You’re not sure whether to have a baby or not.
Maybe you’re not sure it’s the right moment.
Or maybe you’re struggling with infertility and you can’t figure out what to do.
That’s why the universe is constantly sending you signs. If you look for them, it will guide you on the right path.
So here are 16 undeniable signs that the universe wants you to have a baby!
1) Seeing babies everywhere
One of the most obvious signs that the universe wants you to have a baby is that you start to notice babies everywhere.
- You go to the store and keep letting new mothers with their babies cut in line in front of you.
- You sit on a bench in the park and a woman sits opposite you and starts nursing her baby.
- You’re sitting on a bus and the woman across from you bounces her crying baby up and down.
- You go to work and your colleague can’t stop showing you pictures of her new baby.
Suddenly, it seems like all your friends are having babies too.
I mean, babies are everywhere, even your neighbors are having babies.
In short, if you start seeing babies everywhere, it’s an undeniable sign that the universe thinks it’s time for you to have a baby!
2) Seeing pregnant women everywhere
Another sign that the universe wants you to have a baby is that you start to see pregnant women everywhere.
You see them on the street, on the bus, in shops and restaurants. It feels like they’re following you.
Then, you get on an elevator and before it closes, a heavily pregnant woman squeezes in next to you.
Or you might notice a pregnant woman at every yoga class you take.
You go shopping and when you start picking out an outfit you want to try on, you notice that it says mama – and you realize you’re in the maternity section.
Pregnant women are walking around town with their big bellies showing. Their shopping bags are filled with maternity clothes and baby stuff.
And the best part?
They look so happy and confident and they have that pregnancy glow.
What’s more, it seems like every girl your age is suddenly showing off her bump.
Suddenly, you start to see pregnant women everywhere and that’s a clear sign the universe is trying to tell you something.
3) A gifted advisor confirms it
The signs above and below will give you a good idea about whether the universe wants you to have a baby.
But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a gifted advisor.
They can answer questions like, “What about my career?” and “Will I have enough money?”
The problem is finding someone you can trust.
That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. When I signed up for a reading, they provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I am meant to be with.
Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate, and helpful network of gifted advisors out there.
Not only will a genuine advisor tell you if the time is right for a baby, but they can reveal what else is in store for you.
4) You feel a change coming your way
It may sound strange, but if you’ve ever felt that way, you’ll know what I’m talking about. It’s that feeling that something is about to happen, like a big change is coming your way.
You don’t know exactly what it is, but you know it’s something big.
You see, the universe is constantly sending you signs that it wants you to have a baby.
So, if you feel like the tide is turning in your life and you see some other signs related to babies and pregnancy, then it’s undeniable: the change that’s coming is a new life.
5) Dreaming about babies
Have you found yourself dreaming about babies a lot recently?
Here are some examples of the dreams you could be having:
- You dream about giving birth
- You dream about finding out that you’re pregnant
- A baby talks to you in your dream
- But it doesn’t stop there, you may even dream about non-human babies such as puppies or kittens.
The fact that you keep on dreaming about babies is further proof that the universe sees a baby in your near future.
6) Songs with the word “baby” keep playing on the radio
“Hit me baby one more time”
“Be My Baby”
“Always Be My Baby”
Now, the universe is constantly sending you signs that it wants you to have a baby, and that includes through music and the radio!
That’s right, you’ll keep hearing songs on the radio that are all about babies or have the word “baby” in them.
I mean, hearing a song with “baby” in it now and then is not unusual.
But if it keeps on happening often or you even hear several consecutive songs with the word “baby” in them, well then, it can’t be a coincidence, can it?
7) Your partner brings up babies
Yet another sign the universe wants you to have a baby is when your partner brings it up.
Now, maybe he’ll mention how weird some friends have started acting since they became parents and he’ll say, “When we have kids, we’re not gonna become those people”.
Or, he’ll suddenly come out and ask, “What do you think about the name Tom if we ever have a son?”
Maybe you’ll be taking a stroll when you see a cute baby. You’ll tell its mother how adorable it is and you’ll gush over it. The next thing you know, your partner is saying, “We should try to have a baby”.
So if he brings up babies, it’s probably because he’s ready. So what’s stopping you?
8) Everyone on TV is pregnant or just had a baby
Another impressive sign the universe wants you to have a baby is when all the women on TV are pregnant or have just had a baby.
From anchorwomen to leading ladies in films, they’re all having babies.
In fact, you’ll even see famous women who were once child stars announce that they’re expecting a baby!
This happens so often now that it’s impossible not to notice.
9) Newspaper and magazine ads are full of babies and pregnant women too
Of course, it’s not only happening on TV but in newspapers and magazines and everywhere else you look.
