When you break up with someone, your mind goes into overdrive. You can’t stop thinking about the relationship and whether or not it could be revived. Trust me, I’ve been there more times than I care to remember.
The good news is that breaking up doesn’t always have to mean the end.
If you’ve recently broken up with a Cancer man and are afraid he won’t come back, here are some signs he will in fact come back as well as ways to guarantee it.
Let’s jump right in:
Signs he’s coming back
1) He keeps in touch with you
The first thing most people do after a breakup is cut off all contact.
That means no phone calls, emails, texts, or social media interactions. Nothing!
This is the only way for people to truly move on.
But if you are still talking to your Cancer ex, even if it’s just a quick text or an email every now and then, then there is a good chance he’s still thinking about you and hasn’t completely let go.
This is probably the most obvious sign he’s interested in getting back together with you.
2) He’s constantly asking about your life
Here’s the thing: If your ex has moved on and has let go of any feelings for you whatsoever, he will not care about your life at all.
He won’t care how your day was, what you did that weekend, or even how your career is going.
If he has met someone new, he won’t care what you are up to. He will only be interested in his new relationship.
However, if your ex is still interested in you, he will constantly be asking you how your life is going.
He will want to know what you’re up to and who you are spending time with. He may even try to get you to divulge information on your current relationship.
3) He’s in touch with your friends and family
If your Cancer man wants to get back together with you, he will do whatever he can to try and win you back. This includes trying to win over your friends and family by being charming and making them like him.
He will stay in touch with them to try to get them on his side so that he can get closer to you.
What’s more, if your ex is still in touch with your friends, especially those closest to you, it might be because he is hoping to get intel on you. He might be trying to find out what you are up to, what you are interested in, or who you are dating.
If he is in contact with your family, this is even more telling. I mean think about it, who stays in touch with their ex’s family?
4) He wants to stay friends
In my experience, if your ex wants to stay friends with you after the breakup, there’s a great chance that he still has feelings for you and wants to get back together.
By remaining friends, he can still be part of your life, see you from time to time, and has a shot of winning you back.
But how do you know whether he just wants to be friends or it’s something more?
One way to be sure is to talk to a psychic about it. That’s what I did when I was having trouble with my boyfriend.
We had decided to take a break from our relationship and I couldn’t figure out whether we should get back together or not. I couldn’t tell what my man was thinking and whether he really loved me.
I was a bit skeptical about talking to a psychic at first, but I’d heard such good things about the folks at Psychic Source that I decided to give them a try. I don’t regret it one bit, in fact, I still talk to them whenever I’m facing some kind of crisis.
Not only were their advisors truly gifted, but they were very kind and compassionate. My love reading helped me figure out where I stood with my boyfriend and how we could make our relationship work.
Today, we’re going stronger than ever before.
So, if you want to know if your Cancer man is coming back and whether he wants to be more than just friends, click here to get your own love reading.
5) He’s super jealous of your new boyfriend
Another sign that your Cancer man is coming back is that he’s jealous of your new boyfriend.
It’s quite obvious if you think about it. If he was over you and had moved on with his life, he wouldn’t care that you are dating someone new. In fact, he’d be happy for you and wish you good luck with your new relationship.
The fact that he’s jealous means that he plans on winning you back and doesn’t want some other guy getting in the way.
He might even try to break you and your new beau up by being overly critical and judgmental of him.
Trust me, this is a sure sign that he is still interested in getting back together with you.
6) He continuously brings up the relationship and wants to talk about it
Is he constantly bringing up the relationship? Does he want to talk about what happened?
This is because he’s not over you. Maybe he’s not sure why you broke up and needs to understand if there’s something he could have done differently.
Clearly, he’s thinking about coming back, otherwise, he wouldn’t be so hung up on the past and would move on.
7) He constantly checks up on you, especially when you’re not feeling well
If your break-up was messy and things were incredibly dramatic, chances are your ex will want some space away from you. He won’t care if you are feeling sick or have the flu. He will, most likely, ignore your texts and calls and not even care if you are feeling poorly.
But, if your ex is interested in getting back together with you, he will want to know if you are feeling sick.
He will want to know what’s wrong with you and if there is anything he can do to help.
He may even offer to bring you chicken soup.
8) He likes all your social media posts
If your ex is liking all your posts and checking out what you are doing, it’s a surefire sign that he’s coming back.
