New love can feel like a roller coaster at times; you might go from feeling ecstatic to devastated in the space of an hour, afraid that you’ve blown your chance with him or wondering how he feels about you.
We all want to know when things are going well and when they’re not.
But spotting if a guy wants you badly sexually isn’t always easy, especially if he is shy and reserved.
However, there are some signs that scream that this guy wants you with every cell in his body, and we’ll take a look at them today:
1) He pays attention to you and what you say
When a guy really wants to impress you, he’ll invest in you by paying attention to everything you say.
He’ll be curious about your passions and goals in life, and he’ll ask lots of questions to find out more.
This isn’t something a guy does when he’s just casually interested in you; it’s a sign that he wants to get to know every single part of you and build a real connection with you as quickly as possible.
When a guy is truly into you, he’ll learn about you in any way he can, including paying extra attention to what you say, reading your social media posts, and, if you’re seeing each other, the way you talk and interact with your friends.
Guys know that an emotional connection is important to lots of women in order to sleep with someone, so they will pay attention to you.
But he’ll be there for you in other ways, too:
2) He’s always available for you
A guy who is really into you might still have some reservations if he doesn’t know where your relationship is headed or if he’s unsure if he really finds you attractive.
However, if he wants to be with you badly, he’ll make time for you whenever you meet up, regardless of what else is going on in his life.
This means that he won’t cancel plans with you or look for any reason to postpone seeing you when you try to arrange a date.
Depending on his character, he might even be proactive and try to get out and see you first in case you want to see each other.
He’ll be happy to see you if you pop around or be patient while you arrange to meet up.
Being available for you 24/7 is a great sign he wants you badly, but he will also try to reach out, which brings me to my next point:
3) He constantly tries to spend time with you
If a guy wants you badly, he’ll want to see you as often as possible.
This might mean that he tries to get to know you better by asking you to go out with him in his free time, for example by suggesting that you go for a coffee or to the cinema.
This is a good sign that he is into you physically but it can show that he also wants to get to know you as a person and wants to make sure that you’re a good fit for him, too.
Regular dates are a great way for you to get to know each other better and for him to show you that you’re special to him.
However, either way, this shows he wants you very badly – he isn’t willing to wait much longer.
4) He compliments you
A guy who is into you will do whatever he can to make you feel good about yourself.
He’ll admire the things you love and admire you for the amazing person that you are.
He’ll also be truthful when he compliments you, not just saying what you want to hear. Sincere compliments that come from the heart are the best kind of compliments, and they’re also reserved for people he really likes.
However, his compliments might be very appearance-based if he wants you sexually.
You see, you drive him crazy, and so he will not be able to stop himself from complimenting you a ton.
But if he wants you badly, he won’t just stick to compliments…
5) He flirts openly with you
There are different types of flirting, and one is teasing flirting.
This is flirting that is meant to be fun and lighthearted, and it’s often done to tease the other person and make them blush.
A guy who is attracted to you might engage in this type of flirting from time to time, but a guy who wants you badly will be more direct with his flirting.
He’ll make eye contact with you, smile at you, touch you more often when you’re together, and use sexual language when talking to you.
He’ll also be confident in his moves, not being afraid to make a move on you in front of your friends when you’re out together.
You see, flirting is a huge indicator of what a guy’s intentions are.
If he openly flirts with you and makes sexual comments, that’s a big sign.
This actually brings me to my next point:
6) He makes suggestive comments
A guy who is very into you might use flirting to try and get your attention, but he might also be more direct and suggestive in his language.
He might make comments about the way you look and how he likes what he sees, tell you that you make him feel good, or make suggestive comments while you talk, always directing the conversation towards something more sexual.
You see, guys will use language to set the mood, and if a guy makes a ton of innuendo comments that can definitely be seen in a more sexual way, he is into you badly.
All he can probably think about is what he would love to do with you and he won’t be able to keep his hands to himself.
This is actually already the next point I wanted to mention.
7) He makes physical contact
If a guy likes you, he might engage in some light touching or hugging when you’re together or when you meet up, but when a guy is really into you, he’ll be more confident with his physical contact.
He’ll hold your hand when you’re walking together, put his arm around your shoulder when you’re hanging out, and he might even go as far as to put his hand on your thigh when you’re sitting together.
These are signs that he’s comfortable and confident with you, and he likes being close to you.
In a guy’s language, these are huge signs that he is really attracted to you and wants you badly.
8) His voice gets all smooth when he talks to you
A guy who is into you will sound different when he talks to you, and this isn’t something that you can control.
When he talks to you, his voice will become deeper and more confident, and he’ll become more fluent with his words.
