When you’re in love, there’s nothing you can do other than fantasise about being together.
You keep trying to figure out whether the feeling is mutual.
You wonder if there’s the slightest possibility of a romantic future with the one that stole your heart.
The ultimate list of mystic tell-tale signs that he’s falling in love
Do you get mixed signals from that one guy you’ve always had a soft spot for? Do you experience a surge of emotions flowing through you in waves so strong that you can’t even begin to understand what he might be thinking?
You want to fall for him in a way that consumes your entire soul, but you also need to make sure he catches you when you do.
And this is exactly why you’re here, searching for a sign that will tell you whether he is truly falling in love with you.
But don’t worry, we have not just 1, but 29 different signs that will help you figure it all out!
1) He smiles when around you
Oftentimes, a smile marks the beginning of a love story.
Having someone who makes you smile is a blessing and men never fail to express this.
Whenever he smiles around you, it means that he’s probably thankful to have you around and genuinely enjoys spending time with you.
You may have noticed that men typically don’t smile as much as women do. In fact, according to some recent research the average man smiles only 8 times, while the average woman smiles 62 times per day.
Therefore, when a man smiles excessively, especially around a woman, it often means that he’s developing feelings for her.
2) He makes eye-contact
Eye contact is way more intimate than words can ever be.
Numerous studies have proven that eye contact that lasts for at least 4 seconds is enough to stir feelings of affection.
And when your crush looks into your eyes, he’s expecting to discover a deeper meaning to the relationship you currently have and express his affection towards you.
So, if you sense him staring at you when you’re not looking, just know that it’s his way of subconsciously expressing a strong attraction.
3) He cares about your feelings
If he readily settles down to listen about something that upsets you, his love for you is pure and intimate.
Being considerate about your feelings is a transformation he unknowingly goes through when he begins to fall for you.
Instead of being ignorant about your feelings, a man who is falling for you would quickly notice emotional changes, especially when you’re upset.
So, if he genuinely gives you space to get your feelings across and avoids sensitive topics that make you uncomfortable, he’s here to stay!
4) He always pays attention to you
A man in love will never miss an opportunity to show that he’s all ears in front of the woman he adores.
In a world of busy schedules and responsibilities, isn’t the idea of a man paying attention to you and your needs truly a delight?
In fact, a man who has a soft spot in his heart for you will always want to make sure that you are heard and cherished. If you speak to him about something you’re hoping to do soon, he’ll likely follow up afterwards to see how things went.
5) His physical advancements don’t feel purely sexual
Do you catch him stroking your back, holding your hand, sliding his arm around your waist, or caressing your cheeks? If so, there’s a noticeable chance that he’s in love.
In spirituality, non-sexual physical intimacy is a display of adoration and is a heart-warming gesture.
It’s a sign that his soul wants to connect with yours. In fact, it means that your crush wants to strengthen the bond he has with you instead of merely forming temporary attachments with your body.
6) He builds you up
If he’s truly falling for you, he wouldn’t ever miss the chance to drop in a few compliments from time to time. He might notice your hair or even comment on how well dressed you showed up.
Men often dislike hearing criticism against the woman they love. So, if he gets annoyed whenever you make a critical comment about yourself, he’s subconsciously trying to make you see your true worth.
If you feel as if you’re admired constantly with the way he smiles and observes you, chances are he’s falling really hard for you. And if you’re lucky enough, you can expect a confession soon!
7) You become his no. 1 priority
How many people or responsibilities does he place above you?
Does he stick by your side when you’re sick, even though he had plans to go play video games with his pals?
Does he respond immediately when you let him know you are feeling anxious?
Does he go all the way to get your favourite meal?
It is understandable and obvious that he can’t put everything above you yet. But if you’re his number one priority you’re likely to feel it.
Becoming someone’s priority takes time, but once you’re there, your relationship is going to blossom soon!
8) He cherishes your quirks
Most of us are considerate about the way we express ourselves to others, but first impressions don’t really last that long, do they?
