12 tips to manifest your ex back when he has a girlfriend

The art of manifesting your ex back is not an easy task.

But it is not impossible either.

Here are some of the most important tips that will help you get your ex back, even though he has a girlfriend:

1) Before we begin: do you really want them back or are you just lonely?

Okay, I know you probably don’t want to hear this but here we go:

Before you go about manifesting your ex back even though he has a new girlfriend, make sure that this is really what you want.

You see, manifestations come true if done correctly, so you should be 100% convinced that this is something you want before you go manifesting your ex back.

This is a bit tricky because it will require you to be 100% honest with yourself.

Are you just bored and lonely?

You see, manifesting your ex back is not easy.

But it is not impossible either.

The true meaning of manifesting is to make things happen, and the most important thing that you need to do for this manifestation is to be completely honest with yourself about why you really want them back.

Think about it: manifesting your ex back will result in him breaking up with his current girlfriend to be with you.

Now, if that is his own decision, there is nothing wrong with it, but make sure that you know you won’t get bored after 2 months and break up with him again.

If you are bored, then you should stop manifesting him back.

Everything that happens in your life is a result of your own actions, and manifesting your ex back for the wrong reasons will only result in you getting into a bad relationship with him again.

So, be honest with yourself and do not manifest him back unless you are 100% sure this is what you want.

On that note:

2) Make sure your intentions are pure – the law of attraction will bring back anything you send out (even negative things)

The first thing you need to do is make sure your intentions are pure.

This means that your focus should be on getting him back, not revenge or anything else.

When you’re manifesting, the law of attraction will bring back anything you send out (even negative things).

So if you have any other intentions, your efforts will not be as effective and might even bring you bad luck!

You see, I know at the top of your mind you might be thinking “I just want my ex back!”, but dig a bit deeper and make sure that there’s not a part of you that is jealous that he found someone new already.

Turns out that if you manifest something for the wrong reasons and with evil intentions, that won’t end well for you.

You see, the law of attraction is a very powerful force and the results will be the same no matter what you do.

So make sure that your intentions are pure and that you’re not sending out negative vibes to him or anything else like that.

Also, it’s important to note that if you’re manifesting for revenge or because of jealousy, it will only result in negative things for you in the long run.

3) What would a gifted advisor say?

The points in this article will give you a good idea of how to manifest your ex to come back.

But what if you’d like advice tailored to your unique situation?

A gifted advisor can answer all sorts of questions and give you the guidance you’re searching for.

Like, how can you make him come back to you? Will he break up with his girlfriend?

When I spoke to someone from Psychic Source after going through a rough patch in my relationship, they really helped me out.

After months of not feeling like myself, I was finally able to see my situation with better clarity and direction.

Not to mention, I was extremely impressed by how kind, empathetic, and understanding of my unique situation they were.

Click here to get your own reading.

In a reading, a gifted advisor can tell you how to manifest correctly, and most importantly, empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your life.

4) Get very clear about what you want to manifest

One of the most important things that you can do is to get very clear about what it is that you want to manifest.

This is the first step of the actual manifestation progress and one that should not be skipped.

Do you want your ex back? What kind of relationship do you want with him?

You see, in order for a manifestation to be effective, you need to be 100% certain of what you want to attract.

So, how can you go about this?

I always like to start by writing down 3 different things.

First, write down a bullet point list of all the details you are trying to manifest.

For example:

  • he loves me
  • he treats me well
  • he left his girlfriend for me
  • he is loyal
  • he makes me feel like a queen
  • he buys me flowers once a week
  • etc.

Get as detailed as you can and have fun with this process. Truly imagine what you want to manifest in front of you.

Be sure to write down all the details no matter how small or silly they seem.

This is the most important step in manifesting your ex back because it’s here that you will start to get clear on what it is that you’re truly looking for.

Once you have written down everything in detail, move on to the next step.

Write a bullet point list of all the emotions you will experience once your manifestation comes true:

  • I feel loved
  • I feel appreciated
  • I feel safe
  • etc.

Arguably, this step is even more important, as your emotions are what will essentially help you make your manifestation come true!

Lastly, you can write a little diary entry in which you write in the present tense as if your manifestation has come true already.

