Is your twin flame thinking of you sexually? 10 tantalizing signs

Twin flames are strongly drawn to each other in all aspects: emotional, mental, physical, and of course, sexual.

This connection is so intense that it feels like the two of you know when you’re thinking of each other of you sexually!

But do you, really?… Let’s find out!

Here are 10 big signs that your twin flame has the hots for you at any given moment.

1) You have sex dreams with them

Dreams are some of the most enigmatic things in human experience. Many people have many theories, but science has yet to come to a definite conclusion on why and how they form.

One of the most popular theories, however, is offered by psychologist Sigmund Freud. He said that what we see in our dreams is what our unconscious minds have been thinking and desiring.

So what does it mean when it comes to twin flames?

Well…if you have sex dreams with your twin flame, they’ve most probably been thinking dirtily about you during the day.

Here’s my theory: when your twin flame craves you sexually, their feelings can manifest themselves in your mind as a dream, especially if your mind doesn’t have the bandwidth for erotic thoughts during the waking day.

So, sexy dreams – is the first definite sign that your twin flame desires you more than anything!

2) You can’t get them out of your mind

Let’s say you’re extremely busy. You need to focus on a certain task.

But no matter how hard you try, you just can’t get your twin flame out of your head!

While some can say it’s just what happens to people in love, this just might be because they’re thinking about you in a particularly powerful way—and by that, I mean they’re lusting after you! 

Call it telepathy if you want, but they feel so drawn and attracted to you at that specific moment that it also calls your mind’s attention to them!

As twin flames, your bodies are like magnets. No matter what force is trying to pull you apart, you just can’t help but be on top of each other all the time.

Isn’t that so hot and romantic?

When I met my twin flame, they occupied all my thoughts. I’d be thinking about them day and night and then find out that they were feeling the same way. But after a few months of intensive dating, we suddenly split.

To say that it was a painful experience–is to say nothing.

I was so frustrated and depressed that I almost felt like giving up on love at all. Like, why did they say “we aren’t compatible” if we were more than that?

Why did they leave me when we were so madly in love? What did go wrong? I’ve had all these questions in my head and no answers to them…


Until I saw a video that basically transformed how I perceived love and what I thought it was.

It was a video by a modern-day Brazilian shaman Rudá Iandê. He teaches how the lies we tell ourselves about love are part of what trap us in unsuccessful relationships.

As Rudá explains in this transformational free video, love is available to us if we cut through the lies that we tell ourselves. 

He basically suggests to cut through the bs inside our heads and finally break free from codependency patterns (which was my main issue).

Rudá’s teachings showed me a whole new perspective. 

So, if you feel like you want to finally have the loving relationship that you crave and deserve, I invite you to watch this short video and open your mind to new possibilities to guide you on the path to finding true love and intimacy. 

Click here to watch the free video.

3) You can feel their touch

Back to the signs of when your twin flame thinks sexually of you. So, this is a big one. It is not just some thoughts or dreams…

This is when you can actually feel their touch.

Do you mean even if I’m away from them? – you may ask.


That’s creepy and not sexy! – you might say.

And… well, you’re kind of right.

But this is just how the cosmic, metaphysical connection of twin flames works. Your connection is so much more than the physical—remember, you are two halves of the same soul! 

And that alone brings all the new angles to your relationship.

This phenomenon is called the twin flame telepathic touch. Because of your permanent, spiritual bond, you can sense each other’s touch even when not in each other’s physical presence.

Cool, huh?

However, it’s not like you’ll suddenly feel full hugs out of thin air. Most people (including me) only experience light touching. Think fingertips slightly grazing your skin (which still feels very lovely).

However, you’ll develop more conscious control over it with time. You’ll gradually be able to master this telepathic connection, allowing you to choose what kind of touches to transmit to your twin flame and when you want them to feel it.

Or you can just ask if they were… well, touching some specific body part!

Don’t look at me like that! Go ask your twin flame what they were doing that made you feel soooo good!

4) You feel a burning sensation on the sides of your face

Do you know how you blush or generally feel hot and sweaty whenever you’re doing something romantic or sexy?

This leads to another way you and your twin flame can exchange touch on distance!

If you feel a burning sensation on the sides of your face—your cheeks and ears—then your twin flame is most likely sending you these signals!

Does that mean their cheeks are red, and they feel hot and heavy right now too? 

Could they be thinking of you? Lusting over you? Are they “doing” something with those thoughts?

Most probably, yes!

Man…my cheeks are blushing now too!

5) They contact you when you’re thinking of them

Just like how you can feel when your partner thinks of you (sexually or otherwise), remember that they can also tell when you’re thinking of them.

I’m sure it happened to you when you’re just daydreaming about your twin flame, and a moment later, you get a message from them. It was so amusing during the first phases of my relationship with my twin flame.

I’d even check this theory and thought of them to see if they’d text me. And they did! It was unbelievably cool.

Many people would call it a mere coincidence. However, this phenomenon is actually called telephonic telepathy. 

And it’s one of the hallmarks of a twin-flame relationship.

So if you’re having sexual thoughts about your twin flame…they might get aroused too! 