People eventually find out the way you chew your food or the way you make funny faces when you’re annoyed, and some may have even joked about it.
But if this special guy laughs with you when you do something weird, or even better, joins in the fun, he’s a keeper.
In other words, he finds your unique vibe likeable, and probably even believes that your weird traits are something he would love to have around for the rest of this life.
So, when your crush takes interest in the things that make you unique, it might mean he truly cherishes your aura and personality!
9) He randomly checks on you
My ladies, this is a huge green flag.
Whenever he texts you out of the blue, it just shows that he’s been thinking of you, even when you’re not physically around. It means a strong and romantic spiritual bond is forming between you.
Simple day to day questions like “How are you doing?” and “Have you eaten?”, are all positive signs that he treasures your current relationship, but likely desires a deeper connection.
“I understand once again that the greatness of God always reveals itself in the simple things.”
– Paulo Coelho
10) He is invested in your personal development
Couples who grow together, stay together.
If a man helps you discover ways that can uplift your emotional wellbeing, it’s a sure-fire sign that he’s falling in love with you. Perhaps he is keen on making you a permanent part of his life.
He may come up to you with new ideas on self-development routines or habits that’ll spiritually enhance you. If your special person is smitten, he might even join you in these activities.
11) There’s no room for dishonesty
The truth can sometimes feel like a heavy burden to carry.
But if your special person is falling for you, he’ll want to assure you that he can be trusted by always staying truthful with you.
Chances are he already feels extremely comfortable around you and considers you his safe haven. Therefore, even if it’s a hard truth, he won’t think twice before confessing.
Likewise, whenever you share a piece of truth that might’ve been hard to express, his tendency to remain calm and reassuring is a huge plus.
“Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don’t expect it from cheap people.”
– Warren Buffett
12) His future and life plans include you
Telling you his plans is one thing but making you a part of them is on a whole other level.
Does he talk about travelling around the world with you? Does he talk about marriage, having kids or even what it would be like to live together?
If he has ever done this, I bet you must’ve blushed wildly with your heart skipping multiple beats!
Well then, you might want to be prepared to make it official before you plan the rest of your future together!
13) He does things you love, even if they clash with his interests
People in love always go the extra mile, even if it means they don’t enjoy certain things as much.
If binge watching a TV series all night makes you happy, he’ll likely splash some cold water on his face, just to stay awake with you.
Does he agree to put on face masks together, despite being slightly annoyed?
Does he come shopping with you even though he’s not that great at picking clothes?
If you haven’t paid much attention to this major sign before, it’s time. Try to recall all the moments you’ve spent together and look for hints.
14) He introduces you to the special people in his life
If he’s falling in love with you, then he’ll want you to meet his friends, colleagues, and family. And although you might not know it yet, he may have already confessed his feelings to those people!
So, in times when you meet up with his community, lookout for the spark in his eyes or how at ease he is. This is a positive sign that he’s content and feels that you’ll get along with the people dearest to him.
Furthermore, if he brings you home to meet and spend time with his family or have dinner, you’re way more ahead in this game than you might want to admit!
15) He seeks your advice
Most men are taught from a very young age to always stay strong and to find ways to succeed. Ergo, a man’s biggest fear is failure.
But if he comes to you for advice, this means that he’s willing to be vulnerable in front of you and values your opinion.
Whether it’s a simple issue like a misunderstanding with an old friend or a big life decision like a career change, a man in love will respect your wisdom.
So, if he constantly seeks your advice, he might also want to know how compatible your instincts are with his.
16) He shares secrets and intimate details
If he talks to you about sensitive topics like childhood traumas, phobias, or even dark secrets he’s never told anyone, there’s no doubt he’s really falling for you.
It’s typical that men won’t share details from their personal lives unless they’re in love and feel the need to communicate openly with their partner.
And if he does that by being authentic and letting you see the experiences that moulded him into the person he is now, it’s because he loves you.
Most importantly, he willingly gives you power by sharing any key details that nobody else might know about.
17) He loves being adventures with you
Shared adventures help you identify the other person’s joys, fears, strengths and weaknesses.
