Everyone wants to be loved, but not all love relationships are healthy.
Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between a relationship that is truly worth your time, and a relationship where you’re being used by an emotionally unavailable man.
If your Taurus man has been acting distant, treating you poorly, or is unwilling to commit he might be using you.
Read on to find out if your Taurus man is using you!
1) He’s always asking for favors
If your Taurus man is always asking for favors from you without ever doing anything in return, then it’s a surefire sign that he’s using you for something.
If he asks you for a ride to work every day, or help with his taxes, then there is a chance that he is just using you for your help.
A Taurus man is known for being very generous and helpful towards others and he doesn’t ask for favors from other people, especially his partner. If he’s always asking for favors from you, then he probably isn’t being genuine.
2) He wants to borrow money
If your Taurus man is constantly asking you for money, it’s a big sign that he’s definitely using you.
If he keeps saying how he really needs it and how he’ll pay you back, but he never does, then you need to stop giving him money and walk away.
Taurus men are usually known to be extremely responsible with their finances, and they rarely borrow money from anyone, let alone their partners.
If he’s always asking you for a loan – no matter how big or small – then it’s safe to say that he’s using you.
He’ll be very charming about it and you’ll have a hard time saying no.
The bottom line is that he might be using you because he is broke, or he just wants to buy something that he can’t afford. Whatever the reason is, you should break up with him as soon as possible.
3) He’s not there for you
When you need him, your Taurus man is nowhere to be found.
Whether it’s picking you up from the dentist or walking your dog when you’re sick, you want to be with a guy who you can depend on. You want someone you can count on.
If you want him to stop using you and get serious about your relationship, there’s something you can do.
You see, for guys, it’s all about triggering their inner hero.
I learned about this from the hero instinct. Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept is about what really drives men in relationships, which is ingrained in their DNA.
And it’s something most women don’t know anything about.
Once triggered, these drivers make men into the heroes of their own lives. They feel better, love harder, and commit stronger when they find someone who knows how to trigger it.
Now, you may be wondering why it’s called “the hero instinct”? Do guys really need to feel like superheroes to commit to a woman?
Not at all. Forget about Marvel. You won’t need to play the damsel in distress or buy your man a cape.
The easiest thing to do is to check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here. He shares some easy tips to get you started, such as sending him a 12-word text that will trigger his hero instinct right away.
Because that’s the beauty of the hero instinct.
It’s only a matter of knowing the right things to say to make him realize that he wants you and only you.
4) He doesn’t introduce you to his friends
Have you met any of your Taurus man’s friends?
You’ve been going out for a while now and you’ve yet to meet anyone in his circle.
Now, you know that he has friends because he’s always hanging out with them and is constantly texting them, but he never takes you with him to meet them.
You’ve hinted that you’d like to go along and see these mysterious friends of his but he keeps finding excuses not to take you. “Next time, babe. Today’s not a good time. Josh wants to talk about something important”.
The truth is that if he doesn’t want you to meet his friends, it’s probably because he doesn’t take your relationship seriously. He could just be using you (for sex, money, or your connections), and once he’s gotten what he wanted, he’ll move on.
So if you want to know whether your Taurus man is using you or not, you need to look at whether he is willing to introduce you to his friends.
Ask yourself, is there a good reason that you haven’t met any of them yet? If the answer is no, then something is definitely up.
5) He’s reluctant to meet your friends and family
Not only does he keep you away from his friends, but he doesn’t want to meet any of yours.
If you’ve been dating someone for a while, it’s only natural that they’d want to meet your friends and family.
If your Taurus man is reluctant to meet your loved ones, it could be that he’s not interested in having a serious relationship with you. If you’re just a passing fling and he’s using you then it makes no sense to him to meet your friends and family.
He could also be afraid of being found out. He might be worried that your friends or family will see right through him, so he’ll do anything to avoid meeting them.
This is a huge sign that he’s using you.
Think about it:
There’s no way that someone who loves you would be so reluctant to meet your loved ones! If your Taurus man truly cared about you, he’d be eager to meet the people you cared about because it would mean getting closer to you.
