15 ways to get a Cancer woman to chase you (success guaranteed)

Do you have the hots for a Cancer woman?

They may seem like an intimidating person to date, but she won’t be so bad if you know how to crack her tough exterior.

Here’s how to bring her running and keep her coming back for more.

These 15 ways will make a Cancer woman fall head over heels in love with you!

1) You need to be confident, but not cocky.

A Cancer woman wants a confident man. This is one key to winning her heart.

This doesn’t mean you have to be cocky, arrogant, and full of yourself though.

Cancer women hate arrogance.  In fact, women, in general, hate arrogant men.

Be upfront in your approach, and be kind and courteous to her.

For example, if she is not wearing a name tag at an event, introduce yourself and ask if she would like one.

This action shows confidence without arrogance. If she responds positively, ask her name and if you could call her in the future.

Then, when you call, act confident and speak with kind confidence.

Be wary though: be careful not to come across as insecure or self-centered.

Cancer women are highly intuitive and can sense when a guy is being too cocky or self-centered, even if it’s unintentional.

It simply means being confident in yourself and who you are.

It does not even mean having nice things like clothes, a car, or money.

Just you knowing your self-worth is enough to bring out that confidence in you.

Be easy to talk to and make her feel special. Be attentive and try not to rush her.

Be confident in yourself and your abilities but don’t brag about it.

She likes you because she can tell that you’re a strong, confident person.

2) Be mysterious.

Cancer women love a bit of mystery in their lives, so keep them curious!

Just be careful not to overdo it if you are going for more than a friendship with her.

For example, when you introduce yourself to a Cancer woman, don’t tell her your last name.

Instead, use nicknames or let her guess where you’re from or what you do for a living.

Just give her enough to let her know that there’s something intriguing about you that she has to find out more about.

For example, tell her your first name and where you are from, but not what you do for a living.

Or be vague about your job like telling her that you work in the creative industry or that you work with the arts.

Another way to be mysterious is to ask a question that makes her wonder who you are talking about.

Then give her just enough information so she can guess who it is but still will want to find out more about you.

Being secretive makes a Cancer woman more intrigued and curious about who you are.

It will also keep her on the edge of her seat and make you more appealing than if you come across as too outgoing.

This will help you win her heart and she will want to know more about you.

3) Don’t be needy.

Cancer women do not respond well to needy men.

They like the chase and they like to play the chase, not the chase and run.

This is because Cancer women can sense when you’re needy, and it makes them uncomfortable.

Once they are uncomfortable with you, they will usually look elsewhere.

It’s okay to seek her out in a flirtatious way (as long as it feels natural), but don’t come on too strong and needy.

Instead, show her that you have something going for you in your life.

For example, if you’re in college, let her know that you like to be involved in some campus organization or a club.

Or if you are already working, there have to be days when you are busy and can’t meet with her.

This will let them know that there’s more going on in your life than what they’ve already seen.

Also, you have to give her time for herself too.

Make sure that you let her know you understand the situation and don’t come across as needy or clingy in any way.

Remember, she likes a little mystery in her life, but not too much mystery that will make her feel uncomfortable and insecure.

It will make you more appealing to her than the guy who sits around and is always on the prowl for a date.

It will give her the impression that you are responsible for dealing with the other areas of your life.

4) Have a sense of humor.

Can we all agree that women love men with a good sense of humor?

However, it’s not just about being funny and playful.

You need to have a good wit too.

Cancer women like to make jokes and laugh, so you have to show a sense of humor.

It does not need to be funny or raunchy though, so don’t role-play dirty jokes with her!

It’s more about being able to keep a sense of humor, and that means being able to take a joke.

For example, if she is eating something strange on the way home from work one night, make a joke out of it.

She will appreciate it and laugh, which means the less she’s eating strange stuff, the better.

But don’t overdo this. You don’t want to come across as manipulative and insensitive!

Give her small jabs in your conversations and let her know that you’re down with the jokes and able to take a joke.

When you crack her up with your sense of humor, she will find it hard not to like you.

This is because Cancer women love to laugh and like to be around people who make them feel safe.

They are also attracted to people who have a sense of humor because it makes them feel more relaxed and confident around you.

So just be yourself and let her see that you have a good sense of humor, but not too much or she will find you creepy.