The signs are everywhere!
Pick up any newspaper or magazine and you’ll see a full-page ad of a beautiful pregnant woman.
In fact, you probably even see pictures of babies on the cover of magazines because celebrities are having babies all the time.
10) Babies invade your social media
As soon as babies start showing up everywhere, you’ll notice that your social media feeds are full of baby photos.
And these aren’t just your friends or people you’re following. You’ll keep getting suggestions because you liked a certain page, they think this one with all the BABIES will interest you.
You’ll keep getting baby ads too.
I mean, even social media is not baby-proof.
11) The number 9 keeps popping up
The number 9 is significant because it’s the gestation period for humans.
So if you keep seeing the number 9, or hearing that something will happen in 9 months, costs 9 dollars, be ready in 9 minutes… It’s another sign from the universe that it wants you to become a mum.
12) You see the colors pink and blue everywhere
People having a girl tend to paint her room pink and buy her a whole wardrobe in pink, while people having a boy will normally paint the room blue and get him blue clothes.
It’s true, it’s a bit old-fashioned. But because you can’t tell what gender a baby is by simply looking at it, dressing it in pink or blue will make it clear.
So have you been seeing pink and blue everywhere?
It’s another sign that the universe wants you to have a baby. Maybe it hasn’t decided on the gender yet, or maybe you’ll get one of each, who knows!
13) You feel so empty
In my experience, the urge to procreate can almost feel like an emptiness inside you.
You know that something is missing and you need to fill that void somehow.
And when the universe hears your thoughts and feels your pain, it tries to help by sending you signs everywhere so that you’ll finally take action.
But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.
So instead of trying to solve all your problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.
14) Your family keeps on bringing up the baby topic
Now, if your parents won’t stop talking about babies, it may be because they’re eager to have a grandchild.
But there is more to it than that… Because if your whole family keeps on bringing up this topic, it’s likely because they feel you need to start thinking about kids.
They see something in you that you haven’t noticed yourself yet but the universe has been trying to tell you for a long time.
15) You keep seeing clocks
This is probably the most obvious sign that the universe wants you to have a baby.
There’s nothing like waking up and feeling like your biological clock is ticking!
You see, women can only have babies until a certain age. If you wait too long, you might miss your chance.
All in all, if you keep seeing clocks, especially in dreams, it’s another sign that the universe wants you to have a baby.
16) Your contraceptive pill is sold out everywhere
If you’re on the contraceptive pill, you know it’s not always easy popping a pill every day.
So imagine this, you go to pick up your monthly prescription and your pharmacist tells you it’s sold out.
In fact, you can’t find it in any pharmacy in town.
What’s going on?
Well, it’s an undeniable sign from the universe. It wants you to take a break from the pill and start working on having a baby!
So if your contraceptive pill is sold out everywhere, it might be because your body is trying to tell you that it’s time for a change.
Signs you’re not ready to have children
It may be difficult to hear this, but maybe you’re not ready for children just yet.
It may be something that you’ve always wanted and planned on, but sometimes you have to get your life sorted out before bringing a child into the world.
The following are some signs that you should hold off on having kids:
1) You are not in a stable relationship
While it’s natural to dream of having a family, it’s best to do so when you are in a healthy, loving, and stable relationship.
If you and your partner are still figuring things out and you keep hitting bumps in the road, bringing a baby into the picture may not be the best idea.
You see, a child thrives in a stable and loving relationship. The opposite may be harmful to a child.
Here’s another thing.
If you think a baby will fix your relationship and make things better, think again.
A child may bring you closer together or drive you further apart. Communication is key.
You’ll need to be honest with each other and work day in, day out, to make your relationship work before you start thinking of expanding your family.
2) You still do not have your life in order
Do you feel like you are missing out on life? Do you live without a purpose? Are you uncertain what your purpose is?
These feelings and thoughts may indicate that it’s best to put off having children for a while.
It’s important to get your life in order before you bring a child into the picture.
What would you say if I asked you what your purpose is right now?
A month ago I would’ve closed my eyes and sighed. I had no idea.
The problem is that there are far too many fake gurus out there ready to sell you on unrealistic and ineffective solutions.They told me to meditate, radiate “positive vibrations” and visualize the life of my dreams. They said I’d find the romantic partner I’d always wanted and that prosperity and peace would flow.
It sounded good, but it backfired.
Here’s the crazy thing:
Visualization and positive vibes won’t bring you closer to your dreams, and they can actually drag you backward into time-wasting, idle fantasy, and frustration.
