8 easy ways to manifest someone to think about you

There’s no doubt that the power of the Law of Attraction and manifestation is real. By harnessing your thoughts, you can create the life you want.

From bringing that new house into being to securing that long-sought-after promotion, the Law of Attraction has no boundaries. You choose the direction it takes. You choose the life you want.

Essentially, you can turn yourself into a magnet for anything you want.

For this reason, it means you can also manifest someone specific to think about you.

Manifesting is an eye-opening and liberating experience. It’s not as simple as asking for it and hoping the universe listens and responds.

Here’s what you need to know when it comes to manifesting the things you want in life, and the steps you can take to manifest someone to think about you.

Can a gifted advisor help you?

But first, while this article will reach you how to manifest someone to think about you, have you considered speaking to a gifted advisor about this person?

The problem is finding someone you can trust. There’s an abundance of fake “experts” out there, but very few genuine advisors who can offer practical life advice.

That’s why I recommend Psychic Source. They provided me with a unique insight into where my life should go, including who I was meant to be with.

Having tried several online advisors, I think they’re the most caring, compassionate and genuinely helpful network of gifted advisors out there.

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Not only will a genuine advisor tell you what your future holds with this person, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.

The don’ts of manifesting

Manifesting someone to think about isn’t going to happen overnight. The same goes for manifesting anything in your life.

You need to adopt patience and perseverance to work for what you want. Before you get started, here are some of the don’ts you need to get out of your system to give yourself the best shot at getting what you really want:

1) Don’t: be vague about what you want

If you’re feeling frustrated with the steps above and aren’t getting anywhere when it comes to manifesting this person to think about you, then it’s time to take pause.

You need to actually ask yourself whether this is what you really want.

Perhaps in the moment, it seemed like what you wanted. Whether you’re jealous that your ex has a new girl on the scene or jealous of your girlfriend’s new partner who you have eyes for. If you’re driven by emotions in the moment, then it’s unlikely to be a reflection of your true desires.

Your heart won’t be in it, which will make it hard for you to communicate with the universe.

Wanting someone to manifest you because you’re jealous or acting on a whim is too vague. You need to be specific about what you want and why you want it.

It’s time to sit down in a quiet space, clear your mind and actually consider whether this is truly what you want before you go any further.

2) Don’t: expect it to happen overnight

Manifesting someone to think about you, often comes with a sense of urgency. You want it to happen sooner rather than later, to feel that connection between the two of you grow.

To give your relationship a shot.

Manifesting is so much more than just closing your eyes and asking the universe for what you want. It takes time and work.

You need to tune into your energy and align with the universe. This means clearing your mind and really focusing on your intention to help achieve your goal.

If your energy is off balance for any reason, you’ll be subconsciously pushing your desire further and further away.

You need to be able to trust the universe and trust yourself as well.

Stay the course and good things will come your way.

3) Don’t: force it to happen

When you’re waiting for something to manifest, it can be overly tempting to help prod it along. It’s important to remember that you’re on a spiritual path and you need to give it time to work.

While it might be tempting to go ahead and message the person you want to think about you, this will interfere with what the universe has planned.

Let’s face it, most of us like to have some degree of control over our life and aren’t so keen on just sitting back and waiting for something to happen. If this is you, here’s some tips:

  • Don’t sweat the small stuff: let it go and know that these things happen for a reason.
  • Avoid asking other opinions: it can be tempting to talk it out with friends and family and seek validation before going ahead with something. Learn to trust your own intuition instead.
  • Don’t prod things: leave it be and trust the process. It means taking a step back and letting things run their course.

The universe has a far better plan for you, but you do need to step back and relinquish a degree of control to see it to fruition. While this sounds hard, the benefits are well worth it.

4) Don’t: give up

When the going gets tough…you stick it out.

If you already know your heart isn’t in it and you aren’t prepared for the long game, then manifesting someone to think about you isn’t going to happen. You’re not invested.

