Breaking up is hard, and it’s even worse when you’re sure that you’re definitely meant to be together.
That’s why I’ve put together this list of 11 psychic signs he wants you back (even if he hasn’t told you yet).
If you have a guy who meant the world to you and he’s now gone, don’t lose hope:
This guide is here to help you detect the deeper signs he wants you back.
1) You contact him right when he was about to contact you
I’m sure we’ve all had this happen, but it’s especially important when it happens with an ex.
This is a psychic sign that he wants you back, not mere coincidence — particularly if it happens multiple times. After all, what are the chances?
They’re super low, but any mathematicians among us can feel free to calculate…
It’s happened to me in friendships or even just casual acquaintances I had a strong urge to contact at a certain time. And there was always a reason for it: a crisis, an unexplored potential to reconnect, a job opportunity, or some other factor.
But when it’s happened with an ex it’s even more powerful: because it’s a sign from the universe that you’re on the same wavelength and that your love connection is still going strong.
2) A real psychic confirms he is ‘the one’
The signs above and below in this article will give you a good idea if he wants you back.
Even so, speaking to a real psychic will give you more clarity.
But how can you find a psychic you trust? In this day and age, it’s so important to stay away from fake ones.
I recently tried Psychic Source after going through a bad break up. They provided me with a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I was meant to be with.
I was actually blown away by how caring, compassionate and knowledgeable they were.
Not only will a genuine psychic tell you where things stand with your ex, but they can also reveal all your love possibilities.
3) You see him in your dreams
Dreams can be a powerful portal to the spiritual dimension.
Ancient cultures, shamanic traditions, and many religions believe that dreams can include important revelations, messages, and warnings.
If you see your ex in your dreams it is one of the clearest psychic signs he wants you back (even if he hasn’t told you yet). One reason is that you have a deep spiritual connection with your ex – and this somehow remains even if you’re not together anymore.
If it happens once maybe you can brush it off, but when he keeps appearing then you should take note that his soul is reaching out to you.
Pay particular attention to what’s happening in the dream. For in most cases, your dreams are telling you something – and there are spiritual reasons why you keep dreaming about your ex.
Is it a sad dream where you plunge off a cliff in a car together?
Is it a beautiful scene on the beach where you lock in a passionate kiss?
Is it confusing and full of weird symbols, nonsense conversations and bizarre monsters, clowns and objects?
These aspects reflect his state of mind and soul. They are him telegraphing you his emotions and desires to be back together, as well as fear that it might not happen.
4) You feel it on your body
A clear psychic sign he wants you back and is thinking of you can happen on your actual body.
Growing up, my mom would say that spirits, angels and even the souls of dead loved ones show their presence by making your scalp or skin tingle.
But this is also the case in a slightly different way with an ex who wants you back.
You may feel your skin or face tingling and burning, sort of like after you get slapped and feel the sting. This will often be accompanied by blushing and a red face as well as an itchy or twitching eye. Why?
Honestly, my understanding is that it is the charged romantic and sexual energy from your ex making itself felt on your body and face.
5) A butterfly or ladybug lands on you
Both of these incredible creatures are considered to herald the coming or return of love and they also have many other fortunate meanings.
Butterflies are mainly symbols of change and spiritual energy. They are believed by many cultures to ferry energy from one individual to another, which can often be your ex sending you his love without saying it.
In particular, if you have a rare blue butterfly come close to you or land on you it can mean that your love is thinking of you and your partnership is destined to come back together in the near future and that you can calm your heart and mind over anxiety about it.
As for ladybugs, these fascinating winged bugs are sacred in many cultures from ancient Nordic to Indian and Native American. They herald coming good fortune, love, and transformation.
The relationship which you thought was dead may have life still in it after all.
And don’t forget to make a wish on a ladybug when it lands on you and flies away so that it can take it up to the heavens and make it come true, as the ancient Celts believed.
6) Your emotions mirror each other
When your ex wants you back he won’t just often reach out at the same time as you.
You’ll also find that whenever you get in touch or check up on him he’s in the same mood or “space” as you.
An example would be that you log on to read his latest status update on social media and can’t believe your eyes. Every word he is writing perfectly encapsulates your experience that day and what’s on your heart and soul at the moment.
It’s like he read your mind and heart and then transcribed its deepest emotions. This is because you are still deeply linked in the psychic realm and he wants to be back together with his other half just like you do.
As spiritual coach Aliki Hoidas says:
“You could be in one country and he or she could be in another country. It is not affected by distance. It comes from within you and within them…This energy flows both ways, it doesn’t just go one way.”
7) You’re sneezing up a storm
Another big sign he wants you back and is thinking of you is when you are inexplicably sneezing a lot.
This is an especially widespread belief in various Asian cultures who consider sneezing often and for no apparent reason to be a sign that someone special is thinking about you at that moment.
Obviously, if you’re ill, have allergies acting up, or are in a dusty place then this sign can be ignored.
But if you’re turning into a sneezing superstar for no visible reason and have been missing your ex, it can be a clear sign that he’s thinking about you too and wants to get back together.
More than three is a sign that your ex may be sexually fantasizing about you or deeply in love with you and want you back.
