Are you tired of being disappointed in love: do you feel like everyone besides you is in a happy relationship, and you feel like the only person on earth who can’t seem to figure it out?
Relationships and the dating and breaking up that happens is downright exhausting. Not to mention trying to manifest love.
If you’re reading this, it’s no coincidence. The Universe has led you to this article which might very well change your life.
So, if you’re tired of your wall-flower status, read this comprehensive guide on how to manifest someone you like. You contain absolutely everything you need to know, from dos and don’ts to techniques and step-by-step manifestation tips.
Let’s get stuck in.
So, why haven’t I been able to manifest someone to like me?
Manifesting your soul mate is going to mean that you take a look at where you’ve gone wrong in the past. Sure, everyone is different, but some common factors often block us from finding the love we deserve.
- You’ve put up a wall and unconsciously shut down. After countless disappointments and heartache, it’s not unusual for us to try to protect ourselves. But, unfortunately, by closing “shutting down,” you’re hindering new love from entering your life.
- You’re hung up on the past. It’s difficult to find love if you’re still moping about the past. Perhaps, you’re still trying to heal and process a complicated relationship, or it could be an old flame that you’re still not ready to let go of.
- You’ve lost hope. Because you’ve been seeking love for such a long time, it’s easy to become disillusioned and to stop believing that your soul mate is out there. This might cause you to settle for a mediocre partner rather than being committed to finding true love.
If you’re a beginner to the world of manifestation, the most important thing to do is
IN a nutshell, you must teach yourself to align with a vibrational frequency that attracts love rather than another disaster. With that, you need to develop a complete and crystal clear sense of what you are trying to achieve when you manifest love.
Most of us have no clue how to drill down the concept of what we are looking for in love. The Universe can’t help you if you can’t define what it is that you want, so to help you out, here are four ways that you can begin to manifest love (with intention).
Step 1: Decide what you want.
It might sound like a no-brainer, but you need to start thinking about what your ideal relationship looks like.
Take the time to think about the things you’re looking for in a partner. Of course, when you’re doing this, you’re planting the seed.
Your thoughts are the water that will nourish the seed, and the Universe will ensure that with sunlight (vibrational entry), it will start growing.
Don’t spend time thinking about the how. Just focus on what you want – this is your only job – the Universe will do the rest.
Step 2: Visualize it.
Conjure what you want in your mind, visualize it, and get amped about it.
By doing so, you are matching the vibration of what it is you’re trying to attract in your life. You’ve probably spent loads of time visualizing your perfect partner but, the difference here is that you are purposeful in your thoughts.
Go into detail, and don’t be afraid to be ultra-picky. You’re visualizing the person you want to spend your life with, so no detail should be left out.
Think about your potential partner, how they look, how you envision your relationship and the qualities you want them to have.
Step 3: Embody it.
Although they’re not yet in your life, act as if you already have this type of love in your life. Behave as if they are already part of your life. Embody the version of you that is currently in this type of relationship.
Don’t obsess about an outcome but rather take time to look after yourself and do the things that make you feel good, whether or not this partner is in your life.
Step 4: Align your actions.
So you’ve set your intention; you’ve visualized and embodied the moment. Now comes the part where you will need to act. The person who you’ve manifested to like you is going to present themselves in your life. Be open to meeting new people and don’t brush them off or ignore them.
Taking action means saying yes to those who show potential and no to those who don’t fit your criteria. You’re manifesting your ideal partner, so don’t be tempted to settle for less and don’t say yes just for the sake of not being alone.
If you feel like you keep on getting the short end of the stick and are only up with duds, remember, the Universe is sending you what you’re manifesting.
If this is the case, take a step back and calibrate. You might not be setting the right intention to start with; thus, it’s super important to align your actions with your intent.
Step 5: Surrender.
This is the most challenging step. You’re going to get a few surprises along the way, and don’t be tempted to throw in the towel when what you attract is not what you had hoped it would be.
Forget rational and logic; surrendering means letting go and allowing love to flow into your life without obsessing about a specific outcome or person.
You could end up meeting someone entirely unexpected; the Universe’s timing is always right. When you meet this person, you’ll know why things never worked out with anyone else.
Can you expedite the manifestation process?
The Universe doesn’t work according to our schedules. There is to ETA (estimated time of arrival)
As I mentioned above, love seldom comes along when it’s expected. However, you need to be open to the possibilities that life has and the Universe has in store for you.