The instinct to be adventurous is mostly based on trust. And if he’s falling in love with you, he’ll want to do things that’ll fuel the faith you have for each other.
Does he come up to you with a new hobby every week? Has he suggested wanting to go on a hike with you or maybe trying rock climbing together?
If he has, it’s probably because he wants to spend more time with you in unexplored situations. This way he can understand your emotions and reactions to certain situations whilst getting to know you better.
18) He only has eyes for you
If you notice this mystic sign, there’s no doubt he’s falling head over heels for you.
When you walk in a crowd full of people, you might notice his eyes are on you.
He could be talking to anyone, but he chooses to stick around you, laughing or making remarks about things he believes will make you laugh too.
Sounds familiar? Well then, the good news is you’re already halfway there!
When a guy is truly falling in love with you, all your flaws will be admired and you’re going to be everything he’s ever wanted.
19) He’s overprotective
Protectiveness shouldn’t be mistaken for possessiveness.
When a man feels protective of you, he’s always going to look out for your safety. It could be to cushion you from certain situations or even from other people.
The responsibility he holds upon himself for your well-being urges him to have a strong desire to keep you safe. Does he hold your hand when you cross the street together?
If he does things like this for you, there’s a good chance that he’s enamoured!
20) He makes time for you
Time: one of the most prominent love languages.
In a competitive world where time is often equalised with wealth, it is also the only true currency showing how much somebody cares for you.
Although giving you time may seem like the bare minimum a man could do, it is still the only thing you can’t acquire more of. It doesn’t matter whether you talk endlessly or just hangout in silence eating left-over food.
Each of us has a limited amount of minutes in these earthly bodies, so it is the purest thing we can share with others to show our love.
“One day spent with someone you love can change everything.”
– Mitch Albom
21) He goes out of his way to accommodate you
Instead of being with you only once he’s through with all his chores, he’ll likely go beyond that if he is falling in love with you.
For instance, he could have an awfully busy day and still manage to text you in between his working hours whenever he gets a break.
Apart from that, he will often show some extra effort to do things that make you happy. This could be anything from picking up your favourite dessert from an out-of-town bakery or rescheduling his plans to attend a late-night event with you.
Him wanting to make sure that all your needs are tended to, is a crystal-clear sign of love. And if he’s the type that does silly things just to make you laugh, you are one lucky woman!
22) He kisses you on the forehead
A kiss on the forehead is perhaps the sincerest form of love. In a world where people are overly focused on sexual pleasures, a kiss on the forehead conveys affection and care.
It’s a definite sign that’ll reveal that he truly has feelings for you, and that he isn’t here just for lust and childish games.
Psychologically speaking the urge to kiss someone on the forehead is often related with adoration. It is also a strong confirmation that the love that one has for the other person is pure and free of ulterior motives.
This could possibly be the mystic sign you are looking for that proves that he is most likely here to stay.
“The real lover is the one who can make you feel better by kissing your forehead.”
– Unknown author
23) He isn’t afraid to display his affection in public
If a man holds hands with you, fixes your hair or strokes your cheek when you’re hanging out together in public, it means he has taken responsibility for the way he feels about you.
If he isn’t afraid to express the feelings he has for you in front of the world, this is a positive indication that he is smitten.
A man in love takes pride in having you by their side. He wants to assure you that he’s ready to show how much he values you.
And although you might not be officially dating, you can surely expect it to happen sooner than planned!
24) He makes the conversation flow
Do you feel that he always makes the conversation flow naturally?
For instance, if you’re talking about the weather and the conversation seems to come to an end, he may randomly mention your favourite artist’s new album in a way there’s not one moment you’ve spent in awkwardness.
This is mostly because he loves to get you to communicate with him. He knows that the small talk will help you strengthen your bond and he’s genuinely interested to get to know all of you.
For instance, he probably enjoys the little stories that pop up involuntarily when you converse, like the funniest or most embarrassing memories from your childhood.
And as you might know, small talk opens the gate for trust and through this you might soon realise how much you have in common with him.