Then, boom! You get a text from them demanding you to meet them ASAP…

6) You get sexual tarot card readings

Now, this is an interesting sign.

Many tarot cards represent sex in different ways. 

One famous example is the devil card. Its usual interpretation is that of a double negative, but it can also represent sexual debauchery and eroticism.

If you’re getting a tarot reading and somehow keep drawing these sex-related cards, something might be up! (it just might be your twin flame’s you-know-what, haha!)

For your reference, I listed the tarot cards that can be interpreted in a sexual way. Some are more explicit, while others are on the subtler side.

  • The Knight of Wands: represents someone who has strong sexual energy;
  • The Four of Swords: alludes to the missionary position;
  • The Eight of Swords: can represent BDSM;
  • The Eight of Wands: might foretell quickies in the future;
  • The Ace of Wands: can denote a phallus and signifies sexual desire;
  • The Star: stands for particularly spiritual or tantric sex;
  • The Three of Cups: symbolizes threesomes;
  • The Temperance: is a sign of good sexual chemistry and compatibility;
  • The Ace of Pentacles: reveals ovulation in a woman—sock the wang before you bang unless you a want lil’ thang.

I need to remind you as a tarot enthusiast, though: tarot cards do not foretell the future with any sort of guarantee. After all, each tarot card can be interpreted in a wide array of ways.

If you’re unfamiliar with tarot but want to understand it better, I highly suggest also delving into astrology, numerology, and the Kabbalah.

Alternatively, you may try other methods, such as Ideapod co-founder Justin Brown’s video on the hidden trap of improving yourself

Justin used to be addicted to the self-help industry and New Age gurus, and he was looking for the answers in all the different places, except for the only right one… 

Just like many of us he felt like visualization and positive thinking are the way to go. But these methods only left him confused (just like it happens to many of us too).

That’s why he traveled to Brazil to meet the renowned shaman Rudá Iandê, who taught him a life-changing new way to find your purpose and use it to transform your life and everything around you. 

I found this video helpful because it’s a more down-to-Earth approach to spirituality than many other techniques. I’m quite skeptical about the tarot cards, but I’m all ears when it comes to getting the answers from within.

And that’s what Justin is talking about.

Watch the free video here.

7) You do the same things…without knowing about it

Now, back to the sexual signs…

You know, the uniquely psychic sexual connection you have with your twin flame does not always manifest in noticeable ways.

One of the subtler signs of twin flames thinking about each other particularly intensely is if they suddenly start mirroring each other’s behavior.

If you suddenly notice that some of your mannerisms, ways of speaking, and body language signs are rubbing off on your partner, then they’ve been thinking about you a lot.

It may be hard to notice subtle shifts in their behavior, especially at first. 

However, you’ll definitely notice these subtle changes in time.

8) Their eyes say it all…

There are three main giveaways related to how they look at you when they’re having erotic thoughts about you:

  • They’re always returning eye contact: The eyes are the window to your soul—especially when you’re looking into your twin flame’s eyes! Usually, the more time you spend with someone (and you’ll spend a LOT of time with your twin flame), the more comfortable you get whenever they look at you. We usually notice when they look at us, but we come not to think much of it and don’t feel the need to look back. But, if they look back at you whenever you look at them, even if for just a second, then their head must be filled with all the things they want to do to you!
  • Their pupils are dialing: When you do catch them looking at you more often than before, try to notice the size of their pupils too. If they’re dilated… oh boy! Dilated eyes are lustful eyes.
  • Their behavior changed: Have they been more cuddly and affectionate recently? Do they turn their bodies toward you when you’re near? Do they listen more intently than usual? If so, their love and desire for you are through the roof at the moment.

Even if your twin flame exhibits none of these behavioral signs, trust me when I say that you’ll just notice if they start acting differently. 

9) You feel heightened sensations

There’s nothing like being in love. No wonder countless stories, songs, and artworks are all dedicated to this magical feeling.

The intimacy and exclusivity, the affection and the romance, the support and the friendship—all in one person. It’s the greatest feeling in the world.

Only one thing that can be greater than being in love is being in love with your twin flame. 

These already amazing feelings swell to unreal, exponential degrees when it’s from a twin flame relationship.

In fact, you won’t just be barraged by emotional feelings. 

Especially if your twin flame is yearning to get physical with you, you’ll also experience an array of strong, heightened physical sensations too, like:

  • A tingling or warmth in your chest or heart chakra area;
  • An increased heart rate;
  • Blushing cheeks;
  • A hotter body temperature;
  • Feeling aroused.

Have you experienced feeling normal and just fine for one moment…but then your heart suddenly starts racing or your body temperature rises up in the next? 

Then you can be sure that your twin flame is thinking about you at this particular moment.

If this happens quite often, they must be absolutely craving for you. They just can’t get you out of their head!

But how does this actually happen? – you might ask. That’s a good question.

This telepathic connection happens because sexual thoughts and feelings directed at your twin flame will rile up your soul energy. Because one half of the soul is rippling with energy, then the other one will feel it too, albeit a bit differently.

Because your souls are enjoined, your heart chakras are synced and aligned as well. However, your Earthly bodies are still completely distinct, which results in these differing, uncanny sensations.

