Dating an Aquarius man and not sure what his intentions are?
There are subtle clues that he might be using you to get what he wants without any real intention of taking it to the next level.
Here are 15 signs an Aquarius man is using you:
1) He’s always borrowing money
If this guy is always on you to help him out with cash, he is showing his true colors.
Aquarius men are very generous and like to help others, but if he’s always coming to you for loans, he’s obviously not thinking about how it will impact your relationship.
If he’s always asking for money to cover his bills or buy gifts for his family, you should be wary. He might be looking for a free ride and doesn’t care how it affects you.
You might be proud of your ability to provide for yourself, but you also don’t want to be the kind of person who always has to pay for other people.
If you’re dating an Aquarius man, don’t be afraid to say no if he’s always asking for cash. Let him know you’re willing to help out with a loan if it’s a one-time thing, but you don’t want to be his bank account.
2) He never pays for anything when you’re together
If your Aquarius guy never offers to pay when you’re on a date, that might be a red flag.
Here’s the thing: He may be using you as a way to get free dates, meals, and other perks without any intention of ever taking you seriously.
If he wants to keep things casual between the two of you, he’ll probably expect you to be the one paying for everything.
Aquarius men are friendly and outgoing, so if he’s always inviting you to come along with him to events and gatherings with his friends, he may genuinely want you to be a part of his life.
But if he’s always inviting you to come along and never offering to pay for you, he could just be using you for your company and help with the cost of admission.
3) What does he really want?
How well do you really know an Aquarius man?
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4) He only calls when he needs something
Aquarius men don’t like being tied down.
They’re known for flitting from one thing to the next and only staying in a relationship as long as it’s convenient for them.
If he only calls you when he needs a favor or a ride somewhere or help with something, he may be using you.
Most women would prefer to be in a relationship where they’re more than just a handyman’s helper. If he only calls you when he needs something, you’re not a partner, you’re a tool.
Aquarius men are big dreamers and often have big projects they’re working on. He may be in the middle of some big project and only calling you when he needs your help with it.
Again, this isn’t a relationship, it’s him using you to get something done.
In short: If he only calls you when he needs something, he’s not in a relationship, he’s just got a helpful friend.
5) He never asks what you want – it’s all about his needs
In my experience, if you’re with a guy who never asks what you want, it’s a bad sign.
Dating an Aquarius man means you have to be willing to put yourself out there, but that also means expressing your desires.
If you feel like he’s always giving you advice about how you should change your lifestyle or what you should be doing with your life, he might be trying to control you.
If you don’t feel comfortable sharing your goals and dreams with him, there’s a reason. If he’s always pushing you to do things you don’t want to do, he’s a controlling person.
He’s not interested in what you want, he’s interested in controlling you and making sure you do what he thinks is best. If he’s always telling you what you should be doing with your life, it’s a bad sign.
6) He wants you to introduce him to important people
If you’re dating an Aquarius man and he’s always pressuring you to introduce him to your influential friends, he might be more interested in who you know than who you are.
If he’s always asking about your connections, he’s probably trying to find someone he can connect with.
If you don’t want to introduce him to your friends, but he keeps pushing to meet them, that’s a bad sign. It means he’s willing to risk your relationship for the sake of meeting someone important, influential, or even famous.
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8) You feel like you don’t really know him
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But if you feel like he’s constantly keeping you guessing, he’s probably using you.
Relationships are built on trust and a mutual understanding of what you both want from each other.
The truth is that if he’s always keeping you in the dark about his life and doesn’t want to share anything about himself, he’s not ready for a relationship.
If he never wants to meet your friends or family or talk about where he grew up, there’s a reason. He’s not interested in getting to know you or anyone around you.
He’s just interested in controlling the relationship and keeping you at arm’s length because he’s not ready for anything serious.
9) He’s constantly flaking on plans
If your Aquarius guy often flakes on plans, he may be using you.
Think about it:
If he’s really interested in you, he’ll be consistent and reliable. He’ll make plans and follow through with them.
