11 Reasons Why It Seems Like the Universe Hates You and What You Can Do About It

The world is a strange place.

Some people are lucky, and everything falls into place almost effortlessly for them.

Do you feel like it’s the opposite for you, and you sometimes wonder “Why does the Universe hate me?”

Well, here are 10 reasons it might seem that way:

1) You’re impatient

You want the future now, so you live as if the future is now, and that’s a big part of why the Universe seems to hate you.

When you are impatient, you are focused on the end result, not the process.

You are not taking things step by step, and you’re not allowing for growth or change to occur naturally.

Things you want that seem to be taking forever to manifest often require patience, intentionality, and effort too.

It’s important to remember that the reason things seem to take so long is that you are not looking at the big picture.

There are usually many steps involved in any goal that you want to achieve.

You have to take care of each step before you can move on to the next one.

If you are impatient, you may rush through the steps, ignore some of them completely, or skip them entirely.

You see, when you are impatient, you might feel as though the universe hates you, when in reality, everything is unfolding at its own pace.

2) You don’t value yourself

We all have our strengths and weaknesses, but how you value yourself has a big impact on whether the Universe hates you or not.

If you hold yourself in high esteem and feel proud of who you are and what you do, the Universe is likely to respond well to that energy.

If, on the other hand, you regularly put yourself down, see your flaws as insurmountable obstacles, and feel you don’t deserve love or success, the Universe may take that as a sign that you don’t value yourself.

There is a very good chance that you’ve internalized some negative beliefs about yourself from your childhood or from past relationships, and you no longer even realize that you’re holding yourself back.

If you’re constantly criticizing yourself, you are sending out the message that you don’t value who you are.

As a result, you might be attracting people who are going to let you down, or who will use you and then leave you.

But not just that, you might also attract situations that just reinforce your negative and limiting beliefs.

You see, if you want the Universe to love you, the first step is to actually go ahead and love yourself.

Start by cultivating and strengthening a loving relationship with yourself.

I learned how to do exactly that through Rudá Iandê’s Love and Intimacy masterclass. 

So who is Rudá, and why should you take his masterclass?

Well, he is a world-renowned shaman who specializes in transforming your relationships, your life, and living your purpose.

And he says that to transform all of those things, you really need to start with your relationship with you.

It makes sense: how you feel within you is how you will treat others, and the world around you, which sets the tone for how the Universe will respond to you!

In the masterclass, I learned all of this and how to implement it in my life.

It completely transformed my intuitive guidance, my confidence, my self-trust, and my romantic relationship.

So start valuing yourself, and change your life for the better by checking out Rudá’s masterclass.

3) You don’t see the good in your life

It’s normal to focus on the things you want to improve in your life, but if you don’t recognize the good that is already there, the Universe may take that as a sign that you hate yourself.

Examples of things you may not see in your life are:

  • a loving partner
  • supportive friends
  • a fulfilling career
  • a healthy body
  • financial stability
  • and so on.

The good in your life could even be things like being grateful for the food that you eat or appreciating the beauty of nature.

The point is, if you don’t acknowledge the good in your life, the Universe may take that as a sign that you hate yourself and have no gratitude for anything.

Remember to regularly write down the things that you are grateful for in your life.

Not only will this help you to appreciate what you have, but it will also serve as a reminder that there is good in your life.

And the best part?

The more gratitude you have for your life, the more beautiful things you will start attracting!

4) You’re operating from a place of fear and scarcity

When you are operating from a place of fear, you are in a state of survival.

A survival mindset is triggered when you are focused on things that you don’t want in life.

Examples of this could be: being too focused on the fact that you don’t have enough money in the bank, being too worried about being in debt, or being too concerned about your health.

When you are operating from a place of fear and scarcity, you are blocking many positive things from entering your life.

In order to move out of this state, you need to work on shifting your focus and changing your perspective.

When you are operating from a place of scarcity, you are focusing on the lack of things that you don’t have in your life.

Examples of this could be: being too focused on the fact that you don’t have a partner, you don’t have children, or you don’t have enough money in the bank.

You see, when you are in this state, it might seem as though the Universe hates you, but in reality, you are simply blocking all the good things that you deserve.

Try to work on seeing the abundance in your life and how many amazing things there are to be seen.

5) Your habits are sabotaging you

Your habits are a powerful force that is either working for or against you, depending on which habits you are choosing.

When you are feeling like the Universe hates you, you may be engaging in some habits that are blocking you from feeling better.

Examples of habits that may be sabotaging you are:

  • overspending
  • eating unhealthy foods
  • not exercising
  • not getting enough sleep
  • smoking
  • procrastinating
  • going to bed late

If these are habits you engage in regularly, they could be blocking you from moving forward in your life.

It’s important to be honest with yourself about these things and make a plan to change them. Taking small steps each day is a good way to get started.

You see, replacing these habits with more positive ones can really turn your life around.

6) What would a gifted advisor say?

