37 signs you are spiritually connected with someone (complete list)

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering whether the connection you’re feeling with someone is real, you’re not alone in having those doubts. It can be scary to confront a real, spiritual connection if you’re not sure about it yet.

Good thing you found this list, then. In this article, we’ll help you figure out the signs that you’re spiritually connected with someone.

1) Your instincts say so

One sign (and probably the most obvious right away) is when your instinct just tells you that this person is someone you’re meant to have a spiritual connection with.

There doesn’t have to be a reason behind this connection, and you might be feeling that there just isn’t. The connection isn’t explainable; if you had to describe it to someone else, you might be at a loss for words because there’s no logical way to explain it.

In the past, you may have had logical reasons for choosing a partner. Maybe you felt like you were compatible in terms of your goals or maybe your family chose them for you.

But this time, it’s different. This time, there’s no explaining it.

2) You share similarities

This doesn’t mean that you don’t have a spiritual connection if you don’t have anything in common, but it does help strengthen that connection.

It can be hard to bond with someone over nothing but a gut feeling. The relationship still needs to have a strong foundation for it to stand a chance, and one way of building that foundation is discovering things you have in common.

It could be anything from your taste in movies to the way you drink your coffee. Small things like that give you something to talk about and make it easier to fall into a great conversation with each other.

3) You laugh together

Laughter is an important ingredient in the recipe for a healthy relationship. It shows that you enjoy each other’s company and that you don’t bore each other.

It’s one sign that you’re spiritually connected with someone when you can laugh together and when you have the same sense of humor. For example, if one of you is into dark humor and the other isn’t, it might be hard to laugh together because you don’t get each other’s jokes or you find them offensive.

When you have a spiritual connection with someone, it’s not a problem. It feels like you’re on the same wavelength when it comes to jokes and humor, and it’s easy to be with each other.

4) A real psychic confirms it

The signs above and below in this article will give you a good idea if you have a spiritual connection with someone.

Even so, speaking to a real psychic will give you more clarity.

But how can you find a psychic you trust? In this day and age, it’s so important to stay away from fake ones.

I recently tried Psychic Source after going through a bad break up. They provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I was meant to be with.

I was actually blown away by how caring, compassionate and knowledgeable they were.

Click here to get your own psychic reading.

Not only will a genuine psychic tell you where you stand with this person, but they can also reveal all your love possibilities.

5) Your conversation flows naturally

It’s another sign of a spiritual connection when your conversation doesn’t feel forced or awkward.

You know that feeling when you’re talking to someone and you can just feel that you’re running out of things to say—and not in a comfortable way? It just feels awkward and you’re both left feeling like you constantly have to be thinking about the next topic.

This doesn’t happen when you have a spiritual connection with the person you’re talking to. It feels like you have tons to talk about and you can barely keep in your excitement with all of it.

6) You’re comfortable with each other

You just “get” each other, and both of you feel that way.

With other people, you might feel anxious or worried about what they’ll think or about keeping up a conversation to seem interesting.

While that’s pretty common, it’s also exhausting.

With the right person, all of that disappears into smoke. You don’t feel awkward with each other; all your anxieties, worries, and fears go away because you feel safe and stress-free with them. You don’t feel like you have to constantly fill in gaps in conversation because you’re fine with comfortable silence.

7) You feel free around them

Liberation is a relief from everything else going on around you that you feel like you have to put barriers up for. It feels like finally being able to breathe after having to hold your breath for a long time.

That’s how it feels to have a spiritual connection with someone; you feel like they’re your breath of fresh air and you’re allowed to be free around this person.

You don’t feel caged or limited in the relationship. They don’t feel like a ball and chain. All you feel is freedom and liberation, and that’s so important for personal growth.

8) You feel like you’ve known them forever

It’s a sign you’re spiritually connected with someone when you feel a familiarity that can only come from knowing someone for ages.

It doesn’t feel like meeting someone for the first time; it feels like reconnecting with someone you’ve always known but you’ve been apart from.

