10 hidden reasons why you dream of someone who did you wrong

Dreams are often used as a way to look deeper into ourselves.

This can be used to help better understand our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

If you’re wondering why you keep dreaming of someone who did you wrong, here are 10 hidden reasons:

1) You still want to be close to them

One of the most common reasons why people dream about those who have hurt them is because they still want to be close to them.

They may miss the person, even if they did something terrible to them.

It’s not uncommon for people to keep in touch with someone who has hurt them, even when it is unhealthy for their own well-being.

Whether or not it would be healthy for you to be close to them again is up to your own discernment.

This applies to relationships as well as friendships.

Sometimes it can be confusing when you still want to be close to someone who wronged you.

In my own experience, it can feel like you can’t trust your intuition.

However, take this dream as a sign from your subconscious that a small part of you might just miss them.

That doesn’t mean you need to be together again, but instead, it means you might still want to be close to them.

Sometimes, if you’ve been hurt in the past or have been hurt in a relationship, staying away from that person can help ease your pain.

Maybe you’re not over the hurt yet and you’re holding onto the feeling through dreams.

It’s okay to feel this way.

Make space for your feelings and then let them go.

2) The dream shows you a part of you

Dreams are often used as a way to look deeper into ourselves.

This can be used to help better understand our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

If you’re wondering why you keep dreaming of someone who did you wrong, the dream may show that there is an issue that needs to be addressed in your waking life.

The person from the dream may represent something about yourself that you have been struggling with or are having difficulty expressing.

The dreams may also highlight a feeling of guilt or regret you might be going through.

You may be trying to avoid something or someone in your waking life who reminds you of this person from the dream.

This can be useful to help you see what is going on for you and why you are having these dreams.

Analyze the dream and maybe it will show you something about yourself.

3) The dream shows you a part of you that needs healing

When you dream about someone who did you wrong, it’s often to show you a part of yourself that needs healing.

This person may be someone who you’re still holding onto anger and resentment for, or it could be a symbol for something else entirely.

Perhaps some aspect of yourself is wounded and your subconscious is showing you one person who hurt you to basically ask for help.

Try to go inward and identify if there is some part of you that could use some healing.

Working with a psychic, coach, or therapist can really help with this!

The points in this article will give you a good idea of what your dreams might mean.

But what if you’d like advice tailored to your unique situation?

A gifted advisor can answer all sorts of questions and give you the guidance you’re searching for.

Like, are you over them? Are you meant to be with them?

When I spoke to someone from Psychic Source after going through a rough patch in my relationship, they really helped me out.

After months of not having weird dreams, I was finally able to see my situation with better clarity and direction.

Not to mention, I was extremely impressed by how kind, empathetic, and understanding of my unique situation they were.

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In a reading, an gifted advisor can tell you what your dreams mean, and most importantly, empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your life.

4) You need to resolve your issue with them

The reason you keep dreaming about this person could be because you have unfinished business with them in real life.

You may still be hurt or angry for what happened, so your subconscious is trying to help you find a resolution.

You see, even if someone has done you wrong and you want to keep them out of your life forever, a part of you might not find peace until the issue is resolved.

That’s okay!

You don’t have to be in a relationship with that person.

It’s okay to want to keep them out of your life.

What you need to do is find a way to balance the pain, hurt, or anger you feel toward them.

You can do this by talking to a friend, writing down your feelings or thoughts, starting a journal, or going into therapy if it is needed.

If it fits your situation, you might even want to reach out to them and talk things out.

Tell them that you don’t want them back in your life but that a part of you would really appreciate some closure.

5) You want revenge on them for hurting you in the past

Another reason this person keeps showing up in your dreams could be that you want revenge on them for hurting you in the past.

This could mean that you are still holding a grudge against them for causing you pain or making you feel less than perfect.

It may also mean that you have unresolved feelings about the way they treated you and the way they acted toward you.

If this is the case, it’s okay to express your feelings to them as long as it doesn’t cause any more harm.

I know, the thought of getting back at someone can feel oh so delicious, especially when they caused you a lot of pain.

But if there is one thing I’ve learned, it’s that giving in to that desire and getting revenge will not feel as good as you’d imagined.

In the end, all it does is make you feel guilty and lower your vibration.

What can you do instead?

You can work on finding healthy coping mechanisms to deal with anger and resentment.

For example:

  • You can journal about your feelings.
  • You can meditate to clear your mind of negative thoughts and emotions.
  • You can do yoga or exercise to get rid of tension in your body.
  • You can talk to a professional therapist who specializes in working with people who are still holding onto anger and resentment from the past.

All of these things will help you let go of this pain in healthy ways.