6) He doesn’t treat you well
Taurus men value love and relationships, so if they’re interested in you, they will treat you with respect and kindness.
That means that if your Taurus man doesn’t treat you well, there’s a good chance that he’s using you.
Maybe he’s rude. Maybe he takes you for granted. Maybe he doesn’t bother to do anything to make you happy. Maybe he never pays for dinner.
Whatever it is, if he isn’t treating you well then it means that he’s not interested in a real relationship. He doesn’t care enough to bother to treat you well.
Coupled with some other signs from this article, this is a big warning sign that he’s using you, so watch out.
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8) He frequently cancels on you at the last minute
Taurus men are planners, which means they like predictability and routine.
They love having a date night planned out, a weekly coffee date with a friend, and a summer vacation to somewhere exotic. This means that they like to have a consistent and stable routine, which makes them reliable partners.
So, if your Taurus man is the opposite of what I just described, and he’s constantly canceling on you at the last minute, it’s a huge red flag.
He’ll always have some excuse like, “My car broke down,” “I got stuck at work,” or “I’m sick,” but these excuses keep happening and happening.
Even if you try to be understanding and let him off the hook, he keeps breaking plans and going back on his word. This is a big warning sign and means he’s not someone you can trust.
9) He doesn’t open up to you
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But if he doesn’t open up to you, then he’s probably using you for something.
Now, Taurus men are naturally closed off and are very private with their feelings and life stories. But, when they get to know someone and they care for them, they’ll open up to them.
If he never shares his problems with you, and never tells you about his past – if you feel like you don’t really know him – then he’s definitely using you.
10) He doesn’t ask you about your life
Not only does he keep quiet about his own life, but he doesn’t seem to be interested in yours.
Here’s the thing:
When you’re dating someone that you like, it’s only natural that you’ll be interested to find out everything you can about them. You’ll want to know what they like and what they dislike. You’ll ask about their childhoods. You’ll be interested to know how their day at work went.
If he never shows any interest in your life, it’s because he’s not interested in you. He’s obviously with you only because it gets him something.
Whatever the reason is, it definitely isn’t good, and you should ask yourself if you really want to be with someone who doesn’t care about you.
11) He doesn’t want to go on dates with you
The truth is that if your Taurus man doesn’t want to go on dates with you, it’s probably because he’s not interested in a real relationship.
His idea of a date is watching TV together and eating takeout food.
Taurus men are foodies and appreciate fine dining and romantic dinners. If he’s not taking you out for dinner, if he never wants to take you on a date, and he only wants to stay home and eat takeout food together, then he’s not giving you the romance you deserve.
He might not want to go on dates with you because he doesn’t want to commit to you. Or maybe he doesn’t think you’re worth the trouble, he can get what he wants without taking you out.
This relates back to what I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man is made to feel needed, wanted, and respected, he’s more likely to want to commit to you and take you out on real dates.
And it’s as simple as knowing the right things to say to trigger his hero instinct and make him into the man he’s always wanted to be.
All of that and more is revealed in this excellent free video by James Bauer. It’s absolutely worth checking out if you’re ready to take things to the next level with your man.
12) He asks for favors without offering anything in exchange
Asking for favors is a normal part of any healthy relationship.
You might ask your boyfriend to help you with your groceries or to repair your car, and he might ask you to help him pick out some clothes or to feed his cat.
This is perfectly normal and part of being in a relationship. However, there is a line between asking for favors and having someone do everything for you so you don’t have to lift a finger.
If he’s constantly asking favors and not offering anything in exchange, then he’s using you.
13) He’s always talking about other women, especially the ones he finds attractive
If your boyfriend is always talking about other women he’s met, he’s flirting with, or he’s interested in dating, then he’s not invested in you as a lover or a partner.
There are people in this world who can’t help but be flirtatious, but if this is a constant thing, you might have a problem on your hands. He’s interested in other women because he’s not fully committed to you.
He’s probably interested in other women because he doesn’t have the urge or the desire to be around you. This could be another sign that he’s using you.
