10 things that happen when an Aquarius man is done with you (and what to do about it)

Aquarius men are an unusual bunch. They have an off-kilter way of looking at the world, and often approach dating in a different way than other signs.

When an Aquarius man is done with you, you’ll most probably experience one or more of the following 10 things.

Before we get into it, let me assure you that there are things you can do to change his mind. But, more about that later.

1) He will become unreliable

The first thing that could happen when an Aquarius man is done with you is that he will become unreliable.

How so?

When an Aquarius man loses interest in you (or you do something to hurt him), he usually won’t tell you directly.

Instead, he will start being less reliable. And by that I mean he’ll stop following through on his promises.

He may not call when he said he would, flake out on scheduled plans at the last minute, or otherwise make it clear that your relationship has taken a back seat to his other activities.

What to do about it?

Well, you have a couple of options: you can either try to talk to him about it or just cut your losses and move on.

Depending on what happened to cause his behavior in the first place, talking to him may work.

You see, an Aquarius man doesn’t become unreliable for no reason. It might mean that he is done with you, but it also might mean that something else is going on.

So, if you know what it is, then bring it up. More often than not, he will be willing to explain what happened and what he feels is going on.

But if you have no idea what happened or you tried talking to him about it and he wouldn’t budge, then you might want to cut your losses.

2) He stops being generous with you

A known trait of the Aquarius man? His tendency to be generous with his friends and lovers. He feeds them, buys them gifts, and basically acts like their personal Santa Claus.

So, when an Aquarius man is done with you, he loses all interest in being generous. He stops buying you things, stops inviting you out on crazy outings, and basically stops doing anything that’s not in his best interest.

What to do about it?

It’s hard to do anything about this one. But, as you may have guessed, there are things you can do.

For example, you could take his place and start doing nice things for him. Depending on what caused this man to feel like he’s done with you, this might or might not work.

So, maybe you’ll have to step up your efforts. Or maybe, if he isn’t done with you for good, he will be amenable to this idea.

There’s really no way of knowing for sure until you try it out.

3) An Aquarius man will not try to protect you anymore

Another thing that happens when an Aquarius man is done with you is that he will no longer protect you in the way he would have before.

What do I mean by that?

When an Aquarius man likes a woman, he’ll often protect her from others and keep her safe. But when he’s done with her, this changes.

He’ll stop trying to protect you from anything or anyone else, and will not react the same way when you need his protection. He’ll just let things be, which could get you in trouble.

What to do about it?

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4) He no longer wants to try new things with you

Aquarius men love to try new things. They are the first to break out of the mold and do something different than anyone else.

An Aquarius man will often have a new hobby (or two or three) that you’ve never heard of before. And he’ll be excited about introducing it to you, his friends, and everyone else around him.

But once he loses interest in you or he feels like he’s done with you, he also loses interest in trying new things with you. So, he stops being the same Aquarius guy he was before.

What to do about it?

This is another tricky situation.

Aquarius men find it hard to resist when they are on the cusp of trying something new. So, you’ll have to take advantage of that.

For example, if his new hobby is rock climbing, all you have to do is convince him that you want to give it a try, too.

In fact, you know what?

It doesn’t always have to be about a new hobby or interest.

Sometimes all it takes is an invitation to do something exciting. For example, if you know someplace he would love to go in the city, ask him whether he wants to go with you on Saturday night.

However, if the situation isn’t that urgent and a new interest would work better, then do that.

5) He stops texting you throughout the day

Aquarius men are a chatty bunch. They love texting their friends and lovers throughout the day, just to catch up and stay connected.

But when they are done with someone, this changes quickly. He’ll stop texting you throughout the day to ask how your day is going or what you are up to.

And if you text him to find out, he’ll respond much more rarely than before. Basically, he will stop putting in the effort to maintain a connection with you – maybe because he doesn’t want it anymore.

What to do about it?

In this situation, it wouldn’t make a big difference if you kept calling him or texting him like crazy. Instead, what you could do is pull away a bit yourself.

Now, depending on what happened to determine this guy to be done with you, you may want to fight for your relationship. But, if the usual doesn’t work, you can try pulling away yourself.

But be careful when doing this: never cut off all communication with him. This might seem like the best thing to do right now, but it isn’t.

You see, cutting off all communication will make it obvious that you have given up on him. And this could make him resent you even more than he already does, which means there’s no good way of turning the situation around anymore.

6) An Aquarius man won’t be enthusiastic anymore

Aquarius men are naturally enthusiastic. They can’t help it; they are just that way.

So, when an Aquarius man starts losing interest in his relationship with you, he won’t be enthusiastic anymore.

Instead, he’ll become more distant and less talkative. Even worse, he’ll start doing things that annoy you even more than before. Or, he might even start avoiding you altogether.