You have to be willing to push through when it feels like your goal is out of reach and taking too long to actually happen.

Giving up should never be an option.

If you’re feeling tempted to give up, then use it as an opportunity to reassess your goal.

Ask yourself:

  • Is this what I really want?
  • Have I been specific enough about what I want to achieve?
  • Have I done everything possible to get the outcome I want?

Your goal is specific of someone else’s actions, so you need to give it time. It doesn’t matter how much you’re thinking about them and willing them to do the same, manifesting someone to think about you takes time.

If it’s truly what you want, then reassess and keep going.

8 ways to manifest someone to think about you

1) Set a clear intention

If you want to manifest someone to think of you, then the first thing you have to do is set a clear intention.

Just wanting something and wishing it into being isn’t enough (one of those don’ts mentioned above). Instead, you want to be as specific and detailed as possible.

Focus on that one person and consider why you want them to think about you.

What are you hoping to achieve?

A mixed message never gets a clear answer.

It can help to start journaling to truly explore your what and why, so you can take yourself through your reasons behind it.

If you’re doing it for the wrong reasons, then you’re going to attract negative energy. So if you want someone to think of you out of jealously, in spite of desperation, your manifestation may not happen.

On the flip side, if your manifestation is back by good intentions this will bring positive energy into the picture and help it take place.

Once you know your who and you’re why you can set your intentions clearly.

Clear your mind and visualise this person as clearly as possible.

Now set your intention: “I want Ben to think about me”.

Your intention is clear, you know what you want, you have visualised the person you have in mind and you have put it out to the universe.


If you ever get lost on your path of manifesting, come back to this moment. Bring yourself back to this point in time and remind yourself of your specific intention.

It will help keep you on the right path during the process.

But if you want more clarity on this, I’d suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.

So instead of trying to solve all your love problems on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the answers you’re looking for.

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2) Visualise what you want

The next thing you want to do is actually visual you’re your goal actually happening.

The idea is simple: by sending out this energy and focus into the universe, it will then be returned to you in the manner you wish.

So, time to think about Ben thinking about you. Find a quiet area and clear your mind of everything else going on in your life.

Take a few deep breaths and start visualising what you want.

  • Imagine Ben going through your social media posts and thinking about what you’re doing in that moment and where you are.
  • Imagine him messaging you saying that he misses you and is thinking about you.
  • Imagine him asking your friends about you and trying to learn more about your likes and dislikes.
  • Imagine waking up the next morning to a text message from Ben.

By surrounding yourself with this positive energy, it will help you manifest it into being. This is the principle behind the Law of Attraction.

When you’re feeling upbeat, happy and joyful, you will attract these upbeat, happy and joyful experiences into your life.

Visualisation is the perfect way to make yourself feel this way.

3) Have gratitude

The next step is to recite some positive affirmations to keep you both focused on your intentions and positive about the outcome you’re wanting.

You can do this by showing gratitude for the person who is thinking about you.

Draw on the feelings you have from the visualisation step and show your gratitude for this person thinking about you. This can be done in a number of different ways:

Here are a few affirmations you can start with the get your mind working:

  • I am grateful that Ben thinks about me every day
  • My desire is for him to always have me on his mind.
  • I want to be the centre of attention in his mind.

It might feel strange to say these things out loud, or even to write them down, but it’s the first step to making them a reality.

It’s all about how you feel while practising these affirmations. If you’re feeling good about yourself, you’ll be attracting good things into your life.

4) Be patient

You want Ben to message you…yesterday.

Unfortunately, this isn’t how manifestation works. It’s all going to happen in its own time, and that might take a while.

If you haven’t even spoken to this person in a matter of years, then this manifestation is unlikely to happen overnight.

Trying to rush the process will actually only slow things down for you.

Go back and visit the first three steps over and over every day. This will keep you focused on your goal and bringing that positive energy into your life to help with the manifestation.