The signs above and below will give you a good idea about why you feel as though the Universe hates you.

But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a gifted advisor.

They can answer questions like, does the Universe hate me? What can I do?

The problem is finding someone you can trust.

That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. When I signed up for a reading, they provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I am meant to be with.

Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate, and helpful network of gifted advisors out there.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

Not only will a genuine advisor tell you why you feel that the Universe hates you, but they can reveal all your love possibilities

7) You’re holding on to past hurts

It’s normal to feel sad when something bad happens to you, but if you never let go of those past hurts, you might feel like you are abandoned by the Universe.

Some people have built entire identities around the pain they are feeling or the anger that they are holding in.

If this describes you, it’s important to realize that you don’t have to let these things define you.

You can let them go, and you can heal.

If you are holding on to past hurts, it may be blocking you from moving forward in your life.

This can apply to both big things, like a divorce, or smaller issues, like an argument you had with a friend.

This is not an easy process, but it is possible.

The first step is to recognize that you are holding on to these things. Even though we don’t like to admit it, there is usually a reason why we hold on to these things.

Maybe it gives you a sense of importance in thinking about the terrible things that happened to you.

Or maybe being the victim makes you feel safe.

Now, you need to find a way to let them go.

One way to do this is through writing. Write down everything you are holding onto. Finally, write down what you need to do in order to let those things go.

Work on letting these things go and your life will improve drastically.

Suddenly you will realize that the Universe does not, in fact, hate you.

But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.

So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

8) Your efforts are misdirected

When you are trying to manifest something positive into your life, it’s important to focus your efforts on that thing.

If you are misdirecting your energy, the Universe may take that as a sign that you have not decided what you want to do yet.

Some people are so focused on what they don’t want that they don’t give themselves a chance to manifest something positive.

Examples of this could be: being too focused on your financial situation and not spending enough time focusing on what you do want, like a new car, or being too focused on past mistakes and not spending enough time focusing on what you do want, like moving forward with your career.

When you are misdirecting your energy, you are basically sending mixed signals to the Universe.

It’s like trying to talk to someone when you have no idea what you are trying to say.

The best thing to do in this situation is to take a step back and focus on what you want.

Think about it: the Universe wants to help you, but it can’t do that if you don’t even know what you want yourself!

9) Something bigger might be at play that you don’t understand yet

Sometimes, a situation that you are going through may seem to be the result of the Universe hating you, but in reality, it’s something bigger at play.

There could be a lesson that you need to learn or an area of your life that you need to work on improving.

The best thing to do when you are going through this type of situation is to regularly ask yourself what you need to learn from it.

It’s also important to remember that the Universe doesn’t hate you. The Universe is a neutral force that wants to help you learn and grow.

Remember that the Universe is always there to help you, but sometimes you have to be willing to let yourself go and let the Universe take care of things.

10) You are already manifesting it

You may have already manifested the thing that you want.

The Universe is not against you or trying to punish you.

It’s just that sometimes, our minds are so focused on what we don’t want that we forget to focus on what we already have.

Maybe you are still thinking about your past mistakes or maybe you are still thinking about how much money you don’t have.

The Universe has no problem with giving us what we want, but it’s important to be open-minded and to learn from everything we go through.

Perhaps you are already manifesting what you want, it just takes some extra time!

11) You have a victim mindset

If you view life as nothing but a series of unfortunate events that happen to you, the Universe may take that as a sign that you’re a victim and that you hate yourself.

Some people have had experiences in their lives that have caused them to view themselves as victims.

If that’s the case, you need to find a way to heal from those past events so that you can move forward.

In order to do that, you need to change your perspective.

Instead of seeing yourself as a victim, you need to start seeing yourself as a warrior.

Forgive those who have hurt you, and know you made an important decision to stay in that situation, instead of walking away.

By doing so, you have made an unbreakable promise to yourself that you will never let it happen again.

You see, when you realize that you are never a victim because you get to decide how to react to situations, you stop feeling miserable for yourself, and you begin to see the world as a place of abundance, instead of one of scarcity.

Being in the world as a victim is not a fun experience, so of course, you might feel as though the universe hates you, but that’s not the case, believe me.

You are loved

Whatever you do, remember that you are loved.

It’s important to remember that the Universe wants to help you, but you have to be open to it.

If you feel like the Universe hates you, there is most probably another reason for it.

Hopefully, the points above will shed some light on the Universe’s love for you.

But if there’s a part of you that is still unsure, I can’t recommend Rudá’s Love and Intimacy masterclass enough.

It will help you look within and figure out where you might feel unworthy of love, and as a result, may be rejecting the Universe’s love.

Click here to do the life-changing masterclass!


Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

I know this from personal experience…

A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.

If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.

In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.

I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.

Click here to get started.

Anna Scheucher

Anna Scheucher

Freelance writer specializing in holistic health, wellness, and psychology. Check out my blog to find out more https://www.fullyholistic.com/!

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