What to do about it?

Just like with most other things, this situation calls for you to step up your game.

To make him feel enthusiastic again, here’s what you need to do:

  • Go out of your way to do something nice for him;
  • Make sure to give him a lot of praise when you see him;
  • Let him know how much you love and appreciate him; and
  • Be genuine in your love.

Aquarius men are naturally enthusiastic people, so providing them with the right amount of enthusiasm will draw them back to you. At the same time, talking about your feelings for him with compliments will also make it easier for him to reciprocate his feelings for you.

7) An Aquarius man will become stubborn

Another thing that happens when an Aquarius man is done with you? He’ll often become stubborn and hard to get along with.

This is another thing that might surprise you, but it’s true.

When an Aquarius man’s feelings for someone are no longer there, he won’t be willing to compromise or bend over backward to make things work.

Even worse, he might become impossible to reason with, which will make it harder for you to fix things. Basically, if you don’t want his attitude to turn uglier than ever before, you’ll have to take charge of this situation.

What to do about it?

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8) He will share less with you about himself than before

An Aquarius man may love talking about himself, but this can quickly change when he feels like he’s done with you. Once that happens, he won’t want to talk about himself as much anymore.

Instead, he’ll start sharing less with you about himself and troubling situations in his life. Basically, it’s as if he is completely done with you and wants to move on.

What to do about it?

To get him to talk about himself again, the best thing you can do is to focus on building his trust in you. You see, this is something that he clearly doesn’t have now. And without it, he won’t confide in you like he was doing before.

So, what you need to do is prove your love for him and communicate that you want him back. If possible: with an apology of your own.

The main thing is to make it clear that you want to be with him, even if everything isn’t perfect yet. And that can help you get back on the right track in your relationship.

9) He won’t care about your feelings anymore

Another thing that happens when an Aquarius man starts losing interest in you: he won’t care about your feelings anymore.

Instead, he will do what he wants, without thinking about how it makes you feel. And that can be very hurtful and painful.

However, he doesn’t do it on purpose. It’s just that he doesn’t care about his relationship with you anymore. So, he isn’t willing to make things right.

What to do about it?

If you want your Aquarius man to start caring again, you’ll have to make it clear that you love him and want him back. Because, at the end of the day, your biggest weapon is always going to be your love for him.

This is something that might require a lot of patience from you. But if you want to get past this rough patch, you can do it. And you’ll definitely be glad that you did!

10) He’ll start going out more often

Another thing that an Aquarius man is likely to do when he’s done with someone is to go out more often and with different people.

Basically, a lot of people think that Aquarius men are homebodies. But in truth, they are just as social and outgoing as the next sign.

So, when they start losing interest in a relationship or someone hurts them, they may feel the need to have a social life again.

What to do about it?

If your Aquarius man has just started going out more often, you can probably still save the situation by making things right with him.

Depending on what happened that led to this situation, it may still be possible to repair the damage. Make him feel good about himself and show him that you’re still there for him. This will help turn his mind around and get his feelings back.

Also, remember not to criticize what he does because it’s unfair to do so. He’s a grown adult, and he has the right to do what he wants!

How does an Aquarius man end a relationship?

An Aquarius man isn’t the type to sit on his hands while something important happens in his life. On the contrary: he is always looking for new challenges and things that are out of the usual.

For this reason, an Aquarius man won’t even think twice about breaking up with you if he feels like it’s time to break up.

After all, he’s all about living as full a life as possible and doesn’t want anything to hold him back. So, he won’t hesitate to throw away the romance that he put into his relationship with you.

He’ll most probably do it in a matter-of-fact way, without any regrets and without looking back. After all, he’s not the type to hold onto something that isn’t working for him anymore.

What to do about it?

When you see that your Aquarius man is done with you, the best thing you can do is to take charge of the situation. It’s your first line of defense against a break-up, so you need to make sure that it works in your favor.

Fair warning: Going silent or becoming a drama queen won’t help.

An Aquarius man is done with you. Now what?

When an Aquarius man decides to move on, his actions will speak volumes, even if he doesn’t express it directly.

It can be a heart-wrenching realization, but perhaps it’s an opportunity in disguise.

Instead of focusing on winning him back, use this moment as a catalyst for personal healing and growth.

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Daniela Duca Damian

Daniela Duca Damian

I’m Daniela, a passionate writer with an academic background in journalism. My work is based on research and facts. In recent years I have focused on the study of interpersonal relationships, analyzing, and writing about aspects related to social connections, romantic relationships, but also personal development. My goal is to decipher the most confusing concepts so that anyone who is interested in living a better and fulfilled life can apply them. When I’m not writing, I challenge my friends with meaningful questions about life.

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