But it’s hard to get your life in order when you’re being hit with so many Instagram influencers and studio gurus who want to convince you that you’re just being negative.
You can end up trying so hard and not finding the answers you need that your life and dreams begin to feel hopeless.
You may end up further back than where you started, miserable, alone, and angry.
The fact is:
Before you can experience a real change, you need to really know your purpose.
I learned about the power of purpose from watching Ideapod co-founder Justin Brown’s video on the hidden trap of improving yourself.
Justin used to be addicted to the self-help industry and New Age gurus just like me. They sold him on visualization and positive thinking. It left him lost and confused.
That’s why he traveled to Brazil to meet the renowned shaman Rudá Iandê, who taught him a life-changing new way to find your purpose and use it to transform your life and everything around you.
After watching the video, I discovered my purpose in life and it’s no exaggeration to say it was a turning point in my life.
I can honestly say that this new way of finding success by finding your purpose actually helped me to figure out my life and start a family.
3) You have no job security
If you are someone that is going from one job to another, or if you are stuck in an unstable position, chances are you might not even get maternity leave.
If your partner doesn’t have a stable job either and can’t support you and the baby, then you may want to wait until your situation is a little better before you bring a child into the picture.
It’s important to have stability in one’s life, especially when it comes to children.
If you’re unsure of how your job will pan out or if you’ll still have a day job once the baby is born, it may be best not to dive into having children just yet.
4) You don’t have financial security
You should be financially secure before you start a family.
Let me explain:
Children are expensive. They need so many things. That’s why you need to be able to financially support them.
If you can’t even support yourself, then having a child may not be the best idea at this time.
If you ever fall on hard times, having a child will be daunting and stressful. This can lead to fights in the relationship and create tension, which could cause you to make poor decisions.
Don’t rush into having a family before you are financially secure. You may end up putting your child’s life at risk because of your lack of security.
5) Your priority is your career
Are you on the fast track to success in your career? Do you want to become a powerful figure in your industry?
If so, then it’s best that you don’t have children just yet. You need to have time and energy to devote to your family. Don’t try to juggle everything at once.
The bottom line is that having children is going to bring your life to a screeching halt. It’s going to take some of your time, focus, and energy.
6) Other people’s kids don’t interest you
Now, you don’t get excited by the idea of other people’s kids, in fact, they annoy you most of the time.
You may make the perfect mom one day, but if you find kids annoying, then you should hold off on starting a family.
Children can be difficult. They can be loud and want your attention constantly.
You want to enjoy life to the fullest before you have a child of your own. The same goes for work and career ambitions.
7) You don’t want to give up partying
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have fun.
You want to be able to party on weekends, travel during the summer, and do fun things with your friends.
Having a baby means having to go without all that for a while.
If you’re not willing to give up partying, then it’s not the best idea to start thinking about having a child at this time in your life.
8) You love your freedom
If you love your freedom, then you may want to hold off on having a child.
You see, a baby takes your freedom away.
Having a family means settling down. You’ll be tied to one place and can’t go backpacking all the time. You won’t be able to travel and party all the time.
You won’t be able to do things on a whim anymore. Being a parent means sacrificing a lot of things.
If you love freedom, then you should hold off on having a family until your life is settled.
9) You’re still very young
Hey, there is no rush to have a child, especially if you are young.
Your 20s are for living! They are for you to enjoy life without worrying about responsibilities and caregiving.
Just because some of your friends are having babies, that doesn’t mean you need to as well.
So, enjoy yourself while you still can and wait a few more years to have a baby.
10) You like to sleep in
Having a child means having to wake up early. This means waking up at the crack of dawn and not being able to sleep in or take a nap if you want.
Actually, it sometimes means not sleeping at all.
If you’re someone that likes to sleep in or take a nap whenever you’re tired, it may be best for you to hold off on starting a family.
11) You’re selfish
Now, there’s nothing wrong with being selfish, but some selfishness can work against you when it comes to having children.
If you don’t want to share your life with anyone, then you don’t want children.
Children are needy. They ask for attention and love every day.
They want to know that you love them and are happy that they are in your life.
12) You want to travel the world
If you’re someone that wants to see the world and explore different places, then holding off on having a baby may be best.
You don’t want the commitment of a baby when you are planning on traveling the world. You may find it difficult to travel with a baby and all its baggage.
So, why not go and travel the world first, then you can focus on having a family?
Hopefully, the signs in this article will shed some light on whether the universe wants you to have a baby. What’s more, I’ve included a list of reasons to hold off having a baby.
But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine advisor.
And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate reading, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.
So if you’re tired of wondering whether you’re ready to be a mother, get in touch with a gifted advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.
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