6) There is an internal conflict within you that you need to deal with

One of the most popular explanations for dreaming about someone who hurt you is that there is an internal conflict within you that needs to be resolved.

You may feel angry with this person in your day-to-day life, but when you dream about them, it’s a way to express the anger you can’t express in reality.

By dreaming about this person, you’re able to relieve some of your inner tension and make peace with what has happened.

You may not want to confront the person who hurt you because it will be too difficult or because you might get hurt again.

But by dreaming about them, your emotions are relieved so you can move on.

There might be an inner conflict that needs to be addressed, and your dream is doing just that.

Dreams can also be a way to experience emotions that you would not normally express in reality.

You might be afraid of being hurt by this person again, so your dream is helping you to experience those feelings and move on.

What if there was an easy way to face and heal your inner struggles without just relying on dreams?

After I felt pain and betrayal from my ex best friend, dreams kept reminding me of those emotions.

I then found a free Self-Healing Meditation that helped me face and understand my feelings more deeply, allowing me to truly heal.

Yes, your dreams are your mind’s way of saying you need to find peace and sort things out.

But instead of waiting for another dream, why not take a step forward?

This meditation will guide you, making it simple to look inside your heart and mind.

It’s not just about breathing; it’s about diving into your feelings and understanding them.

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7) There are other symbols in the dream

Sure, you’re dreaming about a person who did you wrong, but, there could be other symbols in your dream that need to be analyzed.

The person in the dream might represent something else, like a feeling or a past event.

You see, dreams are very subjective, and more often than not, the people we see in them don’t represent the literal people in real life.

Think about your dream as a whole: were there any other elements in there that you didn’t pay close attention to?

More often than not, analyzing all the details of your dream will give you an insight into what your dream actually meant for you.

Spoiler alert: it’s often not the person you were dreaming about.

8) They are really your soulmate

It’s possible that this person is your soulmate and you’re struggling to let go.

When someone is on our mind constantly, it may be because we feel a deeper connection with them than with others.

This is why they are the one who appears in our dreams – they are the ones we can’t stop thinking about even though they did you wrong.

This doesn’t mean that you need to get back together, but it’s possible that this person is deeply tied to your life and has been for some time.

You may want to explore what these feelings of connection mean for you now, even if the relationship ended badly.

It could lead to insights about your own emotions and how you handle things when relationships sour.

9) You still love them

If you were in a relationship before, dreams could signify that you still love the person who did you wrong.

This may be because you’re hoping to fix your relationship and understand why they behaved in a way that hurt you.

Love is complex, and sometimes even hurtful behavior isn’t enough to stop it.

If that’s the case for you, ask yourself what it is you want out of this situation.

Do you want to get back together? Do you want to be friends? Or do you just want to be on good terms with one another?

Whatever is the case, make sure that you accept your feelings and don’t suppress them.

It’s not weak to still love someone who has done you wrong.

If you are able to forgive them, you have the power to live in peace and freedom.

Maybe talking to an advisor can give you more clarity on this.

Rather than just analyzing the signs in the hopes of getting answers, a gifted advisor can give you real clarity on your situation.

And the best part of speaking to the folks at Psychic Source?

Not only can they give you guidance on what your dreams mean, but they can empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your love life.

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10) The dream signifies that you finally forgive them

The dream could signify that you forgive the person who did you wrong.

A lot of people are stuck in the past and refuse to move on from what happened.

This can be due to a fear of being hurt again or anger towards the other person who did them wrong.

Dreams are often used as a way to represent what’s on your mind and give insight into your feelings.

If you’re dreaming of someone who did you wrong, it may be time to move on and forgive them.

That’s good news!

You see, forgiving is super crucial, even if you don’t plan on ever having this person back in your life.

Forgiving is a great step towards healing and moving forward.

Don’t be afraid to forgive – you can do it!

It’s possible that you may have been holding onto some negative feelings toward this person for a long time.

If you’re not sure how to move on, talk to an expert or to some friends about it.

It’s important to forgive people who did you wrong because there’s power in forgiveness!

Only you can know

There are many reasons why a person who wronged you might show up in your dreams.

In the end, you are the only one who can really know the truth.

Go inward and ask your intuition what this means about you and the situation.

I promise you will gain more insight into what this means for you.

And if you need some help with that?

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. They’ve consistently helped me in the past when I’ve felt stuck in a rut.

That’s why I always recommend them to anyone facing issues with their dreams.

Their advisors can help you get to the root of your problems and guide you in making empowered decisions about your future.

When I got recently signed up for a love reading, I was blown away by how kind and genuinely helpful they were.

Click here to get your own love reading.

Anna Scheucher

Anna Scheucher

Freelance writer specializing in holistic health, wellness, and psychology. Check out my blog to find out more https://www.fullyholistic.com/!

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