It feels as though everyone and their mother seems to be talking about manifestation nowadays.
It’s a big hype, and people are manifesting houses, cars, careers – and people!
But what does it really mean to manifest someone? And how does it work?
I’ll shed some light on that topic so that there will be no more confusion around it!
1) What even is manifestation?
Let’s start with the basics so that we’re all on the same page: what even is manifestation?
Manifesting is the process of bringing something into your life from a place of desire.
The whole process is based on the law of attraction.
The law suggests that what you focus on and what you think about the most will be brought into your life.
Manifesting is focusing on something you want, and focusing on it so much that the energy and vibrations around it draw it into your life.
Manifesting can be used to create almost anything – from money to relationships, to even the health of your body.
Any kind of change can be created with this process.
People have been wildly successful by putting this law into action and have manifested careers, houses, cars, and even people!
The great thing about manifestation is that once you get the hang of it, it’s a very easy process to follow.
In fact, you are manifesting already, whether you believe in it or not!
We are manifesting the whole time, our thoughts constantly create our realities.
But let’s take a look at how manifestation really works:
2) How does manifesting work?
When we focus on what we want and think about it a lot, we send a message to the universe that something like that would really benefit us.
And the more you think about it, the more likely the universe is to respond to you.
That response, in most cases, is the manifestation of what we’ve been focusing on.
Now, the way the universe responds to those requests can actually be explained scientifically.
You see, when you align your emotions with a certain thing, you send out different vibrations.
And vibrations attract similar vibrations.
So, whatever you focus on, you attract into your life.
This is where resistance comes in.
The more we focus on something we don’t have, the more likely we are to create a block for ourselves.
This is because we’re not ready for it, or we don’t truly believe we deserve it. The same goes for the people we want to manifest.
But how do you go about manifesting something or someone?
Well, when manifesting anything, it is important to first get very clear on what it is you want to manifest.
Think about it: when you aren’t sure of what you want, there is no way for you to send out the clear message that this is what you want to attract.
So, the first thing you should do is get clear by writing down exactly what it is you want.
Once you have done this, it is time to start focusing on your desire.
You can do this by visualizing what you want or imagining what it would be like to have it. You can write about your desire and how it makes you feel.
You can speak about it out loud and really imagine that your desire has already come true.
What’s important is that you focus all of your attention on your desire and how good it feels rather than focusing on the lack of what you don’t have.
This will help attract more of the same energy into your life (i.e., more of what you want).
Then, you want to focus on that thing, and visualize it as much as you can.
An important thing here is to feel the emotions of what it would be like to reach that goal.
This is where some people might run into problems.
When you can’t align your emotions with what you want to attract, you are sabotaging your own manifestation.
So, how do you avoid this?
The answer lies in being aware of your thoughts.
If you ever find yourself thinking negatively about what it is you are trying to manifest, stop yourself and change your train of thought to something more positive.
Now: if you keep visualizing your goal and keep aligning your energy, there is nothing standing in the way of you manifesting whatever you want!
3) What would a gifted advisor say?
The signs above and below will give you a good idea about manifesting a person into your life.
But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a gifted advisor.
They can answer questions like, how can I manifest someone? Should I do it?
The problem is finding someone you can trust.
That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. When I signed up for a reading, they provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I am meant to be with.
Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate, and helpful network of gifted advisors out there.
Not only will a genuine advisor tell you how to manifest someone, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.
4) How do you manifest someone?
Now: How would someone go about manifesting another person?
You can manifest a specific person into your life, but you have to be careful with that.
The reason you have to be careful is that you’re manifesting from a place of lack.
If your intention is to manifest someone because you’re not ready to be single and you want a relationship, it will only send more people who aren’t ready to be in a relationship into your life.
But I will get into the things you should be careful about in a second, let’s take a look at the how first.
When you want to manifest a person, you essentially do the exact same thing as I just described.
First, you want to get really clear on what you want.
Do you want a relationship with that person? How will they treat you? What will you do every day?
You can write all these details down to make it easier and more effective.