5) See if you can recognize them

When trying to manifest someone to think about you, it’s important to consider what type of bond you two share.

Why? Because in case this person is your soulmate, you could get in their head more easily and stay on their mind for a long time.

So how can you know that you’ve met “the one”, your true soulmate?

Let’s face it:

We often waste a lot of time and emotion on people we’re not suited for. Recognizing your soulmate isn’t always straightforward.

But what if there was a way to remove all the guesswork?

I’ve just stumbled upon a way to do this…  a professional psychic artist who can draw a sketch of what your soulmate looks like.

Even though I wasn’t sure at first, my friend convinced me to try it out a few weeks ago.

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6) Put yourself first

It can be so easy to get lost in the process and neglect to look after yourself while waiting for your manifestation to come into being.

The more you take care of yourself and have a positive outlook on life, the more positive things that will come your way through the Power of Attraction.

Remember, when you’re trying to attract good things in your life, you need to feel and be positive. You can’t achieve this if you are neglecting yourself.

Try clean eating, take up a hobby, exercise, or focus on your wellness. This will not only leave your feeling better about yourself, but it will help distract you from your manifestation, so the universe has a chance to take over. It will stop you from constantly worrying about when and how things are going to play out. This is just what you need. Here are some more ways you can raise those vibrations of yours:

  • Go for a walk in nature.
  • Listen to upbeat music.
  • Read some feel-good books.
  • Watching movies that make you laugh.
  • Take on some new challenges to test yourself.
  • Enjoy a little self-pampering and indulge yourself.
  • Spend time with those who make you happy.

Don’t give up your manifests altogether. Follow the previous steps daily, and in-between, make sure you focus on yourself and being the best version of yourself possible.

7) Trust the universe

This is where you need to give up a little of that control in your life and hand it over to the universe.

Trust that the universe is working in your favour to help manifest that special someone to think about you.

If you obsess over the outcome and are unable to distance yourself from it, you will get in the way of the universe’s plan and your manifestation may never come to fruition.

When it comes to plans, there’s no doubt that the universe’s plan trumps yours. Trust it.

We have the ability to shape our own lives, but we also have to trust the power of the universe when it comes to making it a reality.

Know that you have done everything you can, and be willing to sit back and wait for Ben to have you on his mind.

It will happen if you let it.

8) Use the Law of Attraction properly

Whether you’re trying to manifest something or not, the Law of Attraction is always at work around you. It’s important to remember this.

If you’re in a negative space in your life and allowing those negative thoughts to take over, it’s going to naturally attract more negativity into your life.

On the flip side, if you’re feeling positive with positive thoughts, good things will come your way.

This is the key to manifesting something.

Work on your mindset first and make sure you’re in a positive frame of mind and the rest will follow.

Good luck. Before you know it, you will have manifested Ben to think about you.

Final thoughts

Hopefully, the points above will shed some light on how to manifest someone to think about you.

But if there’s a part of you that still wants to know more, I recommend speaking to a genuine, professional advisor. 

And there’s one company that I always end up recommending, Psychic Source. Not only did they blow me away with their accurate readings, but they were also kind and understanding of my situation. 

So if you’re tired of wondering how to get on this person’s mind, get in touch with a legit advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and I’ve never looked back since. 

Click here to get your own professional love reading.

Can a gifted advisor help you too?

If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.

I know this from personal experience…

A few months ago, I reached out to Psychic Source when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into what my future holds, and the confidence to make the right decisions when it comes to love.

If you haven’t heard of Psychic Source before, it’s a site where gifted advisors help people through complicated and difficult life situations.

In just a few minutes you can connect with a highly intuitive psychic and get tailor-made advice for your situation.

I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my psychic was.

Click here to get started.

Felicity Frankish

Felicity Frankish

My name is Felicity (Flick) Frankish and I am mum to Cassandra, Vivienne and Elliot. After studying journalism and digital media, I naturally fell into the online world - and hasn't left since!

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