Meeting your twin flame is an unparalleled, exceptional connection. At some point, you might question your sanity, because you might feel so closely knit to your twin flame that you begin to sense what he is thinking. But this isn’t absurd at all.
Genetic twins have been shown to share qualities of a telepathic bond. Because of the multiple levels of intimacy that you share with your twin flame, your heightened bond is far greater.
To help you recognize if your twin flame is thinking about you, I’ve compiled a list of the major signs to look out for. Let’s jump right in:
1) His Name Will Come Up in Conversations
“There are no accidental meetings between souls.”
– Sheila Burke
Have you ever spoken to a friend and they bring up your crush to you without you mentioning anything about him prior?
I’ve had this happen to me recently when I made a joke to my close friend and she commented that my crush said the exact same words to her earlier that day. I was surprised. I smiled to myself because it was a signal for me that we are more connected than we can ever imagine.
It seems like the more intensely we think about someone, the more likely they may appear in our lives in unexpected ways.
This could be because we are tuned into them and actively seeking reminders of them when apart. These seemingly random links are called moments of synchronicity.
Synchronicity is defined by the pivotal psychiatrist Carl Jung as the union of internal and external events in a manner that can not be explained by cause and effect.
In other words, synchronic moments occur when coincidental events are related by a sense of meaning rather than by occurrence.
So, if your twin flame’s name comes up frequently in conversation, it can be a sign for you that you are closely entwined. The more this happens, the more often you may believe that your twin flame is focusing his attention on you, and vice versa.
As your magnified bond becomes more pronounced, pay attention. He will start to look for your presence in new and unexpected ways as well. These deeply synchronized forms of communication will more commonly go back and forth between the two of you.
More practically speaking, if your twin flame is thinking about you, he is surely talking about you. And if he’s talking about you to your common friends and acquaintances, the more you will become subconsciously linked.
Your friends will start associating him with you more often and bring up his name and qualities to you in various conversations and scenarios.
So, this is one really clear indication that your twin flame is indeed thinking about you.
Some less obvious cues to look out for are when the synchronic events seem even less likely to happen. For example:
- Have you ever talked to a distant friend or family member and they randomly bring up the name of your twin flame, whom you’ve never mentioned?
- Or maybe you’ve been thinking about your twin flame often and a stranger surprisingly brings his name up to you in passing?
- Or perhaps your twin flame shares the same name as a relative or favorite author or puppy who gets repeatedly mentioned to you by multiple people?
Take note. These signals could be subtle signs that you and your twin flame are intensely thinking about each other.
2) Shared Experiences Will Come Up in Conversations
“We do not create our destiny; we participate in its unfolding. Synchronicity works as a catalyst toward the working out of that destiny.”
– David Richo, The Power of Coincidence: How Life Shows Us What We Need to Know
Similar to his name repeatedly surfacing in your life, you might come to notice other signals that you share in common with your twin flame present themselves. For example:
- When you pass a cafe a song that you both love comes on
- Or a book that you just discussed is on the kitchen table of your best friend
- Or a concept that you talked about the night before comes up randomly with the teller at the bank
When some other very specific piece of information that you’ve recently discussed with your twin flame, appears in an unexpected moment in your daily life, it can also be a synchronistic sign that you are on each other’s minds.
3) He Frequents Your Dreams, and Not Just Romantically
“We often dream about people from whom we receive a letter by the next post. I have ascertained on several occasions that at the moment when the dream occurred the letter was already lying in the post-office of the addressee.”
– Carl Jung, Synchronicity: An Acausal Connecting Principle
Meeting your twin flame is a profound connection that leaves a strong impression on your heart.
You might have strong feelings and thoughts about them that go beyond words. So, it seems fitting that this special person is likely to make a regular appearance in your dreams.
Sometimes the language of our heart isn’t easily or conveniently expressed with words.
There might be something that your twin flame is thinking to tell you but not fully communicating to you in person. So, the dream space can be a place for his deepest communication to flash up and reveal itself.
Think about it. Your senses take in hundreds of thousands of unconscious signals at a time. They end up entangled in your subconscious level. Your dreaming state lets your conscious mind access, unravel, and remix these pieces of information in new ways.
The play between your conscious and subconscious states allows you to glean understanding and insight into your outer world.
In your dreams, you can see different aspects of your twin flame interactions that your conscious mind may have otherwise missed.
According to Psychology Today, “Your dreams are there to help you organize and make this information useful to you.”
Your dreams can help you release any expectations you have for your twin flame and increase your awareness of what he is actually communicating to you. Because your dreams will highlight aspects of your twin flame that your conscious mind might overlook.
So how can you maximize this level of communication?
Try taking note of your dreams over several months. Write down any details, feelings, and aspects of them that remind you of your twin flame. There might be distinct symbols and repeated messages that surface again and again. Try to bring them up in conversation with him at some point. You can look back and see if there are lessons that you are missing in your regular conversation with your twin flame.
Personally, I’m not a frequent dreamer or vivid dreamer. But when I do dream, the events and symbols seem to hold significant messages for me to look at. The more I learned to pay attention to my dreams, the more I started to remember them. And as I journaled, the messages in them have become quite significant in retrospect.
4) Out of Nowhere, You Feel a Strong Positive Sensation
“In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.”
– Maya Angelou
Close your eyes for a moment.
Can you remember a gentle and warm embrace from a loved one?
Or the feeling after you listen to the kind, loving words from a dear friend?