The fact that he wants to know what you are up to and is still following you on social media means he wants to keep up with your life because he wants to be part of it again.
Think about it: If your Cancer man was over you, he wouldn’t care if you put up a new selfie or shared a new post on social media.
He wouldn’t care that you have new friends or have been traveling to exciting places. He wouldn’t want to see your posts and he wouldn’t be interested in what you are doing in your life.
He’ll want as much distance from you as possible and would probably stop following you on social media. So the fact that he’s liking all your posts is a good sign.
9) He speaks about the good times you had
If you ask me, if you broke up because something bad happened or you just weren’t happy together, but he still talks about the good times you had together, it’s a sign he still has feelings for you.
But hey, I get it, it’s not always easy to know what’s going in a Cancer man’s head.
So how can you tell what he’s thinking, what he wants, and why he does what he does?
Well, for one thing, you could take this fun and super helpful zodiac quiz from renowned astrologer Anna Kovich.
I was surprised at how accurate the results of the quiz were. By answering a couple of simple questions, I learned some very interesting facts about my man.
10) He leaves things at your place
If your Cancer ex left things at your place, it’s probably because he needs an excuse to come over and see you again
Now, he may have left his favorite t-shirt or a pair of pants or even his favorite books.
If it’s something that means a lot to him, there’s no way he’d just leave it behind by mistake.
He either wants you to call him to come to pick up his stuff or he doesn’t think the breakup is permanent and knows he’ll be reunited with his things soon enough.
11) He shows up randomly
If your ex comes to see you unexpectedly, it’s a sure sign that he wants to be with you again.
The thing is that he may not have the courage to call you first (because you may tell him not to come over), so he’ll just surprise you by showing up at your work or your home.
All in all, he misses being around you so he’ll try and wiggle his way back into your life.
12) He tells his friends he made a mistake
If your ex tells his friends that he made a mistake, then there’s no denying that he wants to get back together with you.
He may be hoping that you’ll see his friends and that they’ll pass on a message to you.
If he tells his friends that he misses you or that he wishes he hadn’t broken up with you, it’s obvious that he’s still in love with you.
13) He shows up at your favorite hangout spots
A few years ago I was going out with this complete idiot who made my life hell – he was the biggest mistake of my life. When I broke up with him, the last thing I wanted was to see him again. I made sure to steer clear of any places he might show up.
So, if your ex shows up at your favorite bars or cafés, it’s no coincidence. He knows he’ll eventually bump into you and that’s exactly what he wants.
He’s hoping that you’ll see him there and you guys will start up a conversation, you’ll start to miss him and before you know it, you’ll get back together with him.
14) He’s lost weight
Cancer men are known for their healthy appetites and appreciation of good food.
So if your ex has lost weight, it’s a sign he’s not happy.
Now, there are several possible reasons for him to be unhappy, but I bet you that it’s because he misses you and wishes you guys were still together.
Without you, nothing makes sense. He can’t sleep and he takes no pleasure in food anymore.
15) He’s not dating anyone new
If it’s been a while since you broke up and your ex isn’t dating anyone new, it’s probably because he wants to get back together with you.
Maybe he tried going out on a few dates but because he wasn’t over you, none of them worked out.
He may be having a hard time moving on with his life because he still has feelings for you.
How to make sure your Cancer man comes back
So, we’ve looked at the signs that your Cancer man will come back.
But if you don’t want to take any chances and you want to make 100% sure that he does, here’s some useful advice to make sure he comes back into your life as soon as possible:
1) Understand why you broke up
Before you can get your ex to fall in love with you again, you need to understand why you broke up in the first place. If you don’t, you run the risk of making the same mistakes all over again.
Take some quiet time to self-reflect and really think about why your relationship ended. Then, you’ll have a better idea of what you can do to make it work the next time around.
If you’re having trouble putting the pieces together by yourself, I’m sure that a gifted advisor at Psychic Source can help you out.
As I mentioned earlier, whenever I’m dealing with a difficult situation, instead of trying to solve everything myself, I turn to them for help.
So instead of racking your brain, click here to get your own love reading.
2) Take some time to be alone
After you’ve broken up with your ex, you should take some time to be alone.
You don’t want to get back together with your Cancer man just because you’re lonely and miss him. You want to be sure that it’s what you really want.
