15 reasons soulmate relationships are so intense (complete guide)

The term “soulmate” tends to be thrown around casually in today’s culture.

It may seem like a clichéd idea, but the truth is that soulmate relationships are intense, deep, and meaningful.

Why do I say that? Because I have dive in so much research and get to understand the truth about soulmate relationships.

Soulmate relationships are intense – this is a fact!

Here are 15 reasons why these relationships can be among the most intense relationships that anyone has ever experienced.

1)  They are life-changing

Why do I say this?

The nature of a soulmate relationship is that it’s life-changing and enduring.

Soulmate relationships don’t just change you, they are life-changing.

You will never be the same person again after you meet your soulmate and fall in love.

A soulmate relationship can change your life in many ways, from purely emotional and psychological to more transformative.

And even if it seems like the only thing that came out of the relationship is a heartbreak, those changes can still be positive and beneficial.

Now, as you pursue deep and meaningful soulmate relationships, you will be drawn together with amazing people who are strong and tough like you.

They will challenge you and stretch you to become better than what you knew possible. This is the reason why soulmate relationships are life-changing… no doubt!

2)  They have intense passion

In a soulmate relationship, you cannot keep your hands off each other.

You are highly attracted to each other, not only physically but also emotionally.

Soulmate relationships are passionate. This is obvious: you want to be with someone for a lifetime, so passion is kind of a given.

I’ve been in these types of relationships, and my experience has shown me how intense they can be.

Passion is what makes a soulmate relationship exciting and fulfilling at the same time.

And it’s also what keeps you coming back to your soulmate again and again, no matter how much distance you may have between each other.

This is one of the reasons why soulmate relationships are actually intense and they may require lots of energy!

3)  There’s physical intimacy and it’s amazing

These are probably two words that you don’t expect to see in a list of intense reasons why soulmate relationships can be so amazing.

Physical intimacy is one way to describe the level of passion in a relationship.

Just as you want to be with your soulmate for the rest of your life, physical intimacy is an integral part of that.

The intimacy is also generally higher than average as well.

In a soulmate relationship, the physical intimacy is intense.

You feel each other’s presence and proximity like nobody else, and you know it.

You are very comfortable with your partner’s body because they are familiar to you and you know each others’ gestures, likes, and dislikes.

Feelings of comfort and familiarity also make you feel more trusting of your partner. This is another reason why soulmate relationships can seem intense: you feel safe being close to them.

4) You have a deep sense of trust and safety with this person

Think about it.

Soulmate relationships feel intense because they are safe and you trust your partner with every fiber of your being.

They are the person who brings out the best in you and protects you from all harm… no matter how small or large the threat might be.

You will never feel unsafe in your heart with your soulmate because they or their actions have always been good for it. Everything they do is right by you.

However, we often experience this type of deep trust and high level of intimacy with people who we barely know. But it’s nothing like this kind of relationship.

With a soulmate relationship, you will not only trust your partner but also yourself and your decisions.

5)  They enrich your life and give you purpose

Soulmate relationships enrich your life in countless ways.

They heal you and make you happy, but they also give you purpose.

You’re not just experiencing them: you’re learning from them and building from them.

You can learn and grow from each passing day if you choose to do so!

You have the power to choose how that happens.

And you will be able to explore endless opportunities, areas where you never had the courage to try before because of fear or trust issues or self-confidence issues.

Talking about life purpose, soulmate relationships can also help you find your true calling.

Soulmates give you the chance to be selfish for a little while, to do things for yourself and see if it feels good.

But if you haven’t found your soulmate yet, don’t worry. There are many ways to discover it.

I remember when I was in my 20s and struggling with finding my life purpose, I saw this course.

In this course, Justin Brown – Ideapod co-founder will blow your mind with the hidden trap of improving yourself. He explains that most people misunderstand how to find their purpose, using visualization and other self-help techniques.

What makes this course so unique and authentic is the way he points out that visualization isn’t the best way to find your purpose. Instead, there’s a new way to do it which Justin Brown learned from spending time with a shaman in Brazil.

After watching the video, I discovered my purpose in life and that is when my life really changed for the better.

Click here to watch the video.

6) You know everything about your partner

This is another reason why soulmate relationships are intimate, but it also can be intense.

Soulmate relationships tend to have more depth than friendship or average relationships.

They are less surface level, and you have a strong desire to know your partner on every possible level.

You know everything, right?

You know their hopes and dreams, what they love and hate, you even know when they are lying to you.

You have the upper hand in a soulmate relationship because your partner doesn’t have the power over you.

They never know what will happen next because they never understand who you are completely: how could anyone ever?

Your soulmate knows everything about you! That’s intense… no doubt!. If all of these things sound good to you, then this is one great reason why soulmate relationships can be so intense.

7) You’re on the same page in terms of life goals and beliefs

Soulmate relationships are intense because you have the same life goals and beliefs.

You understand each other, so there aren’t any misunderstandings and miscommunications.

There is nothing more inspirational than to have someone who has the same life goals and values as you.

You love what they love, and they love what you love.

Your soulmate becomes your partner in life; you become a pair on an adventure of some sorts.

This type of relationship is intense because it’s purposeful, and when that purpose is fulfilled, one of you (the Soulmate) will be fulfilled as well.

The understanding of shared values is not just important for the relationship but it’s also an important foundation for a fulfilling life and a happy, healthy relationship.

8) You have shared plans, dreams, achievements, and ideas

In a soulmate relationship, you have seen each other’s dreams come true, and you also know that they are your dreams too.

You’ve also seen each other achieve their goals, even if it’s just as little as helping someone else be happy.

Romantic relationships are intense because you care about more than just the physical intimacy and passion.

