7 no bullsh*t tips if your twin flame rejected you

Have you experienced an incredibly strong romance that feels like no other?

Perhaps you’ve met your “twin flame” who is considered to be the other half of your soul. Twin flames are meant to love each other unconditionally and eternally.

So it can feel unusually devastating when your twin flame ends a relationship with you. If you are feeling heartbroken please remember that separation and rejection are all a part of the twin flame journey.

Let’s go into some important things to keep in mind when your twin flame rejects you.

Why did my twin flame reject me?

Meeting your twin flame is an intense encounter. It feels like nothing else you’ve ever experienced. The physical, sexual, and emotional connection will feel extremely strong and hard to let go of.

What makes this person different, is that your twin flame perfectly mirrors your strengths, bright love, triumphs, insecurities, and struggles.

Everything feels magnified. Everything feels amplified.

With such a deep and immediate connection, your relationship will not be smooth. There will be problems along the way.

More often than not, one flame will pull away from the relationship. You will go through ups and downs together.

Although a twin flame tends to be our romantic partner, he or she may just be a close friend or someone special who passes in and out of our life at key moments. So romance may not even be necessary for your life-long journey together.

Your twin flame is here for something more, something even deeper.

So, separating from our twin flame can feel extremely painful. The rejection will feel stronger than any other rejection you’ve had before.

Typically, your twin flame pulls away because they are not yet mature enough to handle the high degree of emotional intimacy. This may cause them to become distant and cold toward you.

Your twin might be feeling some of the following sensations:

1) You’re too focused on them and not working on yourself

Your twin flame can help to point out areas in your life that you might be ignoring. This person is meant to help you grow. When you come back to yourself, you can create a stronger sense of wholeness within.

But it can be easy to lose your sense of self in them.

If this happens, it may be too intense for them and they will pull away.

You might have to learn how to bring forth more happiness and complete unconditional love for both yourself and others before you can unite with your twin flame again. And your twin may have to do the same for a proper reunion to occur.

So, you might have to work on yourself as you have never done before, both physically and spiritually.

You will have to raise yourself to a level that you can create and attract abundance, by looking into the following before you can reunite:

  • Find your sense of purpose
  • Express your authentic voice
  • Learn to let go of your ego
  • Heal past trauma within yourself
  • Love who you are more wholeheartedly
  • Learn to love others in a healthy way

Sometimes separating from our twin flame gives us the chance to work on these aspects of our lives in more depth. Especially if these areas were ignored while our attention was focused on our twin flame.

Many years ago, I went through the end of a twin flame relationship. It was one of the most painful emotional experiences of my life.

However, the rewards were worth the pain.

The experience led me to work on myself and come to an understanding of who I am in a way I never had before.

It all started with coming across Rudá Iandê, a shaman who has helped countless people heal, find their purpose, and love themselves over his 30 years of experience.

I took his free masterclass on Love and Intimacy, and it was transformative, to say the least.

By trying out his empowering teachings and practices, I was able to start completely shifting my relationship with myself, becoming a more authentic and happier version of myself.

I found love again. This time, I was prepared to be a better partner, because I had learned how to be the best partner to myself first and foremost.

So don’t despair if your twin flame has rejected you. See it as an invitation to level up, and become your fullest potential.

Start with Rudá’s incredible masterclass and you’ll cultivate the tools to never find yourself in a codependent situation again.

2) A deep fear and strong anxiety

The twin flame bond can trigger a great deal of anxiety. He or she might worry about a future with you and not know how that will look. Your twin flame may be afraid of the unknown.

Your flame may not have been ready to meet you at this point in their life and are completely confused with how to proceed. This feeling can activate difficult bonding behaviors, such as:

Your twin flame may not be emotionally mature enough to handle the strong level of intensity quite yet. So, he or she might avoid you and your bond.

Inhibited with worry, your twin flame might hope that the strong feelings for you will simply go away if you go away. They may not know the benefit of getting to know you more and staying in the relationship. Especially in the unique nature of your special relationship.

3) Feeling completely overwhelmed

“He’s more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”

–  Emily Brontë, Wuthering Heights

In any romantic relationship, when we let someone in close, our fears and dark sides easily get stirred up. Each twin flame calls each other to look even more deeply inside their unattractive behaviors and destructive patterns more than they have ever had before.

Twin flames expose each other’s raw pain, personal fears, and strong insecurities.

The intense feelings of your bond may also put your twin flame in a state of emotional overwhelm. He or she might be flooded with so many new and strong sensations. Your twin flame might need time and space to get themselves under control and handle all of their emotions better.

As these realizations start to surface, a need for change becomes clear. However, your twin flame might not want to do the work to transform:

  • They might not like or fear seeing any darkness or negative traits rising in themselves
  • They may feel helpless and not know how to start to work on it
  • They might feel intimidated and simply refuse to do anything about it
  • They might remember when the hurt of past traumas and not want to revisit that space again

If your twin flame cools things down but doesn’t do any reflective work necessary for a change of heart, all of those overwhelming feelings will come right back to the surface when you reconnect again.

How to move on when your twin flame rejects you

When you are rejected by your twin flame, it is important to keep few things in mind:

1) Reset your mindset

Although it feels painful, stay calm. This won’t be the end of your world. Turn to your gifts of tolerance and understanding, and seek new ways to nourish your spirit.