With that said, the Universe does have a way of hinting that good things are coming. Keep an eye out for repeated number sequences, chance meetings, seemingly weird coincidences, and images – these are sent by the Universe; you need to be receptive and decode the signals.
Your intuition will help you determine whether these signs are significant or not. But don’t fool yourself into seeing things that aren’t there. If your desire is going to occur, the Universe will reveal it to you. So, here are a few ideas to help strengthen your manifestation.
To help you along, and until you find your particular person, manifest love as if you were living each day like you’re already in love. Not like you’re searching for it.
Get rid of the homeless cat lady sweatsuit and wear the clothes you would if you spent time with your partner.
Make room for them in your home. Make plans based on your vision of yourself as a loving individual who has a loving partner.
Now that you know exactly what you want, you will not be surprised when you find love. Love with a soulmate is clear-cut. When you find the right person, it will be obvious.
Finally, tune into your heart every day. Picture yourself being embraced by the one you love, and as you do, take a deep breath and let the glorious radiance of love flow through you and fill your checks. After all, it’s that energy that you put out that will make its way back to you.
Hold onto this feeling and don’t let it go. Your soulmate is with you, even though you have not met in person yet. As for time, no one can say. Only the Universe can provide that answer.
Is it wrong to manifest a specific person to like you?
It might sound cliche and elementary, but it is the truth that you cannot love another unless you love yourself. So figure out who you are and what makes you tick, and once you’ve done the legwork on yourself and are fully able to say that you love who and what you are, then you’re ready.
If you try to manifest someone to like you without first loving yourself, chances are, your relationship is not going to succeed. Instead, you might just be inviting toxic energy into your life that will do more damage than good.
Techniques to manifest someone to like you
Several different techniques can be used to manifest someone to like you. However, the fundamental principles remain the same in that like attracts like.
People often feel intimidated and overwhelmed when they start manifesting because there is too much information, which can be confusing.
But, with that said, manifestation is pretty simple to do, and don’t get caught too deeply in the nitty-gritty.
You can use these manifestation techniques to bring awareness, shift, and raise your vibration to manifest more of what you want into your life.
Almost everyone knows what a vision board is and if you aren’t, where have you been hiding?
Typically, a vision board is a poster-sized visual containing images and texts representing what you’re trying to accomplish.
A vision board is not to be confused with a mood board; they might seem similar; however, mood boards are used more for planning (i.e., wedding planning, decoration planning, etc.) A vision board is to help to direct your life.
In terms of what it looks like and what should be on it, that’s up to you. A vision board isn’t a one size fits all item. It’s about crafting something that will inspire you to reach your dreams and goals every time you look at it. It can focus on a single idea or, it might be a representation of what you want your future to look like.
Does a vision board work?
Believe it or not, when you place your dreams into visuals, it’s often more likely that you will achieve them. The visualization practice also helps increase confidence, motivation, and even motor performance; thus, many people have had massive success with vision boards.
What’s more, it’s also a massive crafty project that illustrates what your goal might look like once you’ve achieved it.
So, if you are trying to manifest someone to like you, search for images, quotes, text, or whatever you want that paints a picture of your ideal. Although it might seem creepy cutting out images of eyes, noses, etc., you’re putting your thoughts into pictures which is a phenomenal way to manifest.
Go old school and rummage through your draws to find magazines to cut pictures from, or do it the more modern way and use images from the internet.
If you’re not a manual art kind of person, you can also create a digital vision board on your MacBook or smartphone. The main objective is to place this vision board in a place where you will glance at it regularly.
Again, you can’t expect to sit back and watch your board spring to life. Your vision board should be a living thing. Feel free to add items, remove and amend things. Be open to variations of the things that you want. If, after six months, you still haven’t been successful in snagging a partner.
Relax. Remember what I said about the whole Universal timing thing.
Manifest by scripting
Scripting is another excellent technique used in manifestation. When you script, you are writing or journaling your life from the point of view that it’s already happened. It’s a dear diary piece for future dream self.
When you script regularly, it can help you program your conscious and subconscious mind into focusing on what you desire and how it will make you feel when it arrives.
For example, if you want to attract your soulmate, you would script something more or less like: “I am so happy that myself and (insert partner’s name) are in a loving, supportive relationship. I woke up this morning and realized it was our wedding anniversary. I get on well with his family, and we leave for Hawaii tomorrow afternoon!”