Next, you will have to get rid of any limiting beliefs that are holding you back from fully believing that you deserve to be with someone amazing.
That’s why I always encourage people to write down what they want their life to be like once they’ve manifested this person into their lives.
I also encourage you not to focus on the negative things about your current situation but instead focus on what you have now and what you would have in your ideal relationship.
Try to identify which part of you feels as though you don’t deserve a beautiful relationship, and then work on healing that part.
When you are ready, you can go ahead and begin visualizing the person you want in your life.
Do not let doubts or fears creep into your head.
You are amazing and anybody would be happy to call you their partner.
With this mindset, you will be able to manifest your ideal partner in no time.
If you want to manifest someone into your life then I suggest that you start doing it from a place of love and abundance.
This way, instead of attracting more people who aren’t ready for a relationship into your life, you’ll be attracting people who are ready for one and who have positive energy there with them.
5) Why you maybe shouldn’t manifest specific people
Now: many people will tell you to manifest a specific person, but I disagree.
The main reason you might not want to manifest a specific person is if you’re manifesting them out of desperation.
If you’re manifesting someone out of desperation, you’re not actually opening yourself up to the right type of person for you.
You’re closing yourself off to the right person.
You’re not allowing yourself to be open to other people who maybe could be even better for you, because you’re too busy manifesting the person you want to be with.
And manifesting someone out of desperation is also very likely to attract someone who’s going to reflect that desperation you feel.
This person isn’t going to be able to truly appreciate you because you are desperate to be in a relationship.
They want to feel loved and appreciated just as much as you do.
By manifesting someone out of desperation, you’re closing yourself off to potential partners who could be great for you.
Now: another thing that speaks against manifestation is this:
If your partner doesn’t want to be with you without you having to manifest them, do you even want to be with them?
Chances are, if you are manifesting someone specific you know, they aren’t making any advances to wanting to be with you (otherwise you wouldn’t even have to manifest them).
Now: if they aren’t making any advances and you are manifesting them, what does this say about you?
Essentially you are telling yourself “I need to manifest in order for someone to like me. If I don’t they will not be with me”.
Instead of manifesting a specific person, you’re better off focusing on what qualities you want in a partner. What are the qualities you’re looking for in a partner?
Those are the things you should be concentrating on.
By focusing on what you want, you’re putting yourself in a place of abundance and opening yourself up to more potential partners.
You’re not just manifesting one person because you’re desperate to not be single.
You’re manifesting a variety of people because you’re in a place of abundance and you truly believe that you deserve to be in a relationship.
6) Ask yourself why you want to manifest a specific person
Before you even think about manifesting someone, ask yourself why you want to do it.
Ask yourself why you want this specific person in your life.
Why do you want to be in a relationship with this person?
Why are they beneficial to your life?
If you can’t answer these questions, you probably shouldn’t be manifesting them in the first place.
You want to be in a relationship with someone who benefits you and your life, not just someone you have a crush on.
Simply put, you want to be in a relationship with someone who takes your life to the next level, not just someone who fills the gap of being single.
Now: I touched on this earlier but be really honest with yourself here: why do you want to manifest a specific person?
Do you think you aren’t good enough on your own to be showered with their love?
Do you think you need them to complete you and make your life better?
If so, that’s not a healthy mindset to have.
This is a clear sign of low self-esteem.
You need to realize you’re good enough as you are and if this person doesn’t appreciate that, it’s their loss.
If someone you have in your life doesn’t already make advances and show that they’re interested in dating you, then that person is most probably just not for you.
If they’re not going to do anything, you shouldn’t waste your time.
Focus on what you want and what makes you happy.
You should never settle for someone who doesn’t show interest in you just because you have a crush on them.
This is a clear sign that they don’t appreciate who you are as a person, and they don’t deserve to have your attention or your time.
By trying to force them into your life using manifestation, you are affirming to yourself that nobody will want to be with you on their own terms.
But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.
So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.
Now: I am all for manifesting a loving partner because I truly believe it can work, but I don’t think you should manifest a specific person.