Maybe he wants you to ask him, “Why aren’t we together yet?”
25) His body language is a tad clumsy
When in love, we tend to be a bit nervous and clumsy, especially when we’re around the person we have feelings for.
Although women show obvious signs of clumsiness, men are no better. He may tap his foot too fast against the floor or indicate other signs of nervousness such as a rapid heartbeat, sweating or even laughing without a particular reason.
This can indicate two extremely positive signs. One is that he carries the pressure of wanting to be likeable and is therefore anxious.
On the other hand, he may be trying hard to hide his feelings for you, but the man isn’t particularly good at it. As a result, he may sometimes display awkward behaviour instead.
If he isn’t naturally shy or clumsy, this sign is one that you should lookout for!
26) He doesn’t want to fake it
Impressions are important. But are they as important as being authentic?
You might want to read along to digest this.
As you may know, it’s not uncommon for couples to spend the first few years of their relationship acting out the best versions of themselves. Since this honeymoon phase isn’t sustainable, things usually go downhill, and people fall apart.
Knowing this, your special someone probably wants to show you his true authentic self instead of showing you versions of himself, merely to impress you.
He wants you to have a glimpse of what life with him is like in the years to come and make you fall in love for who he truly is. This is exactly why he might not be trying to impress you.
So, you shouldn’t be surprised if he shows up at your doorstep wearing a ragged shirt!
“To become conscious and aware, we must become authentic. Authenticity is the highest form of being.”
– Teal Swan
27) He’s shown interest towards your future
When in love, his future is your future and vice versa.
He might want to know about the goals you have in life. Both short-term and long-term ones.
Maybe he will ask questions about the dream country you want to travel to, the way you picture yourself in 5 years, your dream career or even the pets you’d want to have around once you settle in your first home.
And if you notice his eyes sparkle with excitement whenever you talk about something you really want to do in life, could you imagine him being more in love?
He’s probably waiting to ask where you plan to fit him in your future schemes; now wouldn’t that be a delight?
28) He loves to laugh with you
In spirituality, being in love doesn’t mean that you depend on another person for your happiness. It means that you work on being individually content and then come together to share your bliss with each other.
Laughing with each other does that. So, when your special man laughs with you at the most random things, it means he’s attracted to who you are as a person and enjoys sharing his glee with you.
“Laughter is a holy thing. It is as sacred as music and silence and solemnity, maybe more sacred. Laughter is like a prayer, like a bridge over which creatures tiptoe to meet each other.”
— Ted Loder
29) He wants to be a better person for you
After examining all the possibilities, this last mystic sign might be what you’ve been looking for – change.
We’ve all romanticised the saying, “A woman cannot change a man because she loves him. A man changes himself because he loves her”.
If there is something in him you don’t find agreeable, his love for you will encourage him to work on that. It could be something in his behaviour, a toxic habit or even the way he conceives his thoughts.
Most people have a common misconception that the audacity to influence change in a person is toxic. But all you need to know is that the change we’re talking about in this section, is purely for the general betterment and wellbeing of an individual.
For instance, if he smokes often and you’ve mentioned to him the extent to which you dislike smoking, a man in love will work his way around the matter and find a solution.
Chances are he might even tell you how he plans to get rid of his bad habit by saying things like “Hey, did you see the nicotine patches I got?”
All men can change, but that doesn’t mean all men will change. But if this sign is one that he always brings to your attention, you might just be the lucky woman he’s willing to change for!
The final advice that anyone can ever give you is that if a man truly loves you, you will always feel it. The Universe will send unexpected signals your way and constantly urge your subconscious that the love he has for you is pure and real.
If he’s truly in love with you, you won’t have any major red flags within your vision.
Your intuition will only guide you to put forward the love you have for him. And while you watch from a distance, it’ll all fall into place in due time.
So, now that we’ve reached the end of the list; does it all add up?
Do you feel any of these mystic signs strongly illuminating towards you?
If they are…
What more are you waiting for?
I say, follow your heart!