Whether he’s over the phone, on social media, or in person, his voice will change to show that he likes you and that he’s happy to be talking to you.
This smooth, deep voice can be very attractive, and there is a reason he is using this, consciously or subconsciously: he wants you badly!
But not every move is super confident when it comes to guys who want you badly…
9) He gets a bit nervous around you
When a guy really likes you and wants you badly, he’ll be confident and feel at ease with you, but he might still get a bit nervous around you.
This isn’t something to worry about as it’s a natural reaction, and it shows that he’s not as confident around you as you may think.
He might stumble over his words, be a bit awkward, or blush when he’s with you.
This is a good thing as it shows that he’s not completely in control of the situation, and he’s not hiding behind his normal confident exterior.
The thing is, when a guy is this nervous around you, you can be pretty confident that he wants you very badly.
Trust me, a guy who gets nervous is thinking about a lot of things he’d love to be doing with you.
10) He dresses up to see you
When you first meet up, he might be dressed casually, but if he really wants to impress you, he’ll put in more effort.
A guy who wants you to like the way he looks will dress up for you and wear something nice and stylish.
He’ll not only want to look good for you, but he’ll also want to feel good about himself when he sees you.
When a guy puts in this much effort for you, you can be sure that he really wants to be with you.
You see, a guy will only put a lot of effort into his appearance when he is attracted to you sexually, so you can be sure that he likes you when he dresses up a little bit.
This doesn’t have to be anything crazy, maybe he’s wearing a nice shirt or put gel in his hair!
Speaking of hair…
11) He fixes his hair or clothes when he sees you
This one is a bit of a psychological sign – it’s very subconscious. When a guy starts to fix his hair or clothes when he sees you, that’s a very strong sign that he likes you.
This shows that he’s conscious about his appearance and how you will see him when you are together, which only adds to your confidence.
It’s nice to think that a guy who likes you might want to be seen by you as a better version of himself, so he’ll fix his hair or wear nicer clothes when they’re in the same room together.
You see, this is something we do subconsciously when we are really attracted to someone – we want to look our best and therefore fix something.
But that’s not the only body language sign you should pay attention to…
12) His body language says it all
When you want to find out if a guy wants you badly, you should pay attention to his body language.
One way to do this is by noticing if he is tense when you are in the same room together, or if he seems nervous, especially when he is around you.
You can also tell a lot about a guy’s feelings by looking at his eyes, as they communicate so much to us.
They can show things like discomfort or happiness, so you can learn a lot about the state of affairs between you two by looking at them the whole time.
Maybe he is mirroring your body language, which is a great sign that he likes you.
Another thing to look out for is whether or not his hips are facing you.
When a guy is interested in you, he’ll have an open stance.
This is a sign of confidence and attraction, but if he has his feet pointed toward you, that also shows he likes you.
13) He is jealous when you are around other men
Okay, this next sign is no surprise – when a guy wants you badly sexually, he will become a bit territorial, meaning he might be jealous when you’re with other men.
This is not a bad thing, but rather a sign that he likes you sexually and wants to be around you.
At the beginning of a new relationship, jealousy is normal.
You see, if he wasn’t interested in you or attracted to you, he wouldn’t care about other guys looking at you.
So if you are around a lot of guys and he seems a bit jealous, that’s a good sign that he really likes you!
14) He replies instantly
This next sign that he wants you badly sexually is pretty self-explanatory: he will reply to you instantly, which shows how much he likes you.
When a guy is interested in you, he’ll want to be in the know about anything that may impact you and your relationship, so he’ll want to check up on everything you are doing.
If he likes you and wants to be with you, he’ll not only reply to your text messages but will also be super eager to see what’s happening next.
But not just that, he might also be replying in an attempt to finally get a chance to hang out with you.
You might notice that his replies become even more frequent towards the evening hours…
That’s when you know that you drive him crazy in the best ways possible.
15) He finds reasons to touch you
Earlier I mentioned how a guy who wants you badly sexually will touch you quite a bit and look for physical contact.
However, that’s not all there is to the story – if he really wants you badly, he will also find the most random excuses and reasons to touch you, including touching your face “because you had something there”, stroking your hair behind your ear, or even slipping his hand down your waist.
This is a very strong sign that you drive him crazy sexually and that he wants to be with you.
You are like a magnet attracting him in and he’s helpless when it comes to your sexy allure.
This body language sign is usually something we do automatically, as our bodies can’t help but want to touch someone that they like.
16) He tells you how much he wants you
This one is a pretty clear sign: if a guy wants you badly, he is going to tell you!
He won’t be embarrassed to say “I like you a lot”, or “I want to be with you.”