If you feel like you recognize them without having physically met them before, you may be past-life soulmates. You feel this familiarity because it’s built-up energy from other lifetimes together, which is why it feels like you already know them—it might be because you actually do.

Your souls have traveled together since they were created and now, you’re finally reconnecting with your partner.

9) You recognize them

If you’re spiritually connected with someone, then they could be your soulmate.

Let’s face it:

We can waste a lot of time and energy with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with. Finding ‘the one’ isn’t exactly easy.

But what if there was a way to remove all the guesswork? What if there was an easy way to tell you had a spiritual connection?

I’ve just stumbled upon a way to do just that…  a professional psychic artist who can draw a sketch of what your soulmate looks like.

Even though I was a bit skeptical at first, my friend convinced me to try it out a few weeks ago.

Now I know exactly what my soulmate looks like. The crazy part is that I recognized this person right away. You don’t get a clearer sign than that!

If you want to know what your soulmate looks like too, get your own sketch drawn here.

10) You have deep, meaningful conversations with them

The quality of your conversations might feel like something else, something new that you’ve never experienced with other people before. It might feel like you have nothing to hide from each other and there are no limits to your conversation, as if you aren’t tiptoeing around “acceptable” topics of conversation.

If you feel like you can talk to them about the big things like faith, politics, philosophy, or even the meaning of life, chances are you’ve got a spiritual connection with this person.

11) You mutually respect each other

There’s no disrespect whatsoever. It can come in the form of little things like not talking over each other in conversation to bigger things like respecting each other’s life choices.

Active listening plays a huge part in respecting each other because it’s listening without the intent of injecting yourself into the narrative or listening with the sole purpose of responding. Truly, empathetically listening to each other is listening for the sake of listening.

With this healthy communication comes knowing each other’s limits and boundaries because now, you better understand what the other person needs.

12) You’re protective of each other

If it’s natural to look out for each other—as if you’re looking out for an extension of yourself—you might have a spiritual connection with this person.

You might feel like you need to protect the other, even though you’ve maybe just met. It’s like a natural instinct that’s built into you to look out for this person no matter what and to make sure that nothing bad happens to them.

It can feel good to be taken care of, so the best way to approach this situation is to be open to being loved and protected. It’s not just for your sake; your partner wants to be there for you, so if you let them, it can strengthen your connection.

13) You’re drawn to each other

You might be feeling a pull towards each other that, again, you can’t explain. Maybe you didn’t have plans to meet up but end up at the same place at the same time anyway, or you see them across a crowded room and you feel like a string is pulling taut.

This string could be the spiritual connection that’s bonding you together. That undeniable pull you’re feeling? They’re likely feeling it, too.

It’s not something you can ignore, either; the pull is too strong for that. You could be hundreds of miles away from each other and you might still feel that string pulling at you, drawing you towards your person.

If you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings. 

This pull may be powerful and perplexing to grasp, speak to an advisor who can shed more light on how to handle this immense feeling.

Click here to get your own personalized reading

14) You’re both progressing in your spiritual journeys

Another way to determine whether you’re spiritually connected to someone is to see if you’re both progressing in your spiritual journeys.

But, before you do that, ask yourself these questions:

Are you tired of hearing the same message when it comes to spirituality?

Are you exhausted from trying to always be the best version of yourself, of always trying to be positive?

Or are you sick of feeling disconnected from others who may not be as spiritually aware as you are?

If so, there’s the reason why:

You’ve been sold toxic spirituality.

Don’t feel bad about it though, so many of us have fallen into this trap. Including the shaman Rudá Iandé.

In this incredible free video, Rudá explains how his initial approach to spirituality did more harm than good. Now, with over 30 years in the field of spirituality, he hopes his experience can help others avoid the same mistakes.

So what makes Rudá trustworthy? How do you know you won’t get more of the same toxic crap?

Well, Rudá isn’t going to tell you how to practice your spirituality. Instead, he’s going to give you the tools to find empowerment from within.