But, if he’s constantly flaking on plans, he may be using you. Again, he may just be using you for your company and have no intention of pursuing a relationship with you.
If a person is interested in you and wants to pursue a relationship with you, they’ll make plans and follow through with them. If he’s always flaking on plans, he may not ever want to make a real commitment to you.
10) He hurries you into having sex
Aquarius men are very open and honest about sex.
They love it, they talk about it, and they’re not afraid to be upfront about the fact that they want to have sex with you.
One thing that Aquarius men don’t do is rush a relationship. If your Aquarius guy is rushing you into having sex, it may be all he’s interested in.
If he’s just using you to have sex, he may be hurrying you into having sex so that he can get what he wants without any intention of ever taking it to the next level with you.
If a person is interested in you, they’ll want to get to know you better. They’ll want to get to know all of your friends and family and be a part of your life.
They may also want to take things slow so as not to pressure you into anything you don’t want.
The bottom line is that if he’s pressuring you into having sex before you’re ready, it may be all he’s after-
11) He only wants to hang out in public places and never your place or his
Aquarius men love to socialize and be around lots of people. They’re very friendly and outgoing.
However, if your Aquarius guy only wants to hang out with you in public places, he may be using you.
Aquarius men don’t like to get too attached to people, so they’re not going to want to spend time alone with you in a private setting where they’ll have to get really close and really attached.
If he only wants to hang out in public places, he may not be interested in a relationship with you. He may just want to be friends who occasionally hook up.
You see, if a person is interested in you, they’ll want to spend time alone with you. They’ll want to get to know you and the people in your life. They’ll want to get to know you in a private setting, where there’s no one else around to interrupt or distract them.
12) He’s not there for you
Aquarius men are highly independent, so they might need some space every once in a while.
If he’s always disappearing for a day or two at a time without any explanation, he might be using you.
Even if he’s interested in you, you can’t expect him to be there every second of every day. But if he’s always disappearing and doesn’t try to make it up to you, it’s a bad sign.
If he’s always blowing you off or canceling plans at the last minute and doesn’t have any intention of trying to make it up to you, he’s obviously not interested in a relationship.
He’s just interested in having fun and not being held accountable for his actions.
13) He’s never asked you how your day went
Aquarius men are intellectual thinkers who like to discuss the world around them.
This means that if he’s never shown any interest in how your day went or what you did, he’s not interested in getting to know you better.
Relationships are built on trust and being able to lean on each other. If he’s never shown any interest in you or your day, he’s not interested in building a relationship.
It doesn’t matter how much he texts you or how many gifts he gives you, if he doesn’t actually know anything about you, he’s not really interested. He’s just using you for attention.
Only interested in texting you when he wants something and disappears when you have something going on in your life, he’s only using you.
14) He’s always talking about himself
If he’s always talking about his accomplishments and what he’s done, he’s probably interested in impressing you.
And that’s fine, but if he never asks about you or your accomplishments, he’s probably not interested in getting to know you better.
Aquarius men love to share their thoughts and ideas with the world, so if he’s constantly talking about himself, that’s fine. But if he never asks you about your aspirations and goals or what you’ve done, he’s not really interested in getting to know you better.
He’s just interested in impressing you and showing you what a great person he is.
He’s not interested in a relationship if he’s only interested in talking about himself and never asking about you.
All in all, he’s using you as an audience.
15) He’s only calling when he’s bored
If he only ever calls when he’s bored, asking you to come around when he has nothing better to do, he’s obviously just using you to kill time.
If he never calls when there’s something fun going on or never wants to hang out when you call him, then I’m afraid it’s not looking good.
Let’s be honest, he’s not really interested in a relationship. He’s just interested in using you as a crutch to get through his day.
If you suspect your Aquarius man is using, the list above should help you know for sure.
The bottom line is that if he has really no interest in getting to know you better and is just using you to get what he needs (sex, connections, money, someone to hang out with when he’s bored) instead of getting to know your personality, then he might not be the best guy for you. You deserve so much better.
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