For example:

I can’t believe it. He actually broke up with his girlfriend and wants to be with me. Ever since we’ve been back together, I have been feeling so safe and happy. He treats me well and makes me feel like a queen. I love him so much!

The above example is just one way of manifesting your ex back, but it’s a great start to get you started.

This is the most fun part of manifesting your ex back because it will allow you to actually see how your manifestation will be coming true.

5) Identify your limiting beliefs

Before you start manifesting your ex back, you’ll want to identify any limiting beliefs that may be holding you back from attracting him.

This includes thoughts like: “He will never want me back,” “I’m not good enough,” or “he’s happy with his new girlfriend.”

The more aware you are of these beliefs, the easier it will be to release them.

Limiting beliefs are essentially beliefs you have about yourself that are “negative self-talk.”

They can be anything from “I am not good enough” to “he is happy with someone else.”

What they all have in common is that they are absolutely not true.

You see, oftentimes they stem from past experiences or childhood wounds that have created a deep-rooted belief that you’re not good enough to get what you want.

In order to release these limiting beliefs, you need to challenge them.

Write down all of the limiting beliefs that are holding you back from attracting your ex back.

Once you’ve written down all of your limiting beliefs, take some time to think about them and what they mean to you personally.

This is where the fun begins because now it’s time for you to uncover the truth behind these limiting beliefs.

Remember, it’s not about getting rid of your past wounds or anything like that, but rather allowing yourself to see the truth behind them so that you can finally let them go!

This step is important because it will allow you to move past any limiting beliefs that are holding you back from attracting your ex back.

And the best part?

This will not only help you with manifestation but also with leading a happier life!

6) Use affirmations for love

Affirmations for love help you to keep the focus on him.

These affirmations will make it easier to get rid of limiting beliefs and they will keep your vibrations high throughout the day.

Affirmations are basically just positive statements that you repeat to yourself over and over.

They help you to focus on the things that you want in life.

These affirmations will keep you focused on the positive aspects of your relationship and will help you to stay in a state of good vibes throughout the day.

When it comes down to it, affirmations for love are basically just positive thinking techniques that will help you attract your ex back!

Some good examples are:

  • I am loveable
  • I am worthy of receiving love
  • I open my heart
  • I trust that love will come into my life
  • Love comes to me with ease
  • I trust that the universe will give me love
  • etc.

7) Visualize it

Visualization is one of the most important aspects of manifestation.

This is where it gets fun and where the magic happens.

In order to visualize, simply imagine exactly what your future with your ex will look like.

The more detail you can put into your thoughts, the better.

You want this to become as real as possible so that you don’t have to question the validity of your thoughts.

Imagine what you will be doing on a day-to-day basis, how that will feel, and how great it is.

This will help you get into a happier state of mind.

A great way to support your visualization is by using a vision board.

A vision board is when you create a collage with pictures and positive affirmations of your ex.

This will serve as a visual reminder that you won’t forget, and it will help you to stay focused on the positive aspects of your relationship.

The more detail you can put into your vision board, the more powerful it will be.

You could create a literal board, or you can make a collage on your phone and set it as your lock screen.

You see, you don’t even have to use pictures of your ex, you could also use things that represent your future relationship with him, like a beach that you will go on vacation to.

Visualization should be done as often as possible throughout the day, so a vision board can help remind you of that!

I mentioned earlier how speaking to a gifted advisor can reveal the truth about manifestation.

Rather than just analyzing the signs in the hopes of getting answers, a gifted advisor can give you real clarity on your situation.

And the best part of speaking to the folks at Psychic Source?

Not only can they give you guidance on how to manifest your ex to come back, but they can empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your love life.

Click here to get your own love reading.

8) Make sure you don’t forget to feel what it will be like when your manifestation comes true

This is an important tip to remember. If you don’t feel the feeling of your manifestation, you will never really experience what it feels like when it comes true.

You will have doubts and worries about whether it will happen or not.

This will only get in your way and prevent you from progressing in the manifestation process.

So make sure you keep yourself focused on how good it will feel when your ex comes back to you.

Why is this so important?

Well, when you let yourself experience the emotions of your manifestations, you are putting yourself on the same energetic wavelength as what you are trying to manifest.

This is where the magic of manifestation happens.

If you remember – like attracts like – so the more you feel it, the quicker you will attract it!