If you’re interested in a guy who is constantly focusing on other women and not giving you his full attention, then you’re with the wrong guy.
14) He only wants to see you when he’s bored or lonely
Does your man only reach out to you when he feels bored and lonely? Does he call you up randomly at the last minute to ask if you want to go for coffee or if you want to watch a movie at his place?
Let me explain:
He’s doing this because he doesn’t want to be alone but doesn’t want to commit to a relationship with you. Instead, he wants you there to fill the void so he can have companionship and not feel bored.
This means that he’s using you to satisfy his boredom and loneliness, but he doesn’t see you as a potential romantic partner. He’s just keeping you around as a “Plan B” when he feels bored and lonely.
15) He texts you late at night
If your Taurus man is always busy during the day and only texts you late at night to come over – it’s because he’s only using you for sex.
Here’s the thing: He doesn’t want to get to know you.
He doesn’t want to go to a concert or to have dinner with you. He doesn’t even think about you – until he needs someone in his bed beside him.
So, you need to ask yourself if you’re fine with having a “physical” only relationship or if you want more.
16) He doesn’t want to make plans for the future
When you’re dating someone, you naturally want to see him or her as a potential partner to get serious with. You want to be engaged or married in the future, and you want to have kids and grow old together.
However, if your Taurus man doesn’t show any desire for the future or dedication to being with you, it could mean that he wants something else besides being in a relationship with you.
If he doesn’t care about getting married or having kids in the future with you – if he can’t even bring himself to involve you in his plans for the holidays – then he doesn’t care about being committed to you.
17) He doesn’t care about your feelings
If your Taurus man is constantly ignoring your feelings, it could be another warning sign.
For example, if your partner is always texting attractive women or flirting with other women, then it’s likely that he doesn’t respect your feelings.
He doesn’t care about how jealous he makes you feel. This is because he doesn’t want to be with you.
It means that he cares more about himself and his own desires than your feelings and wants.
The bottom line is that he’s not thinking about what will make you happy; he just wants to do whatever makes him happy at the time, regardless of how it makes you feel.
18) He asks you to introduce him to important people
Do you know someone famous, powerful, or important?
If your Taurus guy seems to be more interested in meeting that person than getting to know you, he’s likely only with you to get to them.
He’s a social climber and has more interest in getting to the person you know than being with you.
19) He doesn’t want to spend time with you on the weekends
The thing is, if he’s not putting effort into special dates with you or spending time with you on the weekends, it’s because he doesn’t see you as a potential partner.
Instead, he sees you as someone to fill the void between work and home. He’s with you until someone else comes along.
This probably means that he has no desire in being in a real relationship with you and is saving the weekends for people that mean something.
20) He has no interest in your goals and dreams
If your boyfriend doesn’t care about your dreams and goals, but he just wants to chill in front of the TV every night, he’s not the right guy for you.
If he doesn’t care about helping you achieve your dreams and goals and he doesn’t care about getting to know more about who you are as a person, he’s not in it for the right reasons.
You want a partner who will challenge you and want to help you achieve your goals. You also want a partner who wants to know more about who you are as a person and understand your core values and beliefs.
If he doesn’t care about helping you achieve your goals and dreams, it’s because he’s not interested in seeing you grow as a person and he’s only looking out for himself.
So, did you find any of the above behaviors in your Taurus man?
If you find yourself seeing some of these red flags – and no positive changes are being made – then it might be time to consider moving on.
Trust your gut instincts when it comes to deciding whether or not you should stay with him.
But if you really want to make him fall in love with you and stop using you, then there’s only one thing left to do…
Well, I mentioned the unique concept of the hero instinct earlier. It’s revolutionized the way I understand how men work in relationships.
You see, when you trigger a man’s hero instinct, all those emotional walls come down. He feels better in himself and he’ll naturally begin to associate those good feelings with you.
And it’s all down to knowing how to trigger these innate drivers that motivate men to love, commit, and protect.
So if you’re ready to take your relationship to that level, be sure to check out James Bauer’s incredible advice.
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