Even though you’re sitting in sweat pants, binge-watching the Tiger King, scripting allows you to step into the reality of “future you” and will enable you to experience what it feels like internally when your desires start coming alive.
How does scripting help?
Many people have noticed considerable improvements in their lives when they take the time to write down specifics about what they want.
When you write from a relaxed place, your subconscious begins pushing things to the forefront of your mind like answers to questions you never even knew you had to stuff you had no idea you wanted or, about emotions you thought you had forgotten you had,
The way you define what it is you want from life becomes so much clearer and attainable. You might also find yourself writing down things that you shouldn’t. This happens if you’re worried about somebody reading your journal and exposing you. Push that out of your mind and find a good hiding spot.
Then, when you start writing things you shouldn’t, stop, turn the page, activate your positivity, and begin again.
“What should I write?” Well, write your truths. What qualities do you find desirable in a partner? What personality should they have? Do you want them to be financially stable? The pen is in your hand; write what you desire.
When you realize that like attracts like, it’s easier to shift your vibration and manifest the life you deserve.
The pillow method
We do two things every day (well, most of us) 1 – wake up, 2 – go to sleep.
The pillow method can be used as an add-on to any other method you’ve chosen. It’s highly effective because it helps to “review” your subconscious thoughts as you sleep and ensures that you have positive thoughts before you go to sleep.
That is why it’s essential to set the tone for positivity and, in doing so, avoid any negative thinking.
The pillow method is super simple. All you do is write your affirmation on a piece of paper and put it under your pillow before going to sleep.
As you drift off, hold on to this intention while letting go of any resistance that might be hindering you from manifesting your soul mate.
Top affirmations to manifest someone to like you
If you’re struggling with writer’s block and need help with writing your affirmations, here are some great examples you can use. Remember, the goal here is to believe, and also, a healthy dab of gratitude is necessary :
- More people love me than I could ever imagine.
- I am open to receiving the love that will rock my world!
- A new, fantastic partner will be a part of my life soon!
- The Universe is sending me my soulmate!
- The love I receive from my partner is deep and passionate.
- I have an excellent relationship with someone who treats me well!
- Love and affection belong to me.
- I am attracting my ideal partner.
- I love myself, and so does my partner
- I am overwhelmed with abundant love!
- I am open to love.
- I am surrounded by love.
- My partner respects me.
The dos and don’ts of manifesting someone to like you
So, as you have learned, manifestation involves attracting and believing in what you want into your life. You can transform your dream life into a reality with your thoughts, emotions, and actions.
And by manifesting, you’re transforming yourself into a gigantic magnet.
So, when beginning your manifestation journey and wanting to start luring in that special someone, there are a few essential pointers and what to do and what not to do.
Do: Be crystal clear on your intentions.
You need to be clear on what you want to manifest, especially since it’s a person and not a thing. The more detailed and granular, the more accurate the Universe will materialize it.
Don’t: Be wishy-washy about what you want.
This is super important. You need to be dead sure of what you want. Dig deep and do some soul searching to figure out if this is something you really, really want. If you’re at two minds or are not specific, how is the Universe supposed to know?
If you want a cheeseburger with all the trimmings but ask your waiter for a hamburger, that’s what you’ll get.
A similar version of something but not what you actually wanted. Also, because you’re uncertain, the universe won’t be able to accurately communicate signs to you that your manifestation is about to materialise.
Do: Have faith in the Universe’s plan for you.
You weren’t born to exist merely. The Universe has big things in store for you. Daily, we get signs and hints from the divine. When you start to manifest and align yourself, you’ll soon learn what the Universe shows you.
Don’t: Expect Instant gratification.
Manifesting your dreams takes time. It’s more than simply slapping a few pictures on a vision board and waiting for them to jump to life.
It’s all about aligning your energy with that of the Universe. If you try to manipulate the process, it throws your energy of kilter, and you could end up repelling your dream. So you’re going to have to practice patience and trust the Universe.
In closing, if for some reason your manifestation doesn’t pan out. Don’t wallow in despair. The Universe wants only the best for you, and sometimes you aren’t granted your wish because it turns out it wasn’t meant for you (and probably not good for you).
Keep a positive attitude. You might have tried everything you could to make it come true, but it didn’t; know deep down that if this is the case, you are destined for something far more significant.
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