14 practical tips to make a Libra guy chase you (complete guide)

Although there are no perfect men in this world, every zodiac sign has its good qualities.

If you’re in love with a Libra man but can’t seem to make him fall for you, don’t lose hope just yet!

It takes time for anyone to open up and share their feelings.

With the right tricks and tips, you’ll be able to win his affection.

Let’s look at the 14 practical tips to make a Libra man chase you:

1) Build a strong friendship before you ask him out

Libra men are naturally charming. They’re usually surrounded by a group of friends who adore them.

If you want to make a Libra man chase you, you have to earn your way into his circle first.

Yes, you heard that right!

Don’t make the mistake of asking him out the first time you meet him.

Instead, focus on making a good friendship with him and his friends. From there, he’ll probably ask you out himself.

If he doesn’t, don’t lose hope. You can always go up to him and ask him out. But make sure that the friendship you’ve built with him is strong enough to withstand rejection.

2) Establish trust

If you want to make a Libra man chase you, you have to establish trust in the relationship. Let him know that you trust him and don’t doubt his intentions towards you.

Let him know that you’re mature enough to handle any situation and will not break your trust.

Let him know that you’re not like his previous partners who broke his trust and went back on their word.

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. If you don’t have it, your relationship won’t be able to survive.

3) Make him feel like an everyday hero

Here’s something that never fails: make him feel like an everyday hero.

I know what you’re thinking, but there’s actually a psychological term for what I’m talking about here. It’s called the ‘hero instinct’.

This concept is generating a lot of buzz at the moment as a way to explain what really drives men in relationships.

I know it might all seem kind of silly. In this day and age, women don’t need someone to rescue them. They don’t need a ‘hero’ in their lives.

But this misses the point about what the hero instinct is all about.

The hero instinct is an instinctive need that men have to step up to the plate for the woman in their lives. This is deeply rooted in male biology.

When a man genuinely feels like your everyday hero, he’ll become more loving, attentive, and committed to being in a long-term relationship with you.

But how do you trigger this instinct in him?

The trick is to make him feel like a hero in an authentic way. And there are things you can say and messages you can send to trigger this natural biological instinct.

If you want some help doing this, check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here.

I don’t often recommend videos or buy into popular new concepts in psychology, but the hero instinct is one of the most fascinating concepts I’ve come across.

Here’s a link to his unique video again.

4) Show him that you’re worthy of his love

You might be sure about your feelings for him, but he might not feel the same way.

To make a Libra man chase you, you have to show him that you’re worthy of his love.

Show him that you respect him by not invading his personal space. Don’t call him too often, and don’t text him first all the time. You might think you’re just being friendly, but he might take it as stalker-ish behavior.

If he’s upset about something, make sure that you’re there for him without judging him. He wants to know that you care about him and his feelings, so make sure that you’re extra sensitive when you’re around him.

Even though you two are still getting to know each other, you can show him that you’re worthy of his love by being understanding and supportive.

5) Be confident around him

Libra men love confident women. They have high self-esteem and expect the same from their partners.

So, to make a Libra man chase you, you have to exude confidence around him.

Don’t wait for him to make the first move; ask him out or initiate a conversation. But don’t go about it in a desperate manner.

Be confident about the decision you’ve made and show him that you’re worthy of his affection.

If he still doesn’t respond positively, give him some time. There might be something he’s going through that’s preventing him from reciprocating your feelings. Be patient and give him time to heal.

6) Don’t be too available

Yes, you want to make a Libra man chase you, but you don’t want to give him the impression that you’re easily available.

Don’t be too quick to reply to his texts or pick up the phone. If he asks you out, don’t say yes right away – say you need to check if you’re free. Don’t be scared to tell him you’ve got other plans.

Show him that you’ve got a busy schedule and that you’re not just sitting around waiting for him to call you up.

Trust me, the less available you are, the more he will want you. You’ll have him chasing you in no time.

7) Don’t show any jealousy

Here’s the thing: Libra men don’t like possessive and jealous women.

If you’re in a relationship with a Libra man, don’t show any jealousy or possessiveness when he talks to other women.

Instead, let him know that you trust him and that you’re not insecure.

If he talks to other women, don’t criticize him or get mad at him. Act like it’s the most normal thing in the world – and if you’re feeling jealous, don’t let it show.

Also, don’t expect him to spend all his free time with you. Encourage him to go out with his friends and let him know that you’re not jealous.

8) What does he really want?

How well do you really know your Libra man?

The simple truth is that understanding the unique traits of a Libra can help you better connect with him on an emotional, spiritual, and even sexual level.

And if you want to know how to get him to chase you, I have good news.

I recently discovered a super helpful zodiac quiz from renowned astrologer Anna Kovich that will reveal what he really wants from you.