Every exercise in the video will put you back in touch with your core self, step by step.

So if you’re ready to take that step, click here to watch the free video.

It’s never too late to bust the toxic spirituality myths you’ve mistaken for truth and determine if you’re spiritually connected to someone for real.

15) You’re seeing the same numbers

Are certain numbers following you?

Like you’re constantly catching the clock at the same time. Or you keep seeing the same number on signs, doors or your phone.

Now, this could just be a coincidence… but more likely it’s the universe’s way of giving you a message. And it could be a message that you should open your heart to someone.

All matter and all energy vibrates at a specific frequency and carries a hidden numerical code. Even you have a ‘secret’ numerical code.

Numbers shape your personality, career, and especially your romantic life. If you share a spiritual connection with someone, the numbers won’t lie.

16) You’re your true self with them

It can be easy to give in to pressure from society to be a certain way, to act a certain way, or to think a certain way. You might feel like you have to put on a mask and hide who you truly are when you’re with other people because you’re scared of being judged.

One sign you’re spiritually connected with someone is when you can take those masks off in each other’s presence. You’re comfortable with each other and you accept each other for who you are.

You don’t feel the need to change yourselves because you know that this person won’t judge you.

It’s being honest about who you are and the authentic you and, with the right person, opening up and feeling vulnerable won’t feel like a challenge. It’ll feel easy, like it’s always meant to be that way.

17) You grow together

You know the spiritual connection is real when you encourage each other to grow. You don’t feel like this person is holding you back; you feel like they’re encouraging you to soar.

They’ll help you find ways to improve yourself and vice versa and it won’t feel like you need to be apart from them to grow on your own.

You’ll be able to find your purpose together. You may have been wandering through life aimlessly before, but now you feel the need to be better and become the person you want to be.

18) Your morals and values are aligned

Another sign that you’re spiritually connected with someone is having the same morals and values in common.

This doesn’t mean that you have to have everything in common. You can disagree on the little things, but the bigger things are more important to be on the same wavelength for.

You might feel like you’re on the same page when it comes to mindsets and what’s important to you, and that’s a big part of developing a healthy spiritual connection.

But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.

So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

19) You trust them 100%

This, too, might be unusual at first.

It’s natural to not completely trust strangers. Of course, they’re strangers.

But with this person, it might feel like all your distrust flies out the window and you feel like you can blindly trust them with anything.

It isn’t a common feeling, especially if you may have had issues with trust in the past. Still, it’s an undeniable feeling to want to trust someone completely because you’re spiritually connected with them.

Your gut is telling you that you can be open with this person and, if you’re truly connected, it won’t be a mistake.

20) You feel energy around you

There’s so much we don’t understand about the universe. But a growing number of people strongly believe in the power of energy — energy that we give off from ourselves which affects those around us.

This energy comes from inside of us — from our thoughts and our souls.

So, when you feel a strange sense of energy around you, this is likely due to someone thinking about you. Their thoughts are manifesting the kind of energy you might be feeling.

When these thoughts are positive, you’ll feel an overall positive aura that embodies everything you experience, making everything seem brighter and lighter.

21) You have separate lives

It’s a good sign you’re spiritually connected with someone if your relationship doesn’t feel like the only thing you’ve got in life.

Some people may get insecure when their partner ventures outside of the relationship to have their own life, but this isn’t the case with spiritual connections.

You know how to be apart and you’re not too attached to each other; you have your own hobbies and groups of friends.

Most importantly, you’re both secure about this. It doesn’t feel like your partner is leaving you or that they don’t love you anymore. You both just understand that living your independent lives is just as much of a priority as the other person is.

22) Time flies

When you’re talking to someone you have a spiritual connection with, it can feel like time doesn’t exist anymore. Suddenly, you don’t have any other places to be and the hours have gone by—and you don’t even notice.

Time becomes a blur because of how enjoyable their company is and you feel like that’s okay.

23) You have similar goals

It’s another sign you’re spiritually connected with someone when you’re both going the same way in life.

