There are people the universe wants you to include in your life. We call them soulmates and twin flames.
But then there are people the universe wants you to stay away from.
These people only bring negative energy to you. And usually, they’re present only to keep you back from meeting the right people in your life.
So how can you know if the universe wants you to stay away from someone?
Keep reading to know 12 sure spiritual signs!
1) Strange things happen whenever you plan on meeting
Do you know anyone in your life that can be considered bad luck?
By this I mean, strange things tend to happen whenever you try to meet up with them.
They don’t necessarily give off any bad vibe… at least at first. But something always just seems to come up whenever you wanna hang out.
Maybe you’ll get sick out of nowhere. Or it will start to rain hard before you walk out the door.
Maybe, on your way to them, you see a car crash. Or you run over a traffic cone even if you’re a really good driver.
If this is the case, then it’s the universe’s way of telling you to stay away from someone.
Usually, these strange things are not harmful. And that’s because they’re warnings.
But if you ignore it and proceed on spending time with this person, it just might happen that harm may come your way.
2) Your closest circle has a bad feeling about them
Your friends and your nicer relatives know you the best. And they want what’s best for you.
So if they meet someone and they start having a bad feeling about this person, you better keep it in mind.
Sure, some friends could gate-keep you, and family members can just be cynics.
But you know these people the best as well. Are they the type of people who would talk foul about someone just for the sake of it?
If you know your closest circle well enough, then it’s possible the universe is making them feel what you should be feeling.
Because sometimes, our first-person experiences can be a little unreliable. So the cosmos would try to communicate to you through the people closest to your heart.
When they do, keep your defenses up.
Or better yet, stop seeing the person they don’t like for you.
3) Whenever you hang out with them, your habits get worse
People who are not good for you will influence you in ways you won’t even notice.
One indicator that the universe wants you to stay away from someone, is when your habit gets worse whenever you’re around them.
You see yourself spiraling more than usual. Or maybe you’re trying to quit something, but slip up whenever you hang out with them.
This is especially the case when you’re trying to bounce back from addiction.
You’ll notice that it’s just harder to quit when they’re around.
And that’s because most of the time, they get in your head in order to convince you.
They may mask it behind the guise of friendship or just plain fun. And then the next moment, you’ll just find yourself in the middle of withdrawal.
This addiction does not only apply to substances.
It could also be seen through your mindset, the way you talk to people, the way you handle situations that will trigger you.
If you notice that your habits are getting worse whenever you’re around someone, stay away from them.
4) You can imagine how your relationship is going to end
Sometimes, we can make projections of our relationship with someone.
We can imagine living with them after five years, maybe getting married after 10 years…
But sometimes we just know, for some reason, that things are gonna end between you and them.
You probably won’t know when or how, but you can’t shake this feeling that this relationship is not something that is meant to last.
In short, you’ll have one eye at the exit all of the time. And you probably don’t even know why.
Well, let me tell you: This is the universe’s way of telling you that your relationship with this person is not worth it.
And you should stay away from them as soon as you can.
Your projections of the end of your relationship are not from nowhere. It’s actually the universe’s way of showing you a vision of the future.
If you can imagine it, then it can probably happen.
So don’t take it for granted.
5) A gifted advisor confirms it
Have you ever talked to a psychic?
If you haven’t, well I suggest you find one right now who will be able to guide you.
Because sometimes the universe reveals signs to us that we may miss, especially when we’re too drawn to someone… even if that someone may just be bad for us.
The signs above and below in this article will give you a good idea of how the universe communicates warnings to you.
Even so, it can be very worthwhile to speak to a gifted person and get guidance from them. They can answer all sorts of relationship questions and take away your doubts and worries.
Like, are they really your soulmate? Are you meant to be with them? Or are they someone you should watch out for?
Because if you’re not careful, you may just find yourself in the middle of a very sticky situation.
I recently spoke to someone from Psychic Source after going through a very confusing time with someone who I thought was a good person in my life. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I was meant to be with.
I was actually blown away by how kind, compassionate and knowledgeable they were.
In a love reading, a gifted advisor can tell you more about compatibility and how to spot the glaring signs when meeting someone new.
And most importantly empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to love.
6) They drain your energy
Our energy is sacred. It’s connected to our spirits, and that is something that we should not waste on the wrong people.
When the universe wants you to stay away from someone, one sign you will definitely not miss is this:
They will drain the life out of you.
