11 signs of twin flame sexual energy (+ tips to enhance your connection)

They say a person can have multiple soul mates, be it a mentor, a friend, and maybe even a sibling. But there can only be one true twin flame, a person’s other half.

A twin flame comes from the idea that a single soul is sometimes split into two whole souls, and each one travels through many lifetimes without the other.

So imagine how it must feel to come together with your twin flame in the same lifetime. Because what are the odds of finding your mirror soul in a world filled with billions of people?

It’s a unique, once-in-a-lifetime experience that happens when you least expect it — a beautiful chance encounter. A powerful, magnetic meeting of souls. A feeling of oneness with someone so familiar despite having only met.

It may not be easy at first when you find your twin flame. You may be at different stages in your spiritual evolution that you don’t recognize each other immediately. When you do, you’ll feel instantly at home and completely at ease.

Twin flame connections are overwhelming, intense, and filled with passion. Its energy vibration is so powerful you can feel it course all over your body.

You feel an instant connection as if you’ve known them from the past. You feel drawn to them when you’re miles apart. You can sense their happiness and their pain. You know what’s on their mind with them saying a word.

And the sexual energy? Electrifying and off the charts.

But what exactly is twin flame sexual energy? It’s the exchanging and experiencing sex-related energy between twin flames. While the energy exchange also happens during sexual intercourse, the physical connection is considered its simplest manifestation.

Twin flames are bonded by an unbreakable energy cord. This is part of the twin flame spiritual connection when you have yet to make human contact. It keeps your souls connected and constantly gravitating around each other. That magnetic feeling and urge to get closer come from this energy cord.

You might choose a non-romantic relationship blueprint with your twin flame, and that’s okay. And because of the nature of your platonic relationship, the sexual energy you share doesn’t have anything to do with having sex. However, there is still a sexual energy exchange in the form of harmonizing frequencies.

Not everyone has a twin flame. And for those who do have one, they may not even find their way to each other. But if you have a constant yearning to connect with someone, a desire that goes soul deep, then you may have a twin flame out there.

Here’s a list of the 11 signs of twin flame sexual energy you can expect to experience even before you meet your one true flame.

1) You feel their energy on you

You feel your twin flame’s sexual energy even when you’re apart. And you can’t explain why and how. It’s just suddenly there, and it feels intoxicating and overwhelming. You sense them, and you know with no doubt that it’s them.

It’s a feeling that’s beyond physical senses and earthly sexual pleasures. It is more soulful, more into seeking the unknown, connecting to your own undiscovered self.

It may feel sexual, but it’s a soul-deep intimacy more than anything.

This sexually energetic bond may feel strange at first before you’ve made any actual physical contact. Your twin flame is more of an abstract notion, even if you have a deep understanding of its importance to your soul.

For some people, they’re not consciously aware of their twin flame or what they mean. The soul knows, but the human self needs to catch up. This doesn’t stop the twin flame energies from harmonizing though, chakra to chakra.

You’ll know it when you feel it.

2) You have intense dreams

Your twin flame’s sexual energy may come through to you as sexual dreams, which may seem strangely realistic.

The person you see in your dream would feel incredibly familiar even if you don’t know their face. The sexual interaction will be so intense, and it might be mind-boggling, to say the least, to the logical mind.

It happens a lot in twin flame relationships because you see the same things in both your dreams. This divine connection is beyond your understanding, but take it as a sign that your souls are meant for each other.

The experience is said to have a healing effect on your energy body, your connection, and on your twin flame, even though it may seem odd.

3) A highly intuitive advisor confirms it

The signs above and below will give you a good idea about the sexual energy between twin flames.

But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a real gifted advisor.

The problem is finding someone you can trust. 

There’s an abundance of fake “experts” out there, but very few genuine gifted advisors who can offer practical life advice. 

That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. They provided me with a unique insight into where my life should go, including who I was meant to be with.

Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate and knowledgeable network of professional advisors out there.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

Not only will a genuine advisor tell you more about your twin flame sexual energy, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.

4) Your sexual chemistry is undeniable

When you do meet your twin flame in physical form, you are going to experience crazy sexual chemistry.

Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D., professor of human sexuality at New York University and creator of Uncensored with Dr. Zhana, an online event series on sex and relationships, says, “Sexual chemistry is the very strong but ineffable feeling that you feel in your body when you’re attracted to someone.”

Butterflies in your belly, dilated pupils, an increase in heart rate, a spike in blood pressure, feeling flushed, and sweating are some of the common physical responses to feeling sexual chemistry with someone, she says.

