects everyone equally, it’s a sure sign that you have found someone who is on your level and has a vibration match.


Because when you are in a place where you are not just on the same level as the other person, it’s extremely hard to hold any form of attraction or chemistry with them.

They see you as an equal – and that is something that tells them there’s no need to lower their vibe towards you because your vibe is already there!

So if you want to attract someone but aren’t sure how exactly to do so, start looking for people who possess these qualities. It will make your life so much easier!

4) Get help from a real psychic

The signs above and below will give you a good idea about a vibration match to someone.

But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a gifted advisor.

They can answer questions like, Is this person my attraction a vibrational match? Am I attracted to this person because they’re a vibrational match?

The problem is finding someone you can trust.

That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. When I signed up for a reading, they provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I am meant to be with.

Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate, and helpful network of gifted advisors out there.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

Not only will a genuine advisor tell you if you’re on the right path, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.

5) You can’t stop thinking about them

The feeling of attraction is one that can become very strong, especially when you first meet someone.

You may find yourself thinking about them a lot and wondering how you can get closer to them so that you can experience something even greater!

Now, if you find yourself getting very excited whenever they walk into the room (like I do), it’s a clear sign that they’re on your wavelength and they’re worth spending time with.


The more time you spend with someone, the more you absorb their energy – which in turn will make it easier for you to magnetize them in the future!

You see, as these two things are happening simultaneously, before long your energy will start vibrating at a higher frequency than theirs.

It’s like being on the same wavelength but only being able to match each other’s frequencies – so when the time comes for a direct exchange of energies between the two of you (and there will be times for this whether this is mutual or not) it’ll be much easier to connect!

Pro tip:

Pay attention to how you feel whenever you’re near that person. If the whole of your being is on the verge of exploding in excitement, it’s a clear sign that there’s something very special about them!

You see, how you feel when around someone is always a sign of whether or not they’re on your wavelength – because if they aren’t, they won’t vibrate at the same frequency as you do.

6) You share similar values

Another way to tell whether or not you’re a vibrational match to someone is to find out what they believe in, what they value, and what they think is important.

Why are believing systems and values relevant?

Because when you connect, these beliefs can act as a bridge between you – allowing a certain level of energetic compatibility to occur.

For example, if you believe in reincarnation and someone else doesn’t, it can cause a disconnection between you because you’ve no way of understanding where they come from or why they don’t feel that this is true.

This is why it’s important to spend time with people who share values with you – not just to strengthen your own beliefs, but also to help guide them towards their own personal spiritual paths!

7) Your relationship feels effortless and natural

Things just happen between you as if you’ve always been together – whether it be in terms of feeling like there’s an ease to your interactions or the way that something they say bounces off of you and makes you start laughing.

This is because when two people vibrate at the same frequency, they connect and this connection naturally happens – which means that it won’t feel forced or unnatural to feel the same way.

The clearer that this connection is felt, the more positive energy will flow between the two of you creating a sense of easy bliss between the two of you that’s impossible to fake!


Don’t try too hard to make this happen!

In fact, if someone has a very clear connection with another person but doesn’t reciprocate this feeling, then there’s a good chance that they don’t really connect with themselves.

8) Your synchronicity is evident

Trust me, the world is filled with coincidences and synchronicities – most of which you’ll probably never notice because they happen so often but you’ll feel them when they do. When your relationship feels as if things just ‘happen’ between the two of you, then there’s a high likelihood that this is exactly what’s happening.

If two people are vibrating at the same frequency, then their life experiences will naturally sync up with one another – which means that these events will feel like destiny! Synchronicity is a powerful force and if you can harness this energy by being aware of it, then your relationships will naturally be more positive, and positive vibes will flow!

For example:

– You both read a book at the same time on the same day

– You both watch a movie in the same theater

– Or you meet at an event that your other half is attending

That’s why recognizing that your synchronicity happens is so important – because it gives you a glimpse into how things will be.

9) You can easily be yourself around them

As we’ve discussed above, when you’re not on the same wavelength, things can feel forced and unnatural.

Now if you find yourself feeling “off” or like you’re trying too hard around a certain person, then it’s almost guaranteed that you’re simply not vibrating at their frequency.

If this is the case, then it’s important to recognize that nothing will come of your interactions with this person!


If you feel completely at ease and relaxed with someone, then there’s a good chance that you do share similar frequencies. In fact, you see, the more one is ready to be themselves and let go of their inhibitions, the quicker they’ll start to feel natural ease towards you.

But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.

So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

10) You feel comforted by spending time together

When two people sync up with one another, it often creates a deep sense of comfort for them which means they don’t mind being together for long periods of time or not interacting at all!

Not many people enjoy being on their own too much so if this happens between two people (or three) then consider yourself lucky!

We all need someone else to help hold us up when we’re down and this is why many of us have found ourselves attracted to others who feel the same way.

If you have a strong connection with someone then you’ll likely feel this way as well – which means that it’s one of the first signs that you’ve got something special going on.

By recognizing these cosmic synchronicities in your relationship, you’ll be able to see how one person can completely change your life.

Instead of thinking about what’s unfair or lacking in your relationship, you can consider these synchronicities as positive things which means that there’s more work to be done so both of you can reach the top!

11) You’ve got the same vision for the future

One of the ways to find out if you’re a vibration match for someone is to discover if you have the same vision for the future.

It’s therefore worth exploring how both your visions compare and whether there are any commonalities between the two of them.

If the two of you have a similar future planned out then it goes without saying that you will want to work alongside one another to reach this goal.

If this is how it’s going to be, then you can use any rituals or ceremonies which are needed to make it happen – but at least you’ll both understand where your visions are going!

12) You feel energized by being together

The last way to find out if you’re vibrating at the same frequency as someone is to look at how you feel when you’re together.

If you feel energized, light-hearted, and uplifted, then there’s a good chance that you’re onto something special!

But wait, there’s more!

These feelings might not just be physical – they may also be emotional.

So if you do feel like your feelings for one another are stronger and more powerful when you’re together, then there’s a good chance that you’ll move toward one another.

But remember:

Everyone has to get their own feelings in check first before making any big decisions! Otherwise, it can feel a bit weird and uncomfortable to move forward with someone else when you’re not in the right frame of mind yourself.

Final thoughts

We’ve covered 12 ways to tell if you’re a vibrational match to someone so if you want to find out if you’re vibrating at their frequency then think about whether or not these are the signs that you’re seeing. If so, then it’s probably worth exploring further!

Since we touched upon several different situations in this article, it’s good to remember that meaning sometimes goes hand in hand with instinct.

That means if you have a feeling that something is there and then act upon this, then you can say that you knew it all along.

You may not want to rely on these feelings too much, but they’ll definitely come in handy when you need them the most!

But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine advisor.

And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate reading, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.

So if you’re tired of wondering about whether you’re a vibrational match to someone, get in touch with a gifted advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.

Click here to get your own professional love reading. 

Thảo Anh Nguyễn

Thảo Anh Nguyễn

It is the little daily things that make life worth living and I know how to put you in the right perspective. I write about the intersection of life and love: how spirituality has changed my relationships, what I do to cultivate love in my life, and why I believe that all relationships are spiritual. Meet all your needs for your relationship and pieces of life advice with my articles.

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