You’d be incompatible if you had different mindsets or if one was a lot less ambitious than the other. It’d be hard to maintain a relationship where you don’t have the same goals in life, especially if the relationship is a serious one.

You don’t have to have the exact same goals. You don’t have to both be interested in medicine or looking to work out of the country. What’s important is that you agree on your life plan (like whether you’ll get married, whether kids are ever going to factor into the equation, or who will be working).

24) You communicate in silence

It’s pretty convenient when you don’t have to verbalize everything just to be understood because of how frustrating it is for someone not to get you.

But the person you’re spiritually connected to isn’t like that. With them, it won’t be a problem.

You’ll understand each other’s moods and thoughts without having to say anything, almost like telepathy. You can tell when something’s wrong or if the other person is happy; it’s like having a connection to their emotions.

Neither of you needs to say anything—you just get it, and it’s easy.

25) You’re extremely happy with them

Maybe you’ve never felt this kind of happiness before or you’ve had a teeny tiny taste of it in the past. Whatever the case, now that you have a spiritual connection with someone, you might be feeling joy beyond anything you’ve ever experienced before.

It just feels like something clicked into place and you’re filled with joy now. It doesn’t even have to be when you’re physically with them; you could be apart and think of them and smile to yourself because of how happy they make you.

26) You feel like your thoughts are connected

Like I said—telepathy. It’s as if you can read each other’s minds and that’s just how connected you are.

When one of you says something, the other person was already thinking it; it’s like being in sync with each other on a whole new level.

27) You’re physically attracted to each other

Of course, some parts of a spiritual connection have to be physical, too. Another sign you’re spiritually connected with someone is if you’re physically attracted to each other apart from the spiritual and emotional attraction.

Intimacy also isn’t just sex. It can also mean physical affection and pure attraction. But all of this combined makes for physical attraction between you two and strengthens an already strong spiritual connection.

28) You heal each other

It’s a good sign that you’re spiritually connected with someone when you can help each other with each other’s baggage without looking for any sort of repayment. It feels like you help each other take care of your wounds and battle scars from the past, and that kind of genuine support isn’t always common.

While it’s true that a sign of readiness to find your one true match is healing from your past on your own, you can let yourself ask for help, too. It’s okay to need other people to help you.

If you feel like they have a healing effect on you, it might be because they do. They might be helping you through your dark times and vice versa, and in a healthy spiritual connection, that’s perfectly okay.

29) You challenge each other

This part isn’t always comfortable.

Someone you have a spiritual connection with can be someone who pushes you out of your comfort zone for your own growth. This can cause some discomfort because you might try new things that you’ve never done before or your ideals might be challenged.

They can make you aware of the things you love or hate about yourself and, while that isn’t a pleasant experience, you need to know these things for you to heal and improve.

Know that if this happens, it’s worth it in the end because you take the journey with someone there to catch you.

30) You feel intimate in mundane moments

Things don’t have to be special all the time for something to be meaningful and memorable.

Even when you’re just laughing together or doing groceries, you might feel intimately connected with each other. That’s because it’s not about what you’re doing that’s enjoyable—it’s who you’re with, and someone you’re spiritually connected with is someone that can mean a lot to you because of this.

31) You’re a better version of yourselves

Your partner doesn’t necessarily complete you. They’re there to inspire you to complete yourself.

Encouraging each other’s growth is, like I said, an important part of a healthy spiritual connection. It allows each other the space to become the people they want to be without feeling caged or limited by the other person.

When you’re with this special person, the world seems lighter and your mindset seems brighter. It’s as if someone flipped the “on” switch and now you can see yourself and what you need to do in a clearer light.

If this person flips your “on” switch, they might be the spiritual match you never knew you wanted.

32) You’d do anything for each other

Whatever you need, they’ll be there for you—no questions asked.

This doesn’t mean you’d jump off a bridge just because they said “jump”. This just means that you’d do what you can to give each other what you need, as long as it’s healthy and not something that’ll harm anyone.