Aside from the physical symptoms you experience when you see, feel, hear, think about, or smell your twin flame, your body language will also be telling of your magnetic attraction towards them.

When you make eye contact with them, you will feel the kindness behind them, as if seeing a sparkle even.

You will feel physically drawn to them, and you’ll feel like you can’t keep your hands off each other.

Your body will unconsciously angle towards them. You’ll lean into them when you’re walking side by side. You’ll banter and flirt smoothly and effortlessly. You’ll have a good time with each other. You’ll laugh a lot.

These are all considered signs that your sexual chemistry is undeniable.

5) You get powerful sexual urges

There are times when you’re going about your day, doing something completely non-sexual, and not consciously thinking of your twin flame when out of nowhere, you’ll suddenly feel sexually aroused. This may be because your twin flame is thinking about you sexually.

Sometimes it may be the other way around; you’re intentionally thinking of your twin flame, which sends out that sexual energy to them.

When you get powerful sexual urges, and you can’t explain where it comes from, you may be picking up on the energy between you.

6) You can feel intense body sensations

You might feel surges of sexual energy when you’re around your twin flame. And it may become almost alarmingly intense.

This could trigger your Kundalini awakening or the awakening of the sacred energy if you haven’t experienced it yet.

Kundalini is your consciousness, says spiritual teacher and author of Transcendence Calling Monique Rebelle. Everything that you are, you think, you remember, you can visualize. That’s your consciousness, your Kundalini. And it can only flow freely when your chakras are clear and open.

You may find your body shivering, some experience shuddering, intense bodily arousal, even a spontaneous climax when around your twin flame.

7) You get goosebumps or emotional chills

Getting the chills or when your hair stands on its end comes from a physical stimulus like cold weather or an emotional trigger.

An emotional trigger can come from a moving life experience, hearing a song that played during an important time of your life, or a terrifying experience like performing in front of people.

It could also be a sexual trigger from when your twin flame physically touches you or sends mad sexual energy towards your way.

But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier, their services have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them professional, honest, and compassionate in their readings. 

So instead of trying to figure this out on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the guidance – and the answers – you’re looking for.

Click here to get your own personalized reading.

8) You experience telepathic intimacies

A sexual pull is not lust but a genuine feeling to experience another intimately. It is not a craving of your body but a craving of your soul.

And telepathic intimacies with your twin flame’s soul, higher self, and physical being all feel very different.

Some people have shared that when they experience telepathic sex, it starts with a warm feeling on their abdomen. The warmth then grows in its intensity and spreads to their stomach and chest.

They feel almost paralyzed, as if they were melting with the sexual sensation. They feel so fully immersed, as if they’ve lost their sense of hearing and seeing. It would feel like they couldn’t move, as if they’ve lost all boundary and sense of their own body and could only focus on these sensual sensations.

And they know that this feeling is their twin flame’s energy. The coming together of their energies feel as if they are becoming one.

You don’t need to be at the same place to feel each other’s presence because you share a spiritual connection. So it’s possible to initiate intimacy through the twin flame mind even when you’re far apart.

9) You can experience astral intimacies

Your twin flame may be visiting you astrally when you suddenly get an intense sexual desire. You might even feel a tingling sensation. Take it as a signal that your twin has “arrived astrally.”

Astral sex is a type of intentional out-of-body experience or OBE, where you travel outside of your body to a dimension known as the astral plane and your souls have sex.

There’s no physical act but your souls experiencing each other wholly and intimately.

Astral sex is like a union of two conscious experiences, According to Graham Nicholls, an OBE researcher and author of Navigating the Out-of-Body Experience. It is referred to as ‘melding,’ like the entire self or inner experience is shared and unified with another person.

Catharine Allen, a clairvoyant intuitive and author of A Little Bit of Intuition, says, “This melding is what the experience of astral sex is all about. There are definitely connections you make with people on a soul level and are real enough that there’s telepathy. That sexual energy and attraction on a soul level could manifest as astral sex.”

Having astral sex takes a lot of work. You need to be tuned on a psychic level to take that sexual energy into an out-of-body experience.

This experience is common for new twin flame relationships since it is overflowing with passion, energy, and the desire to connect.

10) You have amazing, mindblowing sex

The telepathy and astral intimacies become a vibrantly physical relationship when you finally meet their physical being.

Sex is not going to be like any other experience you’ve had before. This is an experience where both the physical and spiritual combine. The first time will be unforgettable, and each time just keeps getting better and better.

The excitement never dies, and the feelings continue to grow stronger with time. The sexual energy only intensifies constantly.