But hey, look at it from this perspective: as weird and unexpected these feelings may be, they’re still a reminder of the fact that your partner loves and desires you!

10) You have perfect sexual chemistry

People often discuss chemistry and compatibility as key factors for a successful relationship.

But what does chemistry actually mean in the context of a romantic and sexual relationship? 

Having sexual chemistry means that you are physically attracted to one another. And, when you do get physical in the bedroom, you are able to match each other’s energy. 

More specifically, you might have similar or compatible…

  • Preferences;
  • Kinks;
  • Sex drives;
  • And attitudes.

…when it comes to sex.

Your bodies are naturally attuned to one another to a high degree. Thus, your lovemaking sessions flow seamlessly with zero awkwardness.

Essentially, if you have great sexual chemistry, then it’s so easy to have mind-blowing sex with one another. After all, you’re giving each other the sex that you both want.

And who wouldn’t keep thinking about the person who gives them the best sex of their lives?

11) You just know it, period.

Sometimes, there is no tangible sign. Sometimes, you just suddenly know that they’re thinking of you sexually.

Like there’s a switch in your brain that suddenly turns on and tells you that your twin flame is currently turned on thinking about you.

This is how strong the spiritual, psychic connection between twin flames is. It’s almost as if they share the same mind—well because they’re literally one soul!

If you’ve never experienced meeting your twin flame before, I know this sounds extremely crazy. You probably don’t believe it.

But love in general is the same way if you really think about it. You can’t see or touch the phenomenon of love concretely, but you know it’s real. 

Other smaller signs

Those are the 10 biggest signs that your twin flame is currently thinking of you in a sexual light. But take note of these smaller signs too:

  • Just like how you might feel their touch even if they aren’t around, you might hear their voice out of thin air too;
  • You feel shivers down your spine as if you were currently having sex;
  • You suddenly feel energetic even if you felt lethargic the whole day;
  • You suddenly feel aroused without any sexual thoughts or external stimuli.

What can weaken feelings of love and desire between twin flames?

As strong as these sexual feelings for your twin flame are, you shouldn’t take them for granted. Like any other relationship, you still need to put effort into it.

These emotions can and will grow weaker if you don’t do so, especially if:

  • There is repressed anger or resentment;
  • There are unresolved karmic issues;
  • You don’t express your love in other ways aside from sex.

Because twin flame relationships are so intense, they are also chaotic and volatile. This means that they’re actually more prone to suffering from the issues stated above. 

“Madly in love” is the perfect way to describe a twin flame relationship—both for better and for worse.

So if you realize that you’re facing similar issues, you need to start resolving them. 

Twin flame relationships are a once-in-a-lifetime kind of thing. Not just because of the strong romantic and sexual connection but also because they will push you to grow spiritually.

So don’t let this opportunity go to waste! 

In my experience, one of the biggest mistakes people make is assuming that their twin flame is the perfect partner just because they’re their twin flame.

This is absolutely wrong! At the end of the day, they are still human beings with quirks and flaws, strengths and weaknesses.

You need to love each other authentically. Accept and understand each other’s flaws but also help each other grow into the best version they can be.

You’re meant to be a team, so face obstacles together hand-in-hand in a mature, sensible manner. Going through problems together will only strengthen your connection, and only then can you truly enjoy true love and intimacy.

But this may not be as easy if you don’t know yourself, to start with. If you have a bumpy ride with your twin flame and “being a team” isn’t the right expression you’d use to describe your relationship, I recommend you to watch the free Love and Intimacy video by the world-renowned shaman Rudá Iandê. 

Rudá doesn’t smooth things over, he gets real, and he digs deep into the relationship you have with yourself and how it impacts the relationships you have with others.

So if you want to get better at relationships in general and make the one with your twin flame the most loving and genuine it can be – check out his incredible free video here.

What does the sexual energy between a twin flame couple feel like?

The outstanding chemistry of twin-flame couples translates into tremendous sexual energy. 

They just won’t be able to keep their hands off each other!

Truth be told: twin flames in a sexual relationship are probably having some of, if not the best sex of their lives.

Both physical pleasure and emotional intimacy during sex will be through the roof. But it will also feel deeply spiritual. For twin flames, sex is more than just a physical act or an emotional expression of love—it’ll also feel like a frenzied spiritual ritual.

This is why people will tend to have way more sex than they usually have while they’re in a twin flame relationship. 

Hard to blame them! 

Whose sex drive won’t skyrocket when they’re presented with what is probably their perfect sexual partner?

Before you “finish”…

Sex for twin flames is far more than just gratifying each other’s sexual desires. As I said just now, it truly is a spiritual practice. It’s the definition of a safe space where twin flames can bare their soul to each other in great intimacy.

So treasure your twin flame and the relationship you have with them! Don’t take them for granted, and love each other as hard and as authentically as you can.

Taking care of this sacred bond will be absolutely amazing for other aspects of your life in general too. After all, it is with our twin flames that we find our true selves.

Plus, you wouldn’t want to stop having such an amazing sex, would you? 😉

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I know this from personal experience…

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