So let’s take a look at how to go about that:
7) How to manifest the right partner
Manifesting a loving partner into your life is a much healthier way to go about this entire topic.
First, you want to start by focusing on the qualities you’d want a future partner to have.
By that I mean:
This is the most fun part of it all, you get to ask yourself: “what do I really want in a partner? What qualities are important to me?”
It’s a good idea to write these things down.
You want to make sure you’re clear with yourself on what you want in a partner.
This will be helpful later on when we start working with the law of attraction.
What you don’t want is to manifest someone who is nothing like what you asked for!
So be very clear about your wants, likes, and dislikes.
Now: this may seem like the most important part but it’s not actually the most important part.
Once you have a general idea of what qualities you’d want your future partner to have, it’s time to start focusing on how happy and fulfilled you will be when you are with them.
However, don’t forget to acknowledge that you don’t NEED them in your life in order to be happy.
They will add happiness, that’s for sure, but you aren’t dependent on them to make you happy.
That brings me to my next point:
8) Desperation is a huge block in the manifestation process, so try to avoid it
Desperation is something that you should avoid at all costs when you’re trying to manifest a new partner.
You have to be open to receiving what you want, while still being happy with where you are at, and if you’re too desperate, you’re not going to be able to see it when it finally arrives.
Desperation will actually keep you from receiving the person you want because you’re not going to be fully open to the relationship.
You’ll be so desperate to have someone that it will close you off to the relationship you could actually be in.
You’ll be too busy obsessing over the fact that you don’t have someone to truly appreciate the person who is right in front of you.
And the worst part?
Desperation could make you settle for someone who is not right for you, just because you didn’t want to be alone!
There’s this quote that goes “Don’t let your boyfriend/girlfriend keep you from finding your soulmate”, and I think it’s a really powerful quote.
Even though you might not have a boyfriend or girlfriend right now, think about it when meeting new people.
Are they your soulmate or are they simply filling a void?
9) Only manifest from a place of abundance, not lack
If you’re truly ready to manifest a relationship, you have to be in a place of abundance.
You can’t be in a place of lack. If you’re still hung up on your last relationship and you can’t let go of the feeling of being single, you’re not ready to be in a new relationship.
Manifesting a new partner when you’re still hung up on your last relationship or you’re not ready to be single yet will only bring you more of the same.
If you’re not ready to be in a relationship, you have to be in a place of abundance.
You have to be in a place of abundance if you want to manifest a new partner, but you also have to make sure you’re not manifesting someone out of desperation.
A place of abundance means that you are in no hurry to manifest anyone, you are good on your own and happy, and you know that you only deserve the best partner possible.
This shows yourself and the universe that you won’t settle for less and that you know what you deserve.
A place of abundance means that you are in a place where you feel good about yourself, and you’re not desperate for someone else to make you feel good.
Think about it: if you’re in a place of lack, and desperate for someone to make you feel good or complete, that’s not going to be a healthy relationship.
If there is any doubt in your mind about whether or not you’re ready for a new relationship, or if there’s any doubt about whether or not the person is right for you, don’t manifest the relationship!
Ask yourself if your standards are too low. If they are, work on raising them until they’re where they need to be.
Bottom line – Should you manifest people?
If you want to manifest a specific person, then no, you shouldn’t.
If you want to manifest a new partner, then you should as long as you’re in a place of abundance and you’re not manifesting anyone out of desperation.
But if you’re not ready to be in a new relationship and you’re manifesting someone because you just don’t feel happy being single, they’re not going to be the right person for you.
In general, there is nothing wrong with manifesting a new partner into your life, but when it comes to a specific person, I would rethink your choices.
Really ask yourself why you are doing it and what your intentions are.
All in all, you will find the perfect partner as soon as you realize your own worth.
Hopefully, the points above will shed some light on manifesting a person into your life.
But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine advisor.
And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate reading, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.
So if you’re tired of wondering about how to manifest someone, get in touch with a gifted advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.