You care what your partner is going through psychologically and emotionally, even if they don’t know it themselves.

This is another reason why soulmate relationships can be so intense: you truly care about each other and see the better side of them.

9) You can be completely vulnerable with each other

When you’re truly in love with someone, you feel strong and confident around them.

Even if they are holding secrets at the same time, they don’t have to worry about anything because you are their lifesaver.

It’s very intense to be loved that deeply, and not only do you love your partner for who they are but also for the person that you know that they can become.

The deep trust and closeness of the relationship make it possible to be totally open and honest with each other, even if that means they might hurt your feelings or they’ll reject you (which they won’t do).

10) Soulmate relationships are highly emotional

Soulmate relationships make you feel.

They make you feel emotions to the extreme, because soulmate connections are strong, intense, and deep.

They allow for the healing of your emotional wounds and for the sharing of your deepest secrets.

You have a very intimate connection with your soulmate; it’s safe to let your guard down around him or her and be vulnerable, which is an essential part of having an exciting relationship.

In my opinion, this is one of the most amazing things about soulmate relationships: they allow you to experience a type of feeling that would otherwise be completely foreign to you.

Feeling emotions intensely isn’t always easy though.

Soulmate relationships can be intense in this way because they put your feelings on the line.

11) They give you the best advice and help you through the deepest struggles

Your soulmate is there for you when it seems like everyone else has abandoned you.

He or she is listening to your problems, ready to lend a helping hand in any way possible.

They are also your number one supporter, encouraging and inspiring you to never give up and always keep moving forward.

When times get tough in your soulmate relationship, you’ll feel like taking a few steps back from your partner.

And yes, you may wonder why the soulmate relationship seems to be the only thing that can keep you going when all else falls apart.

This is one reason why soulmate relationships are intensive: they get you through your deepest struggles.

12) Commitment feels natural and easy for you both

A soulmate relationship is a marriage made in heaven.

It’s the kind of love that you were meant to experience in this lifetime and it fits you like a glove.

You feel like it’s always been there, waiting for you, even though it definitely wasn’t.

When you fall in love with your soulmate, it feels so right to be committed to him/her and be with them for the rest of your life.

This is one of the reasons why soulmate relationships can be extremely intense: they make commitment seem natural and easy between two people who are meant to be together.

13) Your love language is the same

Soulmate relationships go beyond the superficial because they are so intense.

As your soulmate gets to know you and understands the way you express yourselves and your love language, both of your love languages are easily understood.

Your love language is the way in which you truly feel loved, understood, and cared for,” says Gary Chapman.

This means that as each person understands their soulmate’s love language, this intensifies their empathy, compassion, and care towards one another.

“Your love language is an internal need that your partner can fulfill to make you feel loved, cared for, accepted and understood,” explains Gary Chapman.

When your two love languages are the same, when they truly understand how you feel unconditional acceptance and they take pains to express it back to you in the ways that mean the most to you, that is a soulmate relationship.

14) Although you fight, you always make up immediately

Soulmates have intense fights with each other because they are intimate and connect on a deep level, which means that both of you are bound to get on each other’s nerves for one reason or another.

You argue intensely with your soulmate but it is always resolved right away.

This happens because love is the most powerful force in the universe, and love conquers all, even intense clashes between two people in a soulmate relationship.

The fact that soulmates always make up quickly after a fight is just a testament to the strength of their relationship.

Strong relationships involve fighting; it’s normal and human.

The key to a healthy soulmate relationship is that you quickly make up and enjoy a friendly connection once again.

15) There’s no doubt you’re meant to be

When you meet your soulmate, you’ll know it instantly.

Sometimes they will come into your life while it’s in a state of chaos, and the two of you will create a new world together that is full of love and passion.

Soulmates understand each other on a deep level and can sense what their partner is feeling without having to say anything because they share similar views on life.

Soulmates are similar on every level, which can create some tension as well because there are no differences between them as far as beliefs go, which can make for dull conversations if both partners have the same mindset.

Soulmate relationships tend to be completely one-sided because one person can understand their partner better than they can themselves.

This intense connection is what makes soulmates feel complete.

Confirm they’re your soulmate

How can you know for sure you’ve met your soulmate?

The truth is:

We can waste a lot of time and emotions with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with. Finding your soulmate is no easy task.

That’s why I suggest you start with one of these methods, to quickly learn if your new guy could be your soulmate.

1) Strengthen your feelings and emotions

If they make you feel totally peaceful and comfortable, that’s a good sign.

You’ll know it… trust me!

2) Demand a sign from the Universe … of course!

And then you must wait for it… believe that you deserve it!!

3) Ask a professional psychic artist to draw you a picture of your soulmate

This may sound kinda fun and exciting.

But it’s also serious business!

The artist will draw a picture of your soulmate, based on your descriptions.

The more details you give them, the better the result will be. They will predict how you match and how you are compatible with each other.

Can you believe I wasn’t so sure before trying this. But after I received the sketch, I recognized him straight away.

If you’re ready to find out what your soulmate looks like, get your own sketch drawn here.


Finding your soulmate is a wonderful, intense journey that ultimately brings you deep happiness.

When you’re united with someone who makes you feel like the most perfect person in the world, who can bring out your best qualities and love you so unconditionally, what else would you want?

A soulmate relationship can be an intense one but the more that it’s intense, the deeper and more meaningful it becomes.

Soulmates are those special people that all couples encounter at some point in their lives when they find themselves “meeting” just like they do in a fairytale.

I hope that each of you finds your soulmate and enjoys a lasting, meaningful relationship.

Tiffany Mcgee

Tiffany Mcgee

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