In this free quiz, you’ll learn how to make your Libra man:

  • Pursue you
  • Commit to you
  • And love you deeply.

I was blown away when I first took the quiz. Just by answering a few simple questions, I discovered shocking details about my man (which have proven to be 100% correct so far).

Click here to take the free quiz.

9) Surprise him with your spontaneity

Libra men love a bit of adventure and spontaneity.

So, if you want to make a Libra man chase you, you have to surprise him with your spontaneity.

Do something impulsive and adventurous.

Don’t think too much about it and don’t ask him for permission or advice before you go ahead with it. Just do it.

All in all, he’ll appreciate your spontaneity and he’ll want to be around you even more.

9) Be honest and upfront about your feelings

It may seem like the easiest thing to do, but many people aren’t as honest as they should be when they’re in love.

It’s okay if you make mistakes from time to time, but lying to a Libra man about your true feelings is a big no-no.

Excessive lying will only make him feel like you don’t trust him, and he’ll eventually lose interest in you. A Libra man loves honesty and hates it when people are dishonest about their feelings.

If you’re upfront about your feelings, he’ll know that you aren’t playing games with him.

10) Don’t be too clingy

The truth is that nobody likes a clingy girlfriend. If you want to make a Libra man chase you, you should be independent.

Although Libra men are very loving, they don’t like to be smothered by their partners. If you’re too clingy and too dependent on your Libra man, he would run as fast as he can in the other direction.

Being too clingy would only make a Libra man feel suffocated, and that’s not what a loving relationship is about. If you want to make a Libra man chase you, you have to give him some space.

In short: by being too clingy, you might be doing the exact opposite of what you want to achieve.

11) Help him feel good about himself

If you want to make a Libra man chase you, you have to help him feel good about himself.

Praise his accomplishments and let him know that you admire his talents and abilities.

One way to make him feel good about himself is to ask him to help you with something that you know he’s good at.

This relates back to what I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.

When a man is made to feel needed, wanted, and respected, he’s more likely to chase you.

And it’s as simple as knowing the right things to say to trigger his hero instinct and make him into the man he’s always wanted to be.

All of that and more is revealed in this excellent free video by James Bauer. It’s absolutely worth checking out if you’re ready to take things to the next level with your man.

Here’s a link to the free video again.

12) Be yourself

In my experience, a Libra man loves when someone is authentic with their words, actions, and feelings.

If you’re faking your feelings, he’ll know because your actions and words won’t match up. That’s why it’s essential that you’re yourself and act like you normally would when you’re around him.

If you try to act like someone you’re not, he’ll eventually figure it out. At that point, he’ll lose interest in you because you’re not being authentic.

Remember, a Libra man loves honesty, and if he’s getting fake vibes from you, he’ll reject your advances and try to push you away.

The bottom line is that if you want him to chase you, be yourself.

13) Learn about his hobbies and favorite things

Here’s another tip: If you want to make a Libra man chase you, learn about his hobbies and favorite things.

He probably has a lot of interests, and it’s important that you know about them. Not only will this make him feel comfortable around you, but it’ll also give you two a lot to talk about.

Now, not everyone has to be interested in the same things, but it’s nice to know what your partner likes to do in his free time.

Once you know his hobbies and favorite things, you can talk to him about his interests and ask him questions about what he likes.

This will make him feel comfortable around you and will help you two form a stronger bond.

14) Show him that you have a great sense of humor

The thing about Libra men is that they love to laugh. So if you want him to chase you, show him that you have a great sense of humor.

A Libra man loves when his partner can make him laugh, and it’s a great way to keep the relationship fun and exciting.

Libra men love to have fun, so if you’re able to make him laugh and smile, he’ll definitely enjoy your company.

It’s important that you know how to make him laugh but not at his expense. You don’t want to make him feel uncomfortable or ashamed of himself.

You also don’t want to do anything that’ll make him feel like he can’t trust you.

My advice is to keep your jokes clean and appropriate, and he’ll be laughing with you for a long time to come.


If you’re in love with a Libra man, I’ve got news for you: you’ve got good taste!

He’s an easygoing, charming, and romantic fellow. This article will give you a good idea of how to make him fall head over heels in love with you.

So what’s the best way to get him to chase you?

Well, I mentioned the unique concept of the hero instinct earlier. It’s revolutionized the way I understand how men work in relationships.

You see, when you trigger a man’s hero instinct, all those emotional walls come down. He feels better in himself and he’ll naturally begin to associate those good feelings with you.

And it’s all down to knowing how to trigger these innate drivers that motivate men to love, commit, and protect.

So if you’re ready to take your relationship to that level, be sure to check out James Bauer’s incredible advice.

Click here to watch his excellent free video.

Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

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Tina Fey

Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing for Nomadrs to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.

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