You should take some time to yourself and your own thoughts. You can use this time to focus on yourself, heal, and be the best self you can be.
Alone time will also give you a chance to figure out what you want and need out of life.
You need to be stronger and more confident within yourself.
You need time to heal from the breakup and to let go of the past.
You need to better yourself and focus on your passions, your career, and your interests. You need to show your ex that you are a better person without him.
Once he sees how well you’re doing, he’ll want to come back.
3) Go no contact
After you’ve broken up, you want to go no contact with your ex for a little while.
Let me explain:
It’s really hard to miss someone when they’re still in your life.
So, if you want to make sure your Cancer man comes back, you need to give him a chance to miss you.
You need to break off all contact with him for a while. Tell him you need some space.
This will give him a chance to realize what a great relationship you had and what an amazing person you are.
During that time, you need to focus on yourself, your friends, and your family. You need to get back in touch with your hobbies, interests, and passions. You need to find joy again in life.
I know that going no contact might seem like a terrible idea. After all, you might think that you need to stay in touch with your ex so they don’t forget about you.
But trust me, when you go no contact, it actually makes you seem more desirable. It shows your ex that you’re confident enough to not need to talk with them right away. It shows your ex that you don’t need them in your life right away.
4) Find out if he’s still interested in you
If you’re trying to get your ex to fall in love with you again, the best thing you can do is find out if they’re still interested in you.
If you don’t know if they’re interested, you won’t be able to act on the situation in the best way possible. Instead, you’ll be left wondering and worrying about what you should do next.
So before you try to get your ex to fall in love with you again, find out if they’re interested in you.
5) Be confident
If you want to get your ex to fall in love with you again, you need to be confident. If you’re not confident, you won’t come across as attractive or interesting.
But of course, you can’t just become confident overnight. You need to work on it, just like anything else in life. Start by improving your self-esteem.
Do things that make you feel good about yourself, like going to therapy or joining a club. Then, you can start to build confidence by setting small goals and achieving them.
6) Be the person he fell in love with
If you want to get your Cancer ex to fall in love with you again, you need to be the person he fell in love with. You need to have the same interests and quirks that attracted him to you in the first place.
However, you also need to have the confidence and assurance that comes with age and experience. You need to be the best version of yourself.
You need to work on improving your flaws and focusing on your best qualities.
7) Talk things out
Often, people break up because they don’t know how to communicate.
They may have a perfect relationship but because of some sort of miscommunication, they end up breaking up.
Maybe you didn’t tell your boyfriend what you really wanted or maybe he couldn’t understand what you really wanted.
You need to have a grown-up talk about why your relationship ended. Remember to remain calm and to listen to his side. Most importantly, don’t be accusatory and accept your part in the breakup.
Once you’ve had this talk, you’ll see if the issue you had was one that can be worked out and overcome, and if it can, then he’s sure to come back to you.
8) Go out and have fun with your friends
You need to meet new people and engage in new hobbies, activities, and interests.
You need to go out there and have fun with your friends.
Trust me, if you sit around at home feeling sorry for yourself, your Cancer man isn’t going to want you back. You need to show him that you’re doing well and that you’re moving on with your life. He’ll be back in no time.
9) Talk to your ex about the good times you had
Here’s something else you can do: talk to your ex about the good times you had.
Bring up some fun memories – like that time you went on a trip to Europe and ended up sleeping on a bench after you lost the keys to your hostel.
You want to talk about the things you did together and the way you felt when you were together. You want to talk about how much you enjoyed the relationship and how it’s such a shame that you called it quits.
Doing this will remind your ex of the good times you had together and how you could have more good times if you got back together.
Finally, if you made some mistakes that you never owned up to – you should do so now.
You need to show your ex that you’ve had a chance to think about your behavior and that
you’ve grown since the breakup.
You need to show your ex that you’re sincere and truly sorry.
He’ll appreciate your honesty and will be more likely to come back to you.
Now that you know how to get your Cancer man to fall in love with you again, what are you waiting for?
This is the perfect chance to get things right again. Now is the time to make things even better than they were before. You just have to take action and make it happen.
But if you’re still having some doubts and you need answers to some questions, then I definitely think you should consult a psychic.
While I hope you’ve found this article helpful, I know that every situation is unique which is why it’s good to talk to someone about your particular problem.
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If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.
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