You’ll start noticing that whenever you are with them, you won’t be able to last an hour. Because they suck out all your energy.
Hanging out with them requires a week’s worth of recharging your social battery.
Also, the things they say make you feel unsettled for some reason.
This can manifest in their view of politics, how they see women, how they treat their family, or even how they make fun of how you feel.
They may criticize you for the smallest things. Or only reach out to you when they need something.
If so, do your best to stay away from them. Because these people will only affect your view of yourself.
7) Your conversations are awkward and forced
Being with good people in your life will bring out your confidence.
You’ll notice that with the right crowd, you’ll feel heard, appreciated, and real to who you really are.
But when the universe wants you to stay away from someone, your conversations will feel forced and awkward.
Talking to them only brings about friction. And never the good kind.
Some clashing of ideas are healthy. They become avenues for growth of both parties.
But people you should stay away from will create friction just for the sake of it.
They will make backhanded compliments about your appearance and achievements. They will make the conversation solely about them. Or maybe they’ll never even let you speak in the first place.
Whichever the case, you’ll feel like they only see you in a way that fits their limited worldview.
And that perspective is not even close to who you really are.
That’s why you can’t talk to them properly.
8) They seem too good to be true, as if they’re not being real
Sometimes the signs the universe shows you are not immediately noticeable.
Such as this: When someone seems too perfect to even be real, chances are you should stay away from them.
Why, you ask? Well that’s because it’s possible they’re not showing you their real selves.
Humans are complicated. We have our toxic and healthy behaviors. We have our proud achievements and ugly pasts.
And one way or another, real people will reveal these things to you.
But when someone seems squeaky clean, as if they don’t have skeletons in their closet, then you should start running away.
Because chances are, they’re hiding a very dark part of their personality deep within.
And these are parts that they don’t want to address at all.
So they bury them under layers of fake goodness, trying to study your actions in order to create a persona that fits the person of your dreams.
That’s where the term “a wolf in sheep’s clothing” comes from.
9) There is no spark between you
If you’re dating someone and there is no spark between you, then maybe they’re just not for you.
This spark is different from butterflies. Butterflies are actually more related to anxiety.
But a spark is an indication that your inner workings have suddenly connected. And now they’re working in harmony.
If you don’t feel that with someone, then don’t waste your time trying to save your relationship with them.
Because if you do, you might just end up putting in more work than is necessary to maintain any type of connection.
10) They try to break your integrity
Integrity is important for us in order to feel human.
It’s the quality that makes us able to stand proudly, because we have nothing to be ashamed of.
But if you’re with someone who tries to break your integrity, then it’s the universe’s way of telling you to stay away from them.
They may pressure you into doing something you don’t want, like taking illegal drugs or breaking the law. They may tell you to lie to people you hold in high regard. They may encourage you to go against your own principles.
If someone urges you to do these things, then better stay away from them… before they do real damage.
Basically, they’re just trying to pull you down to their level.
It’s possible that they once had their own dreams and aspirations, but now they don’t know how to get back up.
And instead of doing better about their situation, they’ll force you to where they are.
As if saying,
11) They make you doubt your own decisions
The universe wants us to be more in touch with our truth. Our lives should be filled with clarity and positivity, and that’s the design of the cosmos for a lot of us.
So when someone threatens those things for you, better stay away from them.
Once the universe makes you realize you’re doubting yourself, then that is a huge sign.
We are supposed to trust ourselves and our instincts. Sometimes even without logical explanation.
And for someone to challenge that trust we put in ourselves is a major sign that we should keep some distance from them.
12) They make you feel disposable
In fact, the universe goes through lengths just so you realize that.
There is an elaborate plan set for you in order to make the great design one that is worthwhile.
So when someone makes you feel like you’re disposable, then take note of that!
Because even if they don’t mean to, the universe is telling you that you have to stay away from this person.
People who make you feel this way– a lover, family, or friends– will only tear down the design the universe has planned for you.
So before things turn out for the worse, learn to keep away!
We are here in this world for a reason. And we are meant to enjoy the big picture of our lives as designed by the cosmos.
So people we’re not meant to be with should not have access to the energy given to us by the universe.
Otherwise, we’ll only end up dissatisfied.
Or even worse, these people will only hinder us from finding the people we actually should be with.
So be careful and alert. And do your best to guard your spiritual energy.
Can a gifted advisor help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.
If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.