When you and your twin flame separate, you both have an opportunity to go through a wonderful transformation. It’s a wonderful opportunity for growth.

Your twin flame is here to help you understand how to love yourself and others unconditionally, and accept and express your most vulnerable and authentic self.

This doesn’t mean they have to be by your side to help you. And sometimes the actual rejection helps you to see some very deep-rooted pain and suffering that you still hold onto deep within.

This change can help you both to open up to love and each other more in the long run.

2) Don’t take it too personally

With any rejection, try not to take it personally. Even if you both acknowledge your connection and feel a deep sense of security and completeness, there are waves of other strong emotions on top.

With the immense emotions a twin flame encounters, the relationship can feel very euphoric and difficult at the same time. It can be very challenging for someone to handle strong surges of anxiety, extreme elation, or drops into depression. These feelings are very complicated.

Being rejected by your twin flame has nothing to do with you as a person. It means your interactions are too strong and new and are not serving each other fully.

Your twin just needs to get to know and understand the experience better. Their rejection has more to do with the need to think clearly, and breathe easily, and find a better vantage point.

3) Ask for a real psychic’s help

The tips above and below will give you a good idea of what to do if your twin flame rejected you.

But a surefire way to know for sure is to speak with a real love advisor.

However, I know how important it is to stay away from fake “experts”.

That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. They provided me a unique insight into where my life should go, including who I was meant to be with.

Having tried several online psychics, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate, and knowledgeable psychic network out there.

Not only will a genuine advisor tell you what to do in this situation, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.

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4) Understand they have their own life

Your twin flame might reject you because of their circumstances. Perhaps the timing is not aligned. It might be unusually complicated for you both to open up into a strong romantic relationship or friendship at this moment:

  • Your twin flame could already be in a marriage or committed relationship when you cross paths.
  • He or she may have responsibilities that are out of their control and are pulled away from your relationship.
  • Or, your twin flame might have some emotional baggage that they need to release first to open up and bond more fully with you.

It might not be the perfect time for you both right now. And, if you think about it, distance could be the best way to secure your future relationship together in a better moment. You will be something that your twin flame can strive to have again.

Even if you feel sad and hurt, try to keep things light and easy. Keep your responses and interactions kind and cordial so that you keep the door open for your twin flame to return.

Your twin flame will always remember you and the intensity of your bond. When the time is right, they will be able to revisit the possibility of reconnecting with you again.

5) Realize the push and pull of relationships

“Let go or be dragged”

– Zen Proverb

It is important to remember that all relationships are fluid. They tend to have a “push and pull,” or a “chaser and runner,” dynamic to them.

At times, one person will pursue the relationship more than the other. Or one will pull back and retreat. These roles will fluctuate and change.

Ultimately, relationships need time and space to unfold and grow. If we try to control or manipulate them, we aren’t fully participating in them.

We can never control them or the other person in it. We can only control how we react and respond to what happens to us.

Try to stay calm and curious. Keep your mood light and free. Keep your heart open and honest.

If you feel fear or panic, you might worry that you’ve lost something, and act out of fear. This might make you chase after it again when the timing or situation isn’t right. And your twin flame will pick up on the feeling and want nothing to do with it.

Keep in mind, whatever we grasp onto tightly, we end up pushing further away.

So, rejection and separation can also help us learn lessons of surrender and acceptance.

6) Find your soulmate

If your twin flame rejected you, there’s nothing wrong with finding your soulmate. They can help you move on and be happy.

Want to know for certain whether you will meet your soulmate?

Let’s face it:

We can waste a lot of time and energy with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with. Finding your soulmate isn’t exactly easy.

But what if there was a way to remove all the guesswork?

I’ve just stumbled upon a way to do this…  a professional psychic artist who can draw a sketch of what your soulmate looks like.

Even though I was a bit skeptical at first, my friend convinced me to try it out a few weeks ago.

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Remember that rejection doesn’t mean the end

Twin flame relationships are very complex. It’s quite common for twin flames to dance around each other and come in and out of each other’s lives. But they never leave out of hate or spite.

I know from my own experience just how difficult, frustrating, and confusing this separation can be. You feel like you are denied a strong dose of love and intimacy.

You can’t sleep, eat, read, or concentrate on anything other than your twin flame and the pain you feel from their absence. He or she consumes your thoughts. And it’s easy to dive into a pit of emotional despair.

When you are rejected by your twin flame, it’s important to remember to stay calm in an unwavering truth: Despite any distance, the strong connection between you and your twin flame will never fade. The light between you will always burn bright.

Twin flames always turn back to one another

When you find your other half, you will want to reunite.

When you do the work and come together again, you will both be able to support your life’s mission and bring each other and one another toward greater truth and love.

When the timing is right and you are both ready, your heart will explode with love and you will experience a oneness you only dreamed possible with your twin flame. You will be better able to mirror qualities of compassion, care, and commitment for each other. And share this with the world around you.

So stay patient, do the work and keep the hope that everything in you and your twin flame wants a reunion!

In conclusion

Hopefully, the tips above will shed some light on what to do if your twin flame rejected you.

But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine, professional advisor.

And there’s one company that I always end up recommending; Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate readings, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation.

So if you’re tired of wondering what to do in this situation, get in touch with a legit love advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since.

Click here to get your own professional love reading.

Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

I know this from personal experience…

A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.

If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.

In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.

I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.

Click here to get started.

Sol Harisson

Sol Harisson

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