It may be because that person was thinking fondly of you.
Did you ever think intensely about someone, only to have them call you at the same moment or run into them later in the day?
When we are bonded by a strong sense of affection and deep love with someone else, our bodies can become surprisingly linked.
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For example, one rather well-documented study showed that genetic twins could communicate strong feelings while living on different continents.
More specifically, when one genetic twin, who was living in Italy, felt a sudden and unexpected onset of pain, it was at the same moment that her twin sister went into labor prematurely in the United States.
Another study found that a therapist experienced a severe migraine at the same moment his long-time patient committed suicide by bringing a gun to his head.
These cases can make us think that the same level of interconnection and subtle communication may also be experienced by twin flames.
These attentive experiences aren’t just limited to our emotional experience, they are also related to very fine shifts in our physiology.
Have you ever been in an air-conditioned room, where all the windows and doors are closed, and you feel a warm sensation rising over your body?
Or have you been out on an evening walk only to feel a cooling, soothing breeze comfort you for a moment when everything else remains completely still?
These small out-of-place changes can be a message coming through for you from your twin flame.
Think about it, when you feel connected to someone, you might feel a physical sensation when you think about them. If the emotional bond is strong enough, you might communicate through these sensations back and forth.
When you are painfully shy and attracted to someone, just the thought of them can make you blush. Your cheeks will flush and turn red, your heart rate will increase, your palms might turn clammy, and you will feel a flush of heat pulse throughout your body.
Since our emotions have a specific physical expression, if someone, like your twin flame, is thinking positive thoughts about you, you may tune into this message and feel a pleasurable sensation traveling throughout your body.
If you unexpectedly feel any of these desirable sensations, it could be a sign that your twin flame is thinking of you:
- Feeling expansive warmth around you, as though you are wrapped in a blanket
- Feeling a blissful sense of euphoria
- Feeling uplifted and elated
- Feeling like you are giggling to yourself for no reason at all
- Feeling a sudden burst of joy and love
If you are intimately bonded with your twin flame you might come to feel their messages of loving-kindness wash over you.
These can all be signs that someone is sending a message of love and peace to you.
So tune in and enjoy the fact that someone cares for you so strongly.
5) Out of Nowhere, You Feel a Strong Negative Sensation
“A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence.”
– Shannon L. Alder
It’s also important to keep in mind that shared feelings with your twin flame might not always be positive.
If he is feeling particularly overwhelmed with stress, anxiety, uneasy or distraught, you might be able to pick up on it from afar.
Because of your close bond, your twin flame might be thinking of you and want to feel your love when he experiences a strong hesitation, raw pain, deep fear, sense of helplessness, or any insecurities getting stirred up and surfacing.
In these moments, you might also feel negative sensations rise in your body for no reason at all, such as:
- Feeling a shivering sensation run down your spine
- Having a piercing tingling rush into your fingertips or toes
- Feeling itchy or like ants are crawling on your skin
- Having the sense that someone punched you hard in the stomach
- Coughing and feeling the dryness of your throat
- Feeling a quick rush of pain concentrate in one area of your body
- Suddenly feeling lethargic and exhausted
- Feeling a fluttering of nerves
Take notice. If you observe shifts in your body that make you feel suddenly uncomfortable, it could be a sign that your twin flame is reaching out to you for love and support.
The more you can tune into these subtle experiences, the more you will be able to pick up on signs that your twin flame is thinking about you.
Remember that your twin flame is in your life to teach you important lessons, and ask you to look at the depths of your essence with honesty and openness. So, these difficult emotions are times when you are both called to transform the most with the power of each other’s love.
Open Your Heart to These Signs and Signals
“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere, they’re in each other all along”
The more you feel and embrace your twin flame connection, the better you can navigate your journey together.
Give yourself time to learn how to feel and experience these signals. It could be that you keep a little journal to note down when they happen. Then you can check in with him to see how they correlated with his experiences.
These unusual synchronic signs ask you to pay close attention to what your senses are telling you. They are moments when you can completely tune into the finer details of life.
They also remind you that you are not alone in life. There are many signs that we can learn to feel our interconnectedness more profoundly.
Even if it’s hard to digest, stay curious, and inquire more.
Keep your heart open and approach each moment fully and bravely.
Research professor Brené Brown reminds us of the importance of forging vibrant and strong relationships. She defines connection as, “the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Being able to open to a sense of connection by being intuitive, vulnerable, and authentic allows us to feel a true sense of belonging. This can also help us find greater meaning in the experience of being human.
This practice isn’t a passive experience. It’s a choice and a continuous action.
No matter what fear and pain may lie ahead, the more you choose to be courageous, and look for signs of connection, the more you will learn to love and forgive, and love again.
Our twin flame can serve as a uniquely powerful, heart-opening, opportunity. They can act as a special gateway to a sense of unity. No matter the distance or moment in time, the strong connection between you and your twin flame will always burn bright.
“As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light of meaning in the darkness of mere being.”
– Carl Gustav Jung
Remember that this special person is in your life to help you experience a profound transformation.
He is on your path to help you to find your sense of purpose, express your authentic voice, and learn to let go of your ego so that you can experience greater depths of life and love.
Your twin flame will also point out past trauma and allow buried and painful sensations to resurface, so that you can heal yourself.
They are here to love you wholeheartedly, so that you may learn to love them and others more profoundly.
These are all beautiful lessons and messages to tap into.
So, connect. Always. And may you and your twin flame both grow together, with love.
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