If he tells you these things, trust me when I say that they are not just words meant to make you feel good – no, he is being totally honest with his feelings toward you.
A guy who likes you as more than a friend will not hide his affection towards you.
He might even talk about how crazy you drive him or how sexy you are, which is another sign he is attracted to you.
But be ready for some less great news…
17) He will get mad if you don’t reply to his message or call him back
When a guy likes you, he will not stop messaging you or calling you – and if the relationship goes further, he might even get mad when you don’t reply to him immediately.
This is especially true if he has codependent tendencies. You see, codependency is when you really like someone and then start to really depend on them for your happiness.
This is more common in people who share a deep emotional connection, but it can also happen when someone is merely sexually attracted to someone.
They become clingy and desperate for your attention, and if you don’t respond to them immediately, they will start to get mad at you.
Now: while to some degree this can be sweet and endearing, make sure that this guy is respecting your boundaries and doesn’t cross the line.
18) He wants to meet up at night
If a guy primarily wants to meet up at night to get some drinks or for you to come over to his place, then that is a decent sign that he wants more than a platonic relationship with you.
Remember: the whole point of being out at night is often to connect with someone sexually.
So, if a guy really wants to meet up at night, that’s a sign he wants you badly sexually and sees this as his perfect chance of getting lucky.
And the good news is:
If you are interested in him too, you will probably find out on that exact date if he wants you badly or not – he will make it pretty obvious.
19) He wants you to come over
A guy who isn’t sure about his feelings for you or who wants to get to know your personality will take you out on a nice date.
A guy who wants you badly sexually will probably resort to an easier option: he’ll invite you over to his place.
Obviously, there’s no need to go through all the hassle (and cost) of going on a date when you can both get what you want without paying a penny!
This night is with the guy who wants you badly: he’ll probably be in an easy-going mood, will play some music, and will maybe order some food to relax even more.
He might even give you some alcohol so that you would also be in the mood.
These are pretty classic moves of someone who finds you very attractive and can’t wait to sleep with you.
20) He is winking at you
Okay, this next sign is a bit strange, but it is true. If a guy often winks at you or accompanies his sentences with a little wink, that can be a huge sign that he wants you badly sexually.
The thing is, a wink can make any innocent comment seem suggestive and sexual, and he is doing that on purpose.
This basically means that he’s trying to hide his real intentions behind a rather innocent comment.
He is not saying his true intentions outright, but his actions are making it pretty clear what he is thinking and feeling at that moment!
21) He talks about sex with you
A big sign a guy could really see himself sleeping with you is when he is very open about talking about sex.
The two of you might have a very innocent conversation, but he will find a way to bring up sex in the same conversation.
This is even more likely if you are hanging out with your friends – maybe he will try to get you alone so that you can talk about it without anyone else around.
But not just that, he might also just openly talk about his sexual past with you.
These are all signs that he can imagine himself being with you.
22) He asks if you like lingerie or buys it for you
Okay, this one is pretty clear, but if a guy is interested in you, he will probably start to buy you lingerie and ask you if you like it.
When a guy really likes you, he will make an effort to get gifts for you – and lingerie is one of those gifts that can be pretty sexy.
You see, it’s no secret – if a guy buys you something like lingerie, then he definitely thinks of you as attractive and wants you badly.
There is literally no other reason I can think of except that you are very attractive.
And if he asks you if you like the lingerie, then that is even more evidence that he wants to see you in it.
23) He buys you other gifts
Honestly, gifts in general are a pretty good indicator that a man wants you badly.
If you are hanging out with a guy and he buys you a nice gift, that is pretty much a sure sign that he wants to get to know you better.
He really likes you and wants you to like him back – so he is making an effort to show himself in a good light and probably also wants to win your heart.
Gifts are a love language, and many men will use presents as an attempt to get you in bed with them.
Of course, they can also be incredibly genuine and sweet gestures that he cares about you, but a gift can indicate that he wants you badly.
Now, speaking of love languages, there are 5 of them: gift-giving, quality time, physical touch, acts of service and words of affirmation.
Speaking of physical touch and acts of service, he might utilize those, too:
24) He offers to give you a massage
A huge sign that he wants you badly is when he offers to give you a massage.
Showing physical affection is a very intimate and vulnerable thing – especially when it comes to your back because then there is a lot of room for closeness and intimacy.
So, if a guy offers to give you a massage, that’s pretty much a sign of being vulnerable toward you.
Massages are very intimate, in general, and are often connected to foreplay, which is another sign that he is attracted to you and wants you badly.
If you think about it, he might be hoping that by giving you a massage, you will be more inclined to do other things with him!
