10 ways to respond to Pisces man’s disappearing act

When you first meet a Pisces man, there’s bound to be sparks flying. He’s sweet, thoughtful and attentive — everything you could possibly want in a partner!

The problem is that he’s also prone to disappearing acts from time to time.

Today, we’ll take a look at how you can best respond to a Pisces man’s disappearing act!

1) Don’t assume the worst

A Pisces man disappearing isn’t always a sign that he’s cheating on you or over you.

He’s a deeply sensitive soul who needs time and space to process his feelings from time to time.

The Pisces man is someone who struggles with feelings of guilt and shame.

Give him the benefit of the doubt and don’t assume the worst about his reasons for disappearing.

When you assume the worst, you are bound to react in ways that will make things worse.

Instead, assume the best case scenario.

Trust me, more often than not, there is no terrible reason behind a Pisces man‘s disappearing act, and the reason is likely far from what you might assume.

2) Give him space

If a Pisces man disappears, don’t get too clingy and smothering.

Give him space and freedom to be himself and do his own thing.

If he disappears, he may need some time to process his feelings and work through them.

Suggest a date when you two can reconnect.

If he disappears but doesn’t seem to be coming back anytime soon, you’ll need to step up and let him have his space.

You see, if he disappears, he most likely needs some space, right?

Now, the worst possible thing when someone needs space is to get super clingy and give them even less space.

This will only drive him away, trust me.

Instead, give him space and try to focus on yourself in the meantime.

If the comes back, great, if not, you dodged a bullet!

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3) Set boundaries

If you’re in a relationship with a Pisces man and he keeps disappearing, you’ll need to set boundaries.

Let him know that you won’t tolerate this behavior.

If he disappears and doesn’t come back, you may need to initiate the breakup.

Pisces men are sensitive, so you’ll want to be gentle and kind, but also firm and decisive.

If he disappears and comes back, you’ll need to set boundaries.

Tell him that you won’t tolerate him disappearing again and that next time, you’ll break up with him if he does it again.

You see, even though it’s okay on his part to need some time and space, at a certain point, he also needs to take your feelings into consideration.

It is perfectly normal for you to feel like you don’t want him disappearing, so be firm about this boundary and be willing to leave in case he does it again.

4) Let him know how you feel

If you’re in a relationship with a Pisces man and you’re feeling neglected, let him know how you feel.

Your Pisces man is a very sensitive and empathetic man.

He doesn’t want to hurt you, but he may not even realize he’s doing it. Let him know how his disappearing act is making you feel.

You see, if he is ignoring you or you can’t talk to him at all, then that’s maybe a sign that he’s not the one for you, but in case you are talking to him, let him know that his disappearing act is incredibly confusing and you won’t tolerate it any longer.

5) Understand why Pisces men disappear

When Pisces men disappear, it’s not always because they want to hurt you.

Sometimes, they do it because they’re hurting and don’t know how to deal with it.

Pisces men are known to be sensitive and empathetic.

They often feel what other people are feeling and take it on as their own emotions.

They may disappear because they think that you’re mad at them or upset with them.

They may want to run away because they feel like they’re not good enough for you. You may want to try asking them what they’re feeling when they disappear.

You see, when you know why a Pisces man disappeared, it’s a lot easier to work through things and to make sure he won’t disappear again.

Knowing the reasons will put you both at ease, so if you get a chance, have a conversation about it.

6) Communicate your needs

Communicate your needs to your Pisces man when he disappears.

Let him know what you need from him and how he can better support you and your relationship.

When Pisces men feel like they’re being smothered or suffocated, they’ll try to get away.

They need their own space and time to be themselves.

You should be able to share your feelings and needs with your partner, but you shouldn’t try to force them to meet those needs.

Show your Pisces man that you want to be with him, not that you need to be with him.

Now: if you feel neglected by him disappearing on you, what you can do is leave.

I know, it’s not what you want to hear, but if your needs are not being met in this relationship, it might be for the best.

7) Be clear about what you want

Be clear about what you want from your Pisces man when he disappears.

Let him know that there’s no reason for him to disappear, and let him know how you’d like him to support you and be there for you.

Pisces men love being needed, so let him know that you need him. Let him know that you want him to stick around and be present in the relationship.

If he can’t do that, then you might just not be as compatible as you thought you were, and I’m sorry, that’s not a fun conclusion to have.

But your happiness is more important than being in a relationship.

8) Show him there’s no reason to disappear

If you’re dating a Pisces man, you can show him there’s no reason for him to disappear by not giving him any reason to disappear.

Don’t nag him or push him to commit earlier than he’s ready to.

Instead, show him that you can be his support by not needing too much from him as well.

Let him know that you want to be with him and don’t want to lose him.

If you’re dating a Pisces man, you may need to work harder to keep him around.

Pisces men are known to be flighty, and they tend to only stick around when they feel wanted.

However, if you need to succumb to his needs and get nothing in return, I think you might be better off leaving him.

9) Don’t feed the drama monster

If you’re dating a Pisces man, you need to avoid feeding the drama monster.

Pisces men are known for having an over-the-top dramatic streak.

They love things like love triangles, love stories, and melodramas, and they also love to create drama in their own relationships.

Make sure you don’t feed the drama monster.

If your Pisces man tries to stir up drama, you need to step away from the situation.

Pisces men thrive on drama and creating chaos and confusion in their relationships.

You should avoid giving them any reason or opportunity to start drama with you.

By removing yourself from the situation, a Pisces man has no option to start drama.

10) Show him you care

If you’re dating a Pisces man, you need to show him that you care.

Pisces men are known for being extremely sensitive, and they need their partners to be gentle and caring.

Let your Pisces man know how much you care about him.

Reassure him that you want to be in the relationship with him and that you don’t want to lose him.

If you show your Pisces man that you care, he’ll be much less likely to disappear on you.

What now?

When Pisces men disappear, it can be really difficult to understand why.

They’re sensitive souls and need their own space, but when they take it too far, it can be really hurtful to their partners.

When a Pisces man disappears, you’ll need to be patient and understanding. Let him know that you care and want to be with him, but don’t try to push him too hard.

However, if you have to deal with a man who keeps disappearing, you might be better off finding someone else, to be honest!

Anna Scheucher

Anna Scheucher

Freelance writer specializing in holistic health, wellness, and psychology. Check out my blog to find out more https://www.fullyholistic.com/!

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