Whoever thought that sneezing could be your ticket back into love, right?
If you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.
Stop wracking your brain trying to figure out this phenomenon on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.
8) Your connection never died
This is a classic sign that he wants you back even if he hasn’t told you.
Even one short message or interaction proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that the spark is still there.
In some cases, your ex may be working through his own stuff or unsure what he feels as well. But when the connection sparks back up like nothing ever changed you can be certain that he feels it, too.
You can go without interacting for months but as soon as you touch base even briefly the old connection is back with a vengeance.
It’s rare to find a partner in this world who you truly connect with and feel at home around. And you can bet that your ex also values such a rare connection.
So even if he doesn’t say it or you rarely speak, when that connection flares back up you can be certain that your ex wants to be back with you too – but is holding back.
9) You can’t stop thinking about him
One of the top psychic signs he wants you back is when you can’t stop thinking about him.
I know it sounds backward, but here’s the deal:
Sometimes you can’t stop thinking about him because he also can’t stop thinking about you. His psychic and emotional energy is creating waves of attention and focused attraction that are pulling your mind toward him.
In other words, the connection that’s happening is not just in your head, it’s also in his.
When he wants you back this creates a powerful reservoir of psychic intention that generates out into the cosmos. You are the object of his desire and attention, and as such, you pick up his energy waves like a radio tower, absorbing them into your heart and soul.
You then think and feel deeply about him. But it started with him because he wants you back.
10) You hear a song or see something that seems to come straight from him
Has anybody else here seen the 2018 film Under the Silver Lake? It is extremely bizarre, but suffice to say that it’s about a slacker who gets wrapped up in a cosmic murder mystery and ends up finding a sort of New World Order meets sex cult.
I don’t want to include any spoilers, but one of the main things I picked up from it was sort of a tension between being completely insane or actually finding out secret codes.
The main character Sam (played by Andrew Garfield) starts finding the most incredibly complex and random codes in everything from old cereal box prizes to random graffiti – and it’s all meant for him.
Before you go too far down a similar path in interpreting “signs” from your ex and become committed to an asylum, hear me out…
There are times that your ex sends you signals unconsciously through songs, words, and experiences.
You turn on the radio and it’s “your song.”
You pick up a book and know that it is basically about your relationship and what went wrong and what you needed to learn from it.
You see a random billboard and the words or images on it speak directly to you as your ex sent them directly to your inbox…
And when you see these 3 signs that your ex will come back, you can decide what to do about it.
11) You have thoughts and emotions ‘beamed’ into you
Have you ever had the strong sense someone is talking about you or thinking about you?
It’s not always in your imagination.
And one of the top psychic signs he wants you back is that you have emotions or thoughts basically “beamed” into your head that you feel sure coming from him.
The author Viktor Frankl talks about this in his book Man’s Search for Meaning how he felt his dead wife’s presence speak to and reassure him during brutal times in concentration camps.
Even though he mainly discounted religion, Frankl felt there was a supernatural or numinous part of life that ultimately gives it hope and connects all of us, making love far more than just a feeling and more of a connective reality.
One of the main psychic signs your ex wants you back can be in a similar way:
You’re having a terrible day at work, breaking down crying, or depressed over the future and you suddenly have a thought or strong emotion that lifts you up like a lifesaver in the stormy waves.
You suddenly just feel massively better and have no idea why. Then your ex’s face comes to mind and you just know it was somehow him helping you.
And when you decide to get back together, consider these spiritual ways on how you can get back with your ex for good.
Does he want you back or not?
Ultimately it’s going to take reaching out and rebuilding those bridges for you to know whether your past relationship can be revived.
But if you’re noticing many of the above signs then you can feel confident that your ex wants you back and the universe is conveying his desire to you in various ways.
And you can’t deny the soulful connection you share with your ex.
We’re all connected in the web of life, and even though it’s easy to dismiss psychic phenomena as fanciful or just in our imagination, the truth is that there is just so much we still don’t know.
Quantum mechanics and other scientific fields are starting to reveal this, and concepts like morphological resonance are starting to show just how much more connected we are than we may at first realize.
One amazing place to start on the ways in which we’re connected is the 2003 book The Field: The Quest for the Secret Force of the Universe by Lynne McTaggart.
As McTaggart notes:
“Quantum physics findings show that consciousness itself created order – or indeed in some way created the world – this suggested much more capacity in the human being than was currently understood. It also suggested some revolutionary notions about humans in relation to their world and the relation between all living things. What they were asking was how far our bodies extended.
Did they end with what we always thought of as our own isolated persona, or ‘extend out’ so that the demarcation between us and our world was less clear-cut? Did living consciousness possess some quantum field-like properties, enabling it to extend its influence out into the world?.”
We can also reference the wise words of the author Jason Michael Ratliff who wrote:
“It is your telepathic ability when a person crosses your mind at any point of the day. They came to mind for a reason. They may be attempting to reach out to you. We are all connected by a universal web of consciousness. Through a thread a message makes its way to the mind.
One pluck of a string on the web and it sends a telegram through a single sensitive nerve that receives the message and transports it through the brain or heart depending upon the nature of the message and in which it resonates. We’re all part of the same web.”
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