25) He comments on your outfits
Next up we have another classic: a guy who wants you badly sexually will notice a lot of appearance-based things about you, like your outfits, for example.
Of course, compliments are a good sign in general and are an indicator that he is interested in you, but if he comments on your outfits a lot, then that’s just another sign.
He will often mention how good you look in them or even suggest other outfits that would probably make you look even sexier.
And if he is complimenting your physical appearance to other people – because he wants to show you off – then that’s even better.
You see, if he says things like “Wow, that top really accentuates your curves” – he is thinking about you in a very sexual way, believe me.
Also, if he is complimenting your physical appearance to other people – because he wants to show you off – then that’s even better!
26) He clears his schedule to make time for you
Talking about wanting you badly – a guy who literally can’t wait to finally be with you will make time for you.
A guy who wants to spend time with you and is attracted to you sexually will change up his schedule completely if it means getting a chance of being alone with you.
If he is very attracted to you and wants to see you, then he will make time for you – granted, if it means missing important things.
If he doesn’t want things to change, then maybe he isn’t as into you as he makes himself seem.
Maybe there are other reasons why he doesn’t want a change in his schedule – maybe it’s just that his work is incredibly important.
However, if a guy does change his schedule around your needs, you know you have found someone who wants you really badly.
27) He holds intense eye contact
Have you heard the saying “the eyes are the window to the soul”? Well, a guy who is sexually interested in you will hold your gaze for a long time and keep eye contact.
I mean, I know that most of the time it’s all just an act to make you feel safe or something – but from the perspective of someone getting all manly on you, he will be really into making eye contact with you.
He is trying to catch you off guard and win your heart – so he will try to hold your gaze for as long as possible.
You see, eye contact can be incredibly intimate, and if a guy is trying to catch your gaze, it’s pretty clear that he wants more than your company.
Now, don’t get me wrong – a guy can look you in the eyes without wanting to sleep with you.
But it’s pretty easy to check if it’s just an act or if he really wants you badly.
While making strong eye contact with you, you might notice a glimpse of lust, passion, or intrigue in his gaze. That’s when you know what’s going on.
28) You make him smile
Want to know one of the secrets to make a man want you badly sexually? It’s to be able to make him smile.
And the way to make him smile is to “make his day”.
I mean, if a guy is smiling and laughing a lot, he probably likes you a lot and wants you badly.
After all, a guy who has a good time around you probably finds you attractive, too!
If you make him laugh or smile by making him feel special or like he’s important – then that’s pretty much a sign that he wants to get to know you better.
I know that the other way around it’s a pretty common phenomenon – women often sleep with guys who can make them laugh – it makes them attractive. However, it works the other way around, too.
29) He talks about his fantasies
Next up we have another classic: a guy wants you really bad if he lets you in on his deepest, darkest fantasy.
A guy who is attracted to you will be able to talk about these fantasies – because he wants you.
I mean, a guy who can’t control himself around you, and then reveals his deepest, darkest fantasy about sex is definitely into you, I don’t think that’s a big secret.
You see, guys only share their fantasies with women who they think might be relevant to those exact fantasies, so obviously, this is a pretty big sign!
30) He stumbles over his words
A guy who wants you badly will try to seem all smooth and confident, but more often than not, him wanting you so badly will actually make him nervous and stumble over his words.
Whether it’s because he is nervous or because he is being himself, the fact that he can’t hide his true feelings for you speaks volumes about how strongly he is interested in you.
If a guy is attracted to you, then chances are that the more time you spend together, the more confident and smooth he will become.
31) When you kiss, he really goes for it
A guy who wants you badly sexually will really lean into kissing you and will try to make sure that he is the one who takes charge.
Does this mean that if he doesn’t go for a kiss, he isn’t interested in you at all?
Of course not. A guy can be attracted to you but still choose not to kiss you for a number of different reasons.
However, if he does go for it and then really takes charge – then that’s pretty much a sign that he wants you and feels very strongly about it.
32) He looks at your cleavage
Last but not least, a guy who is into you will look at your cleavage.
If he looks at that area more intently from time to time, I think it’s pretty clear what he wants.
You see, some guys can really control themselves in that aspect, but others simply can’t or don’t want to.
In those cases, it’s not hard to guess what’s on their minds.
When you notice these signs, it’s important that you know what to do next. If a guy is showing you all of these signs, then it’s likely that he’s into you, but you want to make sure that he knows if you feel the same way.
If you are into this guy, then these signs are pretty much a green light that he wants you just as badly as you want him.
However, if you don’t like him in that way, these signs indicate that you will have to set up some boundaries concerning him in the future, otherwise he might misinterpret things a bit.
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