You are no longer thinking about your ex, but about how great it will feel to be with him again.

So make sure you keep yourself focused on how good it will feel when your ex comes back to you.

This is where your bullet point list from earlier will come in handy – focus on the emotions you have written down and really try to feel them in your heart!

9) Meditate on it

The first thing you need to do is stop obsessing over your ex.

It sounds counterintuitive, but it will help you take a step back from the whole situation and make better decisions.

Meditation is a powerful way of detaching yourself from your thoughts and feelings.

You can use meditation for anything in life – for focusing on the now and for manifesting your ex back.

It’s very simple to meditate these days, all you need to do is find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed, sit comfortably with your eyes closed, and focus on your breathing.

Once you feel calm, turn your attention to the person in question – visualize them in your mind while imagining what they would say if they were there with you right now.

While you are in meditation, manifestation works even better than at any other point, because your subconscious is in a very receptive state of mind!

You’re on the right track and it won’t be long before he comes back into your life.

10) Practice more gratitude

This is an extra step that will help you make your manifestation come true even quicker:

Practice more gratitude.

You see, when you are grateful for what you already have in your life, it will be easier to attract even more into it!

This means, being grateful for all the little things in your life, like:

  • a soft bed
  • a warm coffee
  • your family
  • etc.

Maybe you can even keep a gratitude journal to help you stay focused on being grateful.

The more you focus on how amazing your life already is, the easier it will be to manifest your ex to come back into your life!

Gratitude is one of the highest vibrating emotions, so it will put you on the perfect frequency to manifest.

11) Trust the universe and let go of expectations

The most important tip is to trust the universe and let go of expectations.

Trust that everything happens for a reason, even if you don’t know what it means.

You might think he’ll come back eventually, but the truth is that it could happen tomorrow or years from now. T

his will be the hardest tip to put into practice.

It’s natural to want to control things and have expectations of how they should turn out.

When you let go of expectations, you can enjoy your present moment more fully.

You are free from worry and anxiety. You are at peace with what has already transpired in your life, which allows you to live more fully in the now.

You see, when you have expectations, like when your manifestation should come true or how it should happen, you are sabotaging yourself!

Manifestation is all about trusting the universe completely and knowing without a doubt that what you want will come true if you just wait for it patiently.

Allow your ex to come back into your life.

You don’t need to force him to come back, because you are already ready for him.

You have been waiting for him for a long time and you’re ready now.

The universe has brought him back into your life because you are ready – he’s been there all along!

Surrendering and letting go is the most important step of manifestation – it will help you bring it all together.

However, I have one piece of news that might not be the best to hear:

12) Remember – people have free will so it might not always work

The first thing you should remember is that it will not always work.

The art of manifesting your ex back doesn’t guarantee results.

The most important part is to keep in mind that if you want to get your ex back, it’s not just about taking the necessary steps, but also about having him take the necessary steps as well.

That being said, when you go about it correctly, no matter what your ex ends up doing, you will be happy.

You see, you are manifesting love into your life – a love that transcends anything else you’ve ever experienced before.

So, in case his free will actually stop him from coming back to you, you probably won’t even notice anymore because someone else will have come into your life who will make up for all of his shortcomings.

You will be happy because you will have another chance to manifest love in your life.

The universe knows that you are ready for this new love and it is bringing him into your life to help you manifest it.

This helps bring more positive energy into the situation and helps you appreciate what you have now rather than wishing for what used to be.

Are you ready to try it out?

With all of the tips and tricks, you are now prepared to manifest your ex back into your life.

Apart from all the tips, please remember to make sure that this is actually what you want to manifest, and that your intentions going into this are pure.

No matter what happens, when you do this correctly, you will manifest love into your life in a way that you never thought possible.

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. They’ve consistently helped me in the past when I’ve felt stuck in a rut.

That’s why I always recommend them to anyone facing issues with manifesting.

Their advisors can help you get to the root of your problems and guide you in making empowered decisions about your future.

When I got recently signed up for a love reading, I was blown away by how kind and genuinely helpful they were.

Click here to get your own love reading.

Anna Scheucher

Anna Scheucher

Freelance writer specializing in holistic health, wellness, and psychology. Check out my blog to find out more https://www.fullyholistic.com/!

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