It might feel like you’d offer up the world to this person if they asked, and you’d try like hell to make it happen if they did.

33) You support each other

When one of you is going through something, you just know that you’ve got each other’s backs.

Whether this means running a few errands for the other person or encouraging a career change, support for your partner can be shown in both big and small ways. What’s so special about a spiritual connection is that you can do this for each other in the way that you need.

Sometimes, people can try to help without actually helping. In the case of a spiritually connected relationship, the communication is so open that this doesn’t happen.

You both just know what the other person needs as if you’re feeling it yourself.

34) You’re grateful for each other

A big sign that you’re spiritually connected with someone is if you don’t take each other for granted and regularly thank each other for even the little things.

Did they clean up after your pet for you? You say “thank you”. Did you pick up the check for the two of you on one of your dates? They say “thank you”, too.

You might even thank each other just for being there, and that’s a perfectly healthy way to express gratitude, too.

35) What does your Zodiac say?

Using astrology to find out whether love is on the horizon is pretty cool.

The best bit?

Zodiac signs can absolutely help you figure out whether the universe wants you to be with one. Because they influence compatibility between two people regarding communication, love, emotions, sex, and personality.

For example, if you’re a Virgo then you’ll develop the most intimate connection with a Pisces.

While a Libra will be drawn to Aquarius and Gemini’s because they too need independence and intellectual stimulation to thrive.

Just by taking this star sign quiz, you’ll be able to make it your soulmate’s idea to:

  • Pursue you
  • Chase after you
  • And completely commit to you.

I took this quiz a few months ago and was blown away. I just selected my soulmate’s zodiac and then discovered shocking details about them on the next page (which have been 100% accurate so far).

Here’s a link to the quiz again.

36) It feels like the universe is talking to you

You might feel like the universe is conspiring to bring you together.

You may get sudden and random thoughts about them even though the thought is so different from whatever you were currently thinking about. You might even feel that everything is suddenly going your way and everything that used to go wrong for you before just suddenly seem right.

This could mean that the universe is telling you that this is a spiritual connection you shouldn’t ignore. It’s waving all the signs in your face, and all you’ve got to do is look them right in the eye and accept what the universe is trying to tell you.

37) You love each other unconditionally

Lastly, one of the best signs that you’re spiritually connected with someone is when you love each other without thinking about repayment. You freely love each other without expecting anything back, and you don’t make each other think that you love them for a specific reason—and once that reason’s gone, so will the love be.

All in all, there are plenty of signs that you’re spiritually connected with someone—all you need to do is see them for what they are.

Final thoughts

Hopefully, the signs above will shed some light on being spiritually connected to someone. There are many ways to tell if you and this person are truly connected on a spiritual level.

But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine advisor.

And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate reading, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.

So if you’re tired of wondering about your spiritual connection with someone, get in touch with a gifted advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.

Click here to get your own professional love reading.

Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

I know this from personal experience…

A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.

If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.

In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.

I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.

Click here to get started.

Colleen Florendo

Colleen Florendo

Colleen Florendo-Svensson is the founder of The Copy Tea, an up-and-coming copywriting studio, currently based in Sweden. She’s always enjoyed writing as a hobby, but it was while she was taking her MBA that she began falling in love with it even more. She has earned her master’s degree and has since been writing professionally. Her written works have been digitally published by Newsweek and she has also completed the Conversion Copywriting course under Copyhackers School. Her fresh and modern writing style has caught the attention of a variety of online clients, mostly in the wellness niche, all of whom were struggling to revamp their brand’s voice. She has successfully made them “cooler online than IRL”, with projects ranging from online sales pages, email sequences, multiple copy for social media and websites, to blog writing. When she’s not writing copy, you might find her cooking up a storm in the kitchen à la Gordon Ramsay, enjoying a nice walk outside with her husband, having a mini Taylor Swift concert in the shower, or pestering her cat with funny hats. Follow her on Instagram at @thecopytea where she drops a ton of useful copywriting tips and tricks!

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