Some also believe that the spiritual love-making between twin flames can heal all the wounds in their life and bring them a new ray of hope.

11) You can feel their intimate experiences when they’re with other people

Maybe you’ve chosen to share a non-romantic relationship with our twin flame. Or maybe you are apart. But when the other person chooses to engage in sex with someone else or even touch themselves, you can feel it in you, as if the experience were your own.

You can feel their intimate experiences because of your spiritual connection, the innate ability to sense their emotions or moods, even when you are far away. This connection between you two can never be broken. ​​As mentioned earlier in this article, there is still a sexual energy exchange in the form of harmonizing frequencies.

Think of it as a psychic connection or a gut feeling. And if you can read the mind of someone as if it were your own, then you have a strong spiritual connection that doesn’t need words to communicate.​​

While this could be emotionally painful because the thought of your twin flame physically with someone else may feel unbearable, you may also choose just to let go and surrender to the feeling.

Also, being with someone else physically does not weaken your twin flame bond, even if it may feel like. You are always connected; the intensity might feel less or more, depending on where you are in your spiritual journey.

Now that you know the signs that suggest twin flame sexual energy, here are some tips to enhance your connection and maintain a constant bond of love.

  • Learn to love yourself unconditionally

You must be willing to do deep inner work to learn to love and accept yourself unconditionally. It’s not easy to love yourself, but you must accept yourself for who you really are.

Learning to love yourself helps raise energy that radiates out into the world and draws love to you like a magnet. This then helps to intensify your twin flame connection.

  • Release your grudges

We all have grudges that we tend to keep around. When you don’t let go, you allow this negativity to fester within you.

Your energy becomes stuck and blocked. These grudges or past moments of anger that you feel prevent you from creating a real connection with your twin half.

  • Let go of your fears

Fear is related to painful memories, negative feelings, and sadness. When your twin flame draws out the deepest fears and imbalances within you, work on slowly letting it go.

And when you do, other negative emotions will also slip away. When you eliminate your fears, you allow blissful love to enter and fill your life.

  • Move away from patterns of conflict

To truly experience love, you have to move out of the conflict.

Learn to tune yourself into peaceful happiness. That’s why letting go of your fears is important. This also allows you to move out of the conflict patterns and remove the obstacle of finding love for yourself and others.

  • Practice a gratitude rampage

Shower each other with gratitude by listing everything in your life and about the other person you are grateful for. Do it every day for as long as you can, and you’ll feel a lightness in the energy you radiate.

  • Use a forgiveness mantra

Fighting and having arguments are all part of a healthy relationship. And for twin flames, emotions are further amplified and overly intense. That’s why some choose to walk away or not welcome the idea of uniting with their twin flame in the first place.

If you find yourself in a delicate situation that could potentially lead to an argument, rather than being defensive or blurting out the first thing that comes to your mind, just say: “I’m sorry, I love you, I forgive you, please forgive me.”

This mantra can help to diffuse the building tension and has a very powerful effect.

Twin flame connections are truly rare. And for people who have not had the pleasure of experiencing it, it may seem completely strange and even unbelievable.

But when the Universe brings you two together, two souls meant to be with each other, the experience is considered to be incomparable to anything you’ve ever experienced.

In conclusion

Hopefully, the signs above will shed some light on the sexual energy between you and your twin flame. 

But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine, professional advisor. 

And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate readings, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation. 

So if you’re tired of wondering about the signs of twin flame sexual energy, get in touch with a legit advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since. 

Click here to get your own professional love reading.

Colleen Florendo

Colleen Florendo

Colleen Florendo-Svensson is the founder of The Copy Tea, an up-and-coming copywriting studio, currently based in Sweden. She’s always enjoyed writing as a hobby, but it was while she was taking her MBA that she began falling in love with it even more. She has earned her master’s degree and has since been writing professionally. Her written works have been digitally published by Newsweek and she has also completed the Conversion Copywriting course under Copyhackers School. Her fresh and modern writing style has caught the attention of a variety of online clients, mostly in the wellness niche, all of whom were struggling to revamp their brand’s voice. She has successfully made them “cooler online than IRL”, with projects ranging from online sales pages, email sequences, multiple copy for social media and websites, to blog writing. When she’s not writing copy, you might find her cooking up a storm in the kitchen à la Gordon Ramsay, enjoying a nice walk outside with her husband, having a mini Taylor Swift concert in the shower, or pestering her cat with funny hats. Follow her on Instagram at @thecopytea where she drops a ton of useful copywriting tips and tricks!

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