5) Be kind and courteous.

Cancer women like to be treated with kindness and courtesy.

I mean, who doesn’t?

They also appreciate it when someone is good to their friends and family.

They love a guy who’s kind to the people around them.

If you can show her that you are kind and courteous to the people around you, she will wonder what she’s missing out on.

She will want to see more of your personality by getting into your life a little more, which means getting closer to you.

Cancer women can be cold to some people, especially if they are not confident or are too needy in their approach.

Therefore, you have to let them know that you will not be that way with them.

A great way of letting her know this is by being outgoing and making her feel special by being polite, kind, and courteous to her.

When she sees that you are respectful and willing to show her a good time, she will become attracted to you.

She wants a man who is courteous and kind because these qualities make her feel protected and made comfortable with being around you.

Kindness truly goes a long way!

It can even get you a Cancer woman’s – or any woman’s- heart.

6) Be open-minded.

This is another quality that Cancer women desire in a man.

Cancer women like people who are not judgmental or close-minded.

They want someone who will listen to them and let them know that they can trust you with their secrets.

These women love to be surrounded by people who have an open mind and are willing to share their thoughts or ideas.

They can also be trusting of men and sometimes let them get close to their personal lives.

But then again, this will depend on the person as well as their current circumstances and relationships with the people close to them.

But if you want to get closer to a Cancer woman, you have to be open-minded and not judgmental.

It’s okay if you do not agree with what she says.

You may have different ideas and opinions and that should be okay.

You agree to disagree and respect each other’s stand on things.

What matters most is how you show her that you are open-minded, and they will appreciate this in a man.

This is because Cancer women are open and accepting people.

They want a man who can listen to the things that they believe in, even if they disagree with them.

This will let her know that you are not judgmental and more open-minded than she originally thought.

You also have to show some respect for them and not take what they say personally.

You will win her over with your understanding personality and willingness to listen to her.

She needs to feel like she can be herself around you and that you are not judging her.

7) Be willing to try new things with her.

Since Cancer women are open-minded, they are willing to try new things.

They love a man who will do something new for them and with them.

For example, if you have a book that she enjoys reading and it’s on your bookshelf, hand her the book and ask her to read it.

She will be appreciative and also let you know that she will like you more because you tried something new for her.

If she has a hobby such as skiing, diving, or swimming, then ask her out and go on a date with her to do those things.

Know what activities she likes and try doing them with her. It could be as simple as going for a bike ride, playing a sport, or even dancing with her.

You must show her that you are willing to try something new with her to get closer to them.

She will appreciate your effort and the time you spend time together will greatly deepen your relationship with her.

Cancer women love to try new things too and love people who can do the same.

Believe me, she’ll fall for you easily with this one.

We have covered half of the things to do. Read along for more.

8) Be Honest.

This is an essential quality that most Cancer women are looking for.

Cancer women are very sensitive, nice, and caring people. They always look over the best interests of others before their own.

They love to be around people who can reciprocate these qualities and be honest with them.

For a Cancerian, honesty is the foundation of any relationship.

Make sure that your partner always knows that they can trust and rely on you to tell them the truth.

Be honest and straightforward when dealing with her and others.

Cancer women will appreciate it if you treat everyone with respect and you aren’t afraid to be blunt and upfront about your feelings.

They will be appreciative that you treat them with the same respect that they treat you with.

They like a man who treats them like an equal and not just a friend or a “sister”.

If you are upfront, she will feel more confident in your relationship.

She will have no reservations if she knows you will always tell her the truth.

9) Make plans, she hates last-minute things!

When you are dating a cancer woman, she wants to know if you have a plan for the date or outing.

She will be nervous if you tell her that it’s last minute and that you’ll just meet up with her and go get some ice cream.

This is because a Cancer woman is also organized.

So make sure to make plans with her; not only are they appreciated, but it helps give you more of a chance to get to know each other better.

She knows that things may come up in your busy schedule but the more you let her know about the things that are going on in your life, the better it will be for both of you.

Cancer women hate last-minute plans, so it is best to keep a day or two open for her.

You will be able to see her more and it makes the relationship that much better.

Be sure to tell her about the things you have going on in your life, she would like to know that you think of her often.

Telling her in advance will make her feel that her opinion is considered.

Make sure that you give her as much notice as possible.

It will help her to plan around your busy schedule and be able to make plans with you.

It doesn’t have to be fancy or anything, just something small.

10) Be a gentleman.

Cancer women love gentlemen.

She wants you to open her doors, pull out her chair, hold her hand, and make sure she is comfortable first before worrying about anything else.

Cancer women also like to be treated like a lady and this is something that most men tend to overlook, even though they are being polite.

They can be very warm and affectionate, but when it comes down to it, they have the same likes and dislikes as any other girl.

So what can you do?

If you want her to feel special when you go out with her on a date or just hang out at home, then take your time and be gentle with her.

They won’t mind cooking dinner for you or doing something around the house if they know you appreciate them.

Just get to know them enough so you will be able to give them the best gifts and surprises.

Make sure that they are comfortable before anything else.

You can help her feel cherished and loved by making her feel like a lady during your date.

Cancer women are very affectionate and love to be treated with respect.

11) Take her on an adventure date surrounded by nature.

A Cancer woman loves the outdoors, especially when it’s in a natural setting such as a park or hiking trail.

It also makes her feel more pampered and taken care of especially if she is feeling a little down on herself.

You might want to do these things on your date.

  • Plan a picnic or small getaway with her that takes place in an area where you can enjoy nature together.
  • Splurge and buy her flowers, she will definitely love them.
  • Take her on a walk or hike in a national park.
  • These are things that you should consider doing on your date.

A natural environment is relaxing and helps you to be more mindful.

Cancer women love being there with you enjoying the sound of nature and the weather, so don’t be afraid to go all out.

12) Let her know that you support her.

Cancer women are very emotional and sensitive when it comes to feelings and personal matters.

They are warm, caring, and loving people who will do anything for those they care about.

So they like knowing that you are there for them, even if they are upset or sad.

They will want to know that you care enough not to be judgmental when they are going through something rough.

You can make her feel special by letting her know that you will support her in any situation.

This is something a Cancerian craves in a man and it is one of the most important things to do when dating one of them.

If you are going to date a Cancer woman, then you have to genuinely care about her and her feelings.

Trust that she will tell you if something is wrong and she will appreciate it if you can lend an ear when she needs some advice.

Be supportive of her decisions in all situations because even though they are emotional, they can be independent and strong-minded.

13) Be patient and slow down, they love to take things slow.

Now, listen very carefully.

The last thing you want to do is rush a Cancer woman.

They take things at their own pace and what they think is best for them.

You have to be patient with your date so she can get comfortable being with you and also let you know that she likes you.

They will tell you if they are feeling something for you but if it takes her a while then she just might still be getting to know you.

It is best to be patient, take it slow, and let them come to you.

As the saying goes, patience is a virtue.

14) Keep communication open as much as possible.

A Cancer woman expects to be told that everything is okay because she feels like she has a right to know what is going on in your life.

They hate any type of closed-off communication with someone they are dating.

They feel like they need to tell you everything and confide in you.

It doesn’t have to be anything too personal.

Maybe it is something that was going on in her life or something that she has seen on TV or something funny that she wants to share with you.

You also have to share a bit of yourself with them.

They don’t want to know everything, they want to know what’s important and what they can handle.

And lastly,

15) Love them unconditionally.

Their hearts are very sensitive to the world and those around them.

You have to let her know you love her for who she is without any type of judgment.

They don’t want to be told what to do, but they want someone who will accept them for who they are.

They like it when you ask questions about their feelings instead of telling them how they should be feeling.

A Cancer woman will appreciate knowing that she is loved for who she is and that she doesn’t need to change for anyone.

If you can do this, she should be able to completely open up to you and trust that you will always be there for her no matter what.

In conclusion,

If you want a cancer woman to fall head over heels for you, then you have to consider the things mentioned above.

She will return the favor with her unconditional love when she decides she is ready to date you and let you know that this relationship is going to work out.

I hope you enjoyed this article.

Please share this with your friends who are looking for a Cancerian girlfriend.

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Jude Paler

Jude Paler

I am a poet with a positive outlook in life and a writer with a purpose in mind